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Kia, 45
United States, South Carolina, Chesterfield

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About Me

I’m a fun, easy-going gal who doesn’t sweat the small stuff. I don’t have time for drama or game playing. I’m a very busy single mom and career woman looking for a special someone to compliment me and to share life’s day to day simple joys with. I have a silly sense of humor and hope to find someone who can appreciate my jokes and can also make me laugh. After all, laughter is the best medicine! I have sole custody of my preschool age daughter, and I’d really like to meet someone who’s weekends are free to spend time with, but is also willing to accept my daughter and I as a package deal. If you also have young kids, I'd welcome them as well. So, if you enjoy doing kid-’s happy meals (and an occasional grown-up night out), then we may have some common interests. I’m also a big fan of variety and not doing the same thing all the time. What I hope to find from this site is to meet someone I can get to know, build a solid friendship with, in the hopes that a long term committed relationship would evolve. I want someone to spend quality time with and work towards the next phase of our lives. I am a happy, independent woman who is by no means needy, but just believes that life can be more fulfilling when shared with a special someone…someone to laugh with, cry with, to love and be loved by, share and build dreams together, and maybe possibly even grow old with. If you’d like to learn more about me, please drop me a line.P.S. My faith is important to me so I would prefer someone who is Christian.To get past the awkward stage of starting conversation, feel free to share with me your thoughts on some of these fun topics and I can share my thoughts as well.1. When I dine out, I like to go to:2. Places I’ve vacationed and what I liked about it:3. Where I would like to travel to and why:4. What a day/evening looks like when I spend it at home:5. The best thing about my job / career is:6. When watching TV, I like to watch:7. Some of my goals and dreams include:8. My reason behind signing up on this dating site:9. When I retire, I look forward to spending my time doing: Meet for coffee, soda, icecream, a cold beer, or pizza. Someplace quiet to talk and get to know one another and see if we 'click'.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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