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Beatris, 43
United States, South Carolina, Central

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I'm a single mom of one terrific daughter. I've been divorced a while now and just recently ended a long-term relationship. I am looking for some fun, flirting, a good time that could maybe turn into something more serious after a while. I am in no rush. I like guys who work for a living, not into people who are super intellectual and not down to earth. I live in the real world and it can be tough, so I like to be around people who understand that. No one hands you anything for free, you've got to work hard, especially to take care of the ones you love, like my girl! I do everything for her, she comes first. I work for a really nice spa and also in the medical field. It's very rewarding helping people relax and feel good. I love to cook, do art projects with my daughter who is a wonderful artist, go to the beach and would love to find a guy who wants to be at home with a nice woman like me who will take really good care of him!*****I should update this on the kind of man I am seeking, sorry I did not mean to lead anyone on, I am not interested in guys much older than me, just in someone around my age, so from late thirties to early forties please. I'm a very practical person and guys in their fifties and sixties are not right for me since we don't have that much in common. I've only ever been with guys my own age. Thank you for understanding.*****I do not date black guys. Just letting you know. You all seem very nice and thanks for messaging me but I am not interested..*****If you message me and just say hi or good morning I will not respond. I'm not trying to be disrespectful or anything here but come on guys - at least make a half-hearted effort at being INTERESTING! I want to meet/date and not just chat but seriously I will want to talk to you first a bit before I meet you. That's the whole point of getting to know someone. Also I'm not about to bring just anyone into my world and that of my daughter.Here are a few helpful tips for guys: I don't care to see you in a photo holding a fish, a pet, your child or a dead animal. This doesn't turn me on or make me think you are interesting.I don't care to see you scowling into a camera like its a mug shot. It's just creepy. If you cannot smile then try at least to look happy. Think happy thoughts!Don't put your children in your photos - ever! As a parent you should already know this!Please take off your sunglasses!If you cannot manage to write a paragraph about yourself then I don't hold out much hope that you are going to be interesting to talk to.Don't include pictures where I have no idea who you are and you have to say - I'm the one in the blue shirt. If it isn't important to you to project well in your pics then it tells me you are not terribly interested in finding a person to share your life with.Frat boy pics of you on your boat, drinking with your buddies etc - are embarrassing enough in your twenties but come on men - in your FORTIES?When you write to a woman please speak in complete sentences. Don't just say HEY - hey what? Hey am I going to fall over my feet to write back to you? Uh, NO.I don't care about your bank account, your stocks, your assets etc. But please, you have to have a job - that is non-negotiable. If I would not like you as a friend I will not fall in love with you. Plain and simple. This should be something we decide together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Mexican Spanish Action Adult History Thriller Dance Drag Racing
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