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Steffanie, 44

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About Me

I SO DO NOT MEAN THIS IN A RUDE WAY...But i am just Not into white men guys...When in a relationship, i believe that one should never ask of ones partner anything she isn't willing to give herself. For ***, I have a strict honesty policy, and I would never put up with being cheated on. But I won't lie to, or cheat on my man if I have one. I feel that I am a bit old fashioned in that I have strong ideas as to how "a woman should be to her man", but remember I expect no less of my man. If two people have these very important things, then happiness can be achieved. Without these things, there Is No Relationship at all.I study Alot, I attend college classes in the evenings. And on occasion I would like to get out on the weekends and decompress. I am a nature nut, but not a tree-hugger. I grew up in the 80's, so I'm sort of an odd girl...but still a Lady.If you want to know more, ask me... I like a first date to be a nice meal, and good conversation. (That means we both talk by the way.) maybe even a long walk along a beach, that's always beautiful. But if we get to a first date, we will have already talked about how it should be by then. But guys listen, "first dates" are to try and find out if we are compatable, not for sex. I Am a Lady after all, and if you treat me like a Lady I will treat you like a Gentleman.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cassondra

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a very personable, fun, outgoing, love a sense of adventure and the ukn., amusement parks, fishing, the beach, all types of music, country is my favorite, but im constantly "flipping" that dial, I shoot pool, like Nascar, water/snow ski, Vegas, travel, but also enjoy quiet adult time, as well as a very famility orientated Single Mom. I love concerts and outdoor festivals of all types. Dinner, casual walk down at the park near the lake, maybe amusement park, outdoor restuarant on the water, or surprise me!!

  • Divina

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Looking for a soul connectionAbout Me: I believe in the power of love. Soul connection, Harmony, Energy, Flow. I value courage and vulnerability. I am deeply exploring myself and how I am in the world. I value my connection with nature. I need to have together time, and apart time. I connect well through touch, but without a mind,spirit and purpose connection I will remain happily single and exploring the possibilities. I am kind, generous, honest and practical. I cook, garden, dance, bake, play, do yoga, travel, write, express, build and connect. I am strong both physically and emotionally. I am active and in excellent health. I have a very large heart, I smile with my eyes. I need to be seen for who I am in my duality of inner fragile girl and outer bold adventurous woman. I like to be challenged and introduced to new ideas and skills. Life excites me. I like secondhand & thrift shops and would rather spend my money on experiences and trips rather than things. I have plenty of 'stuff' already. It is my desire to leave every person I encounter better than they were before. I can only accomplish this with loveAbout you: Believe in love. Soul connections, Harmony, energy, flow. Are courageous enough to be vulnerable. Know how to laugh from deep in your belly. Understand and are committed to continual self reflection and growth. Find a connection to spirit outside in nature. Are comfortable in your body. Are in good health and are active (no need to be fanatical) You can appreciate the difference between kind and nice. Are self assured,emotionally mature, while still being playful and are not prone to over thinking. You have presence, show up and follow through. You gravitate toward free spirited, strong, entrepreneurial women. Are not looking to create more children (if you have them already - great! I've birthed ***almost 13yr old is still at home, I love my kids but they do not define me and I'd prefer (if you also have them) to be with someone whose kids are similar in age or older. You are a good open, honest, communicator. You would rather create authentic shifts to more positive frames of mind by being deeply in touch with all your feelings. I do not shy away from my darker emotions like fear, grief, guilt, and anger. I explore the triggers, step back and let other people have the drama. I’m not into “fake" positive thinking. Be authentic. Take risks. Be bold. Be brave. You understand jealousy is not an indicator of how much you love me. You are within a few years of 45, If you could technically BE my dad or my son I will not even respond.I practice massage and energy spiritual healing. What I 'do' is a huge part of who I am. If you have an understanding or training in Ho'Oponopono or Sared Lomi Lomi Massage I'd be very interested in meeting you for both the commonality of a shared language and calling but also for massage exchanges. my goal is to connect with someone to both come home to and adventure forth with. Someone who both compliments and expands my world. Sharing, growing together, bringing new ideas and thoughts into each others' lives. I gravitate towards open minds & progressive thinkers.I love to travel...... I love to immerse myself into different cultures, languages, food and delight in overcoming the initial fear of stepping forward into a complete unknown. My idea of a perfect trip is pretty grass roots, low budget and in the street. I've had some fantastic adventures and find myself in awe of the beauty and diversity in our world. I'm a very simple person. I find enjoyment in the small things - all day- every day. Life is really meant to be lived in each moment.The real journey that I continually expand and explore is an inner one. My eyes are very open each and every day. I choose to start each day from a place of gratitude. Being present in every moment. I believe in the connection between mind and body and breath.My road in life has not been mainstream. I am very creative, intense, driven by love, expression, my personal spiritual path, self reflection, curiosity. I live in a little house surrounded by gardens and forests. My friends and neighbors are artists, actors, musicians, potters, farmers and carpenters. I believe in community. Alternatives. I Recycle. Reuse. Live on less. Compassion for people and our world are important to me.I also can do what I do anywhere. So it matters more who I am with - because I can feel at home anywhere.“Some people live in a bitter, angry, hate-filled world.Some people living in a friendly, caring, love-filled world.Same world...” ? José N. Cherish the dayLove with all your heart I want to be able to take the time to find if we have a connection beyond a superficial coffee meeting. If we have initially connected through *** curious about connecting face to face- lets plan an activity where we can both show up and be real, present and open.

  • Nu

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Recently separated after a long marriage. Looking to get out and experience life.....see new things....taste new food....hear new music...dance new dances....have fun. I am a generally happy positive person. I am an optimist, sometimes to a fault, but I would rather see the positive than let the negative cloud my day. I love to laugh, play and not always act my age. I am responsible and respectful...I do not judge people. I am open and honest and don't play games....I really don't know how so please respect that and don't play games with me. Be honest... be you.

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