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Rebecca, 45
United States, South Carolina, Central

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"The one who makes me smile" has now brought about my tears. I could really just use a friend right now to make the days a little less gloomy. I am hoping to find a real relationship but I am afraid the hurt is still too new for me to move on. However, I refuse to just sit around and feel sorry for myself. I plan to meet new people and keep living my life on my own terms.I have many interests and hobbies that help shape the person you see here. I like to be creative and really enjoy painting and artsy projects as well s karaoke and songwriting when the inspiration strikes... I like going out for pretty much anything but I have become a homebody since finding myself alone again. When I love someone, I love them with everything I have. This so far has lead to nothing but heartbreak. I am sure there is someone out there who will reciprocate the feelings bestowed upon them so that I may feel the abundance of love being poured out to me for a change. I am tired of hurting and not even sure if I should be trying to date at this point... but I have to at least try.I am trying to improve the quality of my days by sharing it with someone who has a positive attitude, knows where they are going in life and who can be himself. Spontaneity is a BIG plus in my opinion. However, there should at least be a rough plan to follow... Regardless, I am hoping to find someone who can stimulate my mind and eventually all five senses. I am wanting joy and laughter with a new partner. To find a passion that comes aflame freshly reminding us what its like to be cherished, cared for and truly blessed while making new and better memories of our own. A first meeting should be casual with no expectations. From this meeting, it could be determined whether an actual date is in order.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Greek Boxing Tennis Volleyball Singing
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