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Lola, 41

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About Me

I'll start with who I am. Funny, smart, charming, independent, silly, responsible, giggly, kind, outgoing, sensible, friendly but cautious, loyal and dependable but not a pushover. I am reasonable, thoughtful, genuine and quirky. I love to laugh, especially at my own mishaps. I'm a fantastic cook but I don't mind someone else cooking for me. I work hard and enjoy a lazy weekend as much as a busy one. I am a one man gal. I understand the dating routine and don't expect exclusivity after a first date. But, if we're a month or two into things, I would appreciate my suitor to respect me enough to either cut ties or not date other women. I don't think that's too far-fetched. What I am not...I'm not on here for one night stands. I'm not stupid and can hear the smooth-talk while it's still clanking around in a guy's brain. No games on my end. Dishonesty has no place in my world. Players, keep on trolling. I'm not needy, jealous, or insecure and I would hope a potential mate wouldn't be either. I enjoy dressing up and looking pretty, but I also love my shorts, t-shirts and flip flops. I'm not a huge fan of sports, but I can manage a get-together for playoffs, super bowl or ufc. I'll even make snacks. I'm not a fufu drink girl, I like beer when I do have a drink. I don't order a chef salad at coach and four--I love their ribeyes!Oh, there's so much more going on in this spunky little brain, but I'm not in the mood to write a novel. Probably not dancing***Surprise me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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