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Wanda, 42

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About Me

Where to begin...First of all, I am perfectly imperfect. I have many flaws, and I'm not too proud to admit it. I smoke cigarettes, I drink occasionally, if you make me mad, I can curse like sailor, I have a twisted sense of humor at times and I laugh at things that most people would cringe at. I am very honest, and while some of you wouldn't see that as a flaw, I do. I forget to be tactful at times and that brutal honesty can be hurtful. I am not a gorgeous beauty queen, nor am I super model skinny. I am who I am. I am a BBW. BBW doesn't stand for big ****y woman, and it doesn't refer to food in any way. (Yes, I've heard a lot of definitions for that abbreviation) I am a big beautiful woman. If that isn't your type of woman, I respect that. Please don't take time out of your busy day to give me your opinion on that if you're going to be less than nice about it. If you do think it's necessary to give me your opinion, please don't be offended when I give you mine back. :) The point I'm trying to make here is that there is no such thing as perfection. I'm not searching for the perfect mate, because he doesn't exist. What I'm searching for is someone who can love me with the same passion and intensity that I love with, and someone who cares enough to understand my heart. "For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul".~;Some say that our lives are defined by the sum of our choices, but it isn't really our choices that distinguish who we are . It's our commitment to them." ~Unknown Simplicity can make the first date the most memorable. A quiet dinner with fabulous conversation followed by a walk under the stars or sitting by a fire just living in the moment.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Crista

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU DO NOT WORK AT LEAST 40HRS A WEEK, HAVE A CAR THAT YOU CAN LEGALLY DRIVE AND CAN AFFORD TO PAY FOR, HAVE YOUR OWN PLACE THAT YOU CAN PAY FOR, AND YOU MUST HAVE DECENT TEETH. OTHER THAN A SPEEDING TICKET OR SOMETHING STUPID, I DO NOT GO OUT WITH GUYS WITH A RAP SHEET SO PLEASE DONT WASTE MY TIME AND YOURS. JUST BE HONEST FROM THE START AND THERE SHOULD NOT BE A PROBLEM.First and foremost I am a loving mother to my two children. They are getting older and its now my time to find a someone who I can share my life with. I love being outdoors from going to walks, camping, hiking, fishing or shooting skeet. I enjoy going out to the movies, dinners or out for drinks to let loose. I am not a complicated person, I am laid back and like to enjoy life by laughing listening to music and enjoying every day. I love to cook and make the people in my life happy. I am not into games...too old for that so if you are please move on. I have a career that more than pays my bills. I am a very repsonsible person and have high morals. I am not looking for a man to take care of me or pay my bills as I have been doing this on my own just fine. This being said, this does not mean I dont like to go out once in a while and let off some steam and get crazy because I do. I am not a prude I have my priorities in order and children that need a solid role model and they get that from me. I am a smoker and prefer to date men who smoke...thanks!!To put it simple, I am looking for a decent looking guy with a job and has morals and knows how to have a good time and laugh. Not looking for a one night stand. DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A PHOTO, I WILL NOT RESPOND First dates are awkard, it would be nice to meet somewhere to have a few drinks to relax, talk and see if there is a mutual interest.

  • Ora

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I have my priorities straight. I don't play games nor waste time - either mine or yours. My time is precious. I say what I mean and mean what I say. NO liberals!The random stuff below is funny and/or odd, but it is me. I am not normal and I like it that way. Normal is boring. I have a very sarcastic sense of humor that I have refined over the years and I truly enjoy a good laugh. My life is stressful so I choose to laugh rather than freak out.My brain works in random bursts, so here goes:• You must be taller than me. (Actually, over 5'7")• I love the outdoors but it would take an act of God to get me to go camping. Really.• I love to fish and can catch my own bait (nightcrawlers, grubs, minnows, soft crawls)•• I grow lots of stuff in my garden and won't eat any of it. I don't like veggies.••• Junebugs give me the willies. • Must love dogs. Seriously. I have a Golden Lab that goes everywhere with me. I hate the hair but I love him.• I can assimilate into almost any social situation, and would like to find someone that can do this as well.• Separated is not divorced. I honor my word and want someone that feels the same. (For clarification: unless you have a court date for the finalization of your divorce, you are still married.)• I wear kid size shoes. No heels for me. 4" spikes still wouldn't make me tall, so why bother?• I love Duck Dynasty. Yes, I know it is not an "intellectual" show, but those guys crack me up.• Oh yeah, respect, it is vital.• I collect pens.* I can spell and attempt good grammar. • Selfish and self-centered people suck.* Seriously. As in, I will get out of the shower to turn the radio station if they come on. gag.• I strongly believe in the 2nd Amendment and have very conservative views. • I would love to take classes at TDI.• I am too nervous to eat in restaurants, but have no problem speaking to large groups of people. Go figure.• I can write backwards.• If you communicate using text messaging abbreviations we would not get along. First, those abbreviations were used when writing with the number pad on an old style cell phone. I am not a full bore computer nerd, but technology is vital in my life. There are many times when I cannot talk on the phone and electronic communication is very important. It annoys the hell out of me when someone using a computer keyboard still types with the text shorthand. It is disgraceful. (My English teachers would be proud.)• And lastly, but most importantly, my kid is my world. I have a 12 year old daughter with cerebral palsy. She comes first and requires a huge amount of my time. Everything must be planned and late nights are not possible. I know it will take a special man to handle this, and that's okay. She came to me for a reason. I have a purpose in life and my priorities are clear - things most people never learn or have. Life is good. Meet & greet in a public place.

  • Beverlee

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I\-spoken, but can be hard and determined if comes to handling business. I won’t date anyone who has been unfaithful in the past. I need someone loving, dedicated and supportive.

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