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Jessi, 42

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About Me

Genuine...sincere...honest...hard working (personally and professionally)...communicator...passionate...drama free...is this you? Because this is me and I am looking for the same....I have 3 children all girls, ages 17, 14 and 4. I have shared custody of the 2 older girls every other week. And my youngest keeps me young everyday! I am open to dating someone who has children and I am open to dating someone who does not, either is fine! I have been divorced for 12 years, and have a healthy relationship with my ex, so I am drama free...I enjoy watching my older girls play softball in the summer, amusement parks, grilling out and weekend get-a-ways! I am a city girl at heart and like to dine out or cook at home followed by a good movie on the couch or a nice adult beverage out on the town! I feel it doesn't really matter what your doing, as long as you enjoy the company!If your profile says you enjoy hunting, fishing and camping you are probably not a good fit for me. However, with that said, there is also something to be said for couples who can appreciate their time appart and allow the other to have time to enjoy things on their own with friends. I enjoy movies, concerts, dining out, shopping,yard work and anything in the water! I love to laugh till my cheeks hurt and a good glass of white wine!I own my home, have worked for the same employer for 17 years and have my life together, just need to find that special someone to share it with. I am independent, and am looking for someone who is "in the same place in their life as I am"I do smile when I make eye contact with a baby or an old couple that still holds hands....I do hold the door open for the stranger at the gas station....I do let the car merge in front of me (ok sometimes I do this, not all the time)...I do let the person that is standing in line behind me go first because he has one item...I do luv a starbucks or frozen yogurt every once in a while....When it comes to music, I have been told I am stuck in the 80's! But currently have a wide taste some old, some new....If my girls don't have control of the radio you would most likely find me listening to 100.5.What do I appreciate in a better half? A man who takes care of himself, and knows what he wants out of life. I take care of myself,am 5'3" and have curves in all the right places, well proportioned! Thanks to my Italian mother....Communication from the start is so important in finding out if the connection is there, so message me and tell me something your profile doesn't already say! Please be creative and ready to carry on a conversation. Questions can keep a conversation going, *** a dead end.I have a personal and professional theory: "life is about choices, self discipline and sometimes passion!"Message me if you would like to know more! Good luck fishing! Surprise me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am an outgoing person who is ready to enjoy life and find that special person to share it with. My hobbies are movies, cookouts, sporting events, camping, fishing, enjoying the sun, canoeing, hanging out with friends. I am not into drama, games or guys who are players. I'm serious about finding that special someone who is ready to enjoy life. I am very big on first impressions. The first date would be at a nice quiet resturant that we would be able to talk and get to know each other. Communication is very important to me. A good date would be with a person that I could set and talk to for hours and wonder where the time went.

  • Eugene

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    My hobbies include cooking, making crafts, reading, camping, walking, and listening to music. I really enjoy country music and the 80's. I have four children, all of which are in their late teens. Two of them live with me, and the other two i have let free like baby doves.My oldest son is serving in the military and is currently in Afghanistan. I am a very caring and compassionate woman. I am open to trying new things with new people. I am loyal and dedicated to what I care about. I am honest to a fault which may be the reason in which most people view me as sincere. I really love to have fun and love to laugh. I enjoy being outdoors, but if the weather is not right, then I enjoy snuggling up with a warm blanket and watching a movie.I feel that you get what give.If you can't handle me at my worst...then you don't deserve me at my best.Nobody is perfect.I believe in communication ,trust and caring are keys to a lasting relationship.If you have an issue with the little things such as giving that unsuspecting kiss or that caring glance across a room or holding hands then I am probably not the one for you .I will give you attention and affection but not overwhelming and expect the same in return.I want the person I spend my time with to know how much they mean to me and that they are the reason for my happiness. **update.....and have now only one of my children left with me as my youngest daughter just headed off to college..:(..happy for her and proud..my youngest (son)has 2 more years of high school...if you are looking for a jump in the sack so to speak ..then keep moving!!..as well as if you cant tell the truth from a lie ...keep moving ...life is too short ...don't waste my time and i do have morals that I live by~*~*~*UPDATE AGAIN ....I just accomplished a goal that I have always dreamed of .....I was tired of waiting for a man to ride me around so I went and got my motorcycle license !!!! ..YAY ME!!...LOL...:)~*~*~*~Once again ..time for an update ...I am now starting the phase of my life with no children left at home ....all 4 of my children have moved on with their adult lives and now I guess it time to find some happiness and start a new chapter for me ..bittersweet but it is time for me . I would enjoy having a nice quiet dinner where I can get to know the other person. If the date proceeds well, then it would be very nice to go on a memorable, long-lasting walk, where we continue talking to each other and getting to know more about each other while enjoying a more relaxed setting.

  • Katheryn

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am 42 and have never been married. I believe the most important things in life are the things money can not buy. Material things do NOT impress me in the least bit. My parents were married for over 40 years before my father passed away. That is the kind of love I want in my life. I am a very simple gal that loves watching NASCAR and NFL. I enjoy many kinds of music but country, pop and 80's rock are my favorite. I also enjoy reading. I am a Christian and God is important in my life. I am in the a full figure girl with a heart that is even bigger. I am one that thinks who a person is on the inside is so much more important than how they look on the outside. I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh. First dates can be so uncomfortable that I prefer to take extra time getting to know someone a little bit through messaging and/or talking on the phone first. A public first date is a must for me and I will meet you where ever we decide.

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