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Arely, 42

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UPDATE AS OF OCTOBER 18th:So I've tried and tried to find a Real Good man that I could get close to and perhaps build a future with, but I've become jaded by all the guys who claim they're the good and decent ones and turn out to be liars and players. Tired of being told "can't text ya tonight cause I'm hanging out with my kid" only to find the guy who claims to be interested, on here "fishing" half the night...really, I don't get it...if you aren't interested, why play games and lead people on, it's just so shitty! So for now, I'm gonna take some time off here:...maybe with ***I'll have a renewed positive outlook on meeting decent men....come ***, I'll be gone.... Leaving this up for a couple days so that the few good friends I have made know where I've gone and why. I wish all of you looking for something good and real, good luck in finding your someone special. Just not in the state of mind to play people's games anymore...***************************************************** So wow, not sure where to start here...first of all, thanks for taking a moment to read my profile and learn more about me....I'll start by saying don't let my age fool ya, I just turned 42 but I can honestly say I feel 25! I have the energy and zest for life that I had in my mid twenties! Looking for an active man who isn't a couch potato, but someone who likes being active, outdoors and adventure/fun!I enjoy sooooo many different things, where to start?! Love boating, amusement parks, haunted houses and pumpkin patches, gardening, dancing, singing karaoke, playing pool, throwing darts, bowling, camping (in a tent, not a cabin!), hiking, traveling (prefer beaches and warm destinations!), home improvement projects, tailgating, Reds games, Football games (go Packers!All that being said, I also enjoy a cold winters night or a chilly rainy evening at home in front of a fire, snuggling with someone special (just gotta find him!)....I'm very affectionate and look for the same in a mate...So enough about me already! I'm searching for an attractive man, who has his life together....don't care what you do or how much money you make, so long as you support yourself and your family. Speaking of family, while I was not blessed with children, I always wanted them, adore them and welcome yours into my life and any potential relationship. I totally understand that your time with your children is precious and that they will always come first and that we will have our time together....Love animals, especially dogs and look for the same in a mate. You should be family oriented and down to earth with a killer sense of humor (I LOVE to laugh and joke around!), have a traditional side but also enjoy going out and having crazy fun from time to time!..I'm looking for more, no sense wasting your time and effort in sending a message, I'm not interested in being another number to someone or another notch in someone's bedpost....not sure it matters all that much what we do, if I'm in the company of an amazing man...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Doria

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I love took cook or bake, go to/watch pro or college basketball games along with othe r sports,being in the great out doors,and i just love to do anything exciting and fun! I love spending time with my kids two which are in college and the other will soon be able in high school this coming fall.

  • Diedra

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm getting older. What? It's true...LOLLove Love LOVE {Country Music= Old & New},(80's Everything) ,Oldies & even newbies! I have hobbies to keep me busy, always dabbling in some new craft thing like leather, woodworking, screen printing, creating my own business......Love trying new restaurants, falling in love with them and repeated visits until I've eaten their entire inventory of food! HA!ummm...what else ya wanna know? Most of either what I like or what I'm doing is listed in the interests section on here.Tall n Husky works for me....less than 6' is probably not going to work....just my preference guys, I know what I like.Separated isn't enough for me...must be completely single and within close radius to ***. Oh, long hair, weird piercings, stiff or bulky mustaches are not my thing either.... just sayin' LOLI probably shouldn't be, but I'm picky about a lot of things. Sappy Movies: I never used to cry to them, but most recently, I find myself deep into emotion and loaded with tears when I watch them. Finally having empathy can be painful darn it.Favorite commercial: "Guess what day it is, guess what "DAY" it is!!!JERRY! JERRY! JERRY! - LOL and on that note, not to sound negative, but I can spot BS a mile away! Never underestimate the power of God’s ability to transform a person’s life....This video is Hilarious!! *** Up for debate and if all goes well, I'm not sure how to step into relationship thing, but what I am sure of are these things: We talk easily with each other, interested in the same things to do in life, dreams, goals, he's a leader. Even though I'm aggressive, I look up to him because I know he is wiser than me in all the things that matter and he has the strength to tolerate my childlike behaviors.Sound like you? Although, I've been known to travel if I feel deeply towards something.

  • Ora

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I have my priorities straight. I don't play games nor waste time - either mine or yours. My time is precious. I say what I mean and mean what I say. NO liberals!The random stuff below is funny and/or odd, but it is me. I am not normal and I like it that way. Normal is boring. I have a very sarcastic sense of humor that I have refined over the years and I truly enjoy a good laugh. My life is stressful so I choose to laugh rather than freak out.My brain works in random bursts, so here goes:• You must be taller than me. (Actually, over 5'7")• I love the outdoors but it would take an act of God to get me to go camping. Really.• I love to fish and can catch my own bait (nightcrawlers, grubs, minnows, soft crawls)•• I grow lots of stuff in my garden and won't eat any of it. I don't like veggies.••• Junebugs give me the willies. • Must love dogs. Seriously. I have a Golden Lab that goes everywhere with me. I hate the hair but I love him.• I can assimilate into almost any social situation, and would like to find someone that can do this as well.• Separated is not divorced. I honor my word and want someone that feels the same. (For clarification: unless you have a court date for the finalization of your divorce, you are still married.)• I wear kid size shoes. No heels for me. 4" spikes still wouldn't make me tall, so why bother?• I love Duck Dynasty. Yes, I know it is not an "intellectual" show, but those guys crack me up.• Oh yeah, respect, it is vital.• I collect pens.* I can spell and attempt good grammar. • Selfish and self-centered people suck.* Seriously. As in, I will get out of the shower to turn the radio station if they come on. gag.• I strongly believe in the 2nd Amendment and have very conservative views. • I would love to take classes at TDI.• I am too nervous to eat in restaurants, but have no problem speaking to large groups of people. Go figure.• I can write backwards.• If you communicate using text messaging abbreviations we would not get along. First, those abbreviations were used when writing with the number pad on an old style cell phone. I am not a full bore computer nerd, but technology is vital in my life. There are many times when I cannot talk on the phone and electronic communication is very important. It annoys the hell out of me when someone using a computer keyboard still types with the text shorthand. It is disgraceful. (My English teachers would be proud.)• And lastly, but most importantly, my kid is my world. I have a 12 year old daughter with cerebral palsy. She comes first and requires a huge amount of my time. Everything must be planned and late nights are not possible. I know it will take a special man to handle this, and that's okay. She came to me for a reason. I have a purpose in life and my priorities are clear - things most people never learn or have. Life is good. Meet & greet in a public place.

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