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Arely, 42

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UPDATE AS OF OCTOBER 18th:So I've tried and tried to find a Real Good man that I could get close to and perhaps build a future with, but I've become jaded by all the guys who claim they're the good and decent ones and turn out to be liars and players. Tired of being told "can't text ya tonight cause I'm hanging out with my kid" only to find the guy who claims to be interested, on here "fishing" half the night...really, I don't get it...if you aren't interested, why play games and lead people on, it's just so shitty! So for now, I'm gonna take some time off here:...maybe with ***I'll have a renewed positive outlook on meeting decent men....come ***, I'll be gone.... Leaving this up for a couple days so that the few good friends I have made know where I've gone and why. I wish all of you looking for something good and real, good luck in finding your someone special. Just not in the state of mind to play people's games anymore...***************************************************** So wow, not sure where to start here...first of all, thanks for taking a moment to read my profile and learn more about me....I'll start by saying don't let my age fool ya, I just turned 42 but I can honestly say I feel 25! I have the energy and zest for life that I had in my mid twenties! Looking for an active man who isn't a couch potato, but someone who likes being active, outdoors and adventure/fun!I enjoy sooooo many different things, where to start?! Love boating, amusement parks, haunted houses and pumpkin patches, gardening, dancing, singing karaoke, playing pool, throwing darts, bowling, camping (in a tent, not a cabin!), hiking, traveling (prefer beaches and warm destinations!), home improvement projects, tailgating, Reds games, Football games (go Packers!All that being said, I also enjoy a cold winters night or a chilly rainy evening at home in front of a fire, snuggling with someone special (just gotta find him!)....I'm very affectionate and look for the same in a mate...So enough about me already! I'm searching for an attractive man, who has his life together....don't care what you do or how much money you make, so long as you support yourself and your family. Speaking of family, while I was not blessed with children, I always wanted them, adore them and welcome yours into my life and any potential relationship. I totally understand that your time with your children is precious and that they will always come first and that we will have our time together....Love animals, especially dogs and look for the same in a mate. You should be family oriented and down to earth with a killer sense of humor (I LOVE to laugh and joke around!), have a traditional side but also enjoy going out and having crazy fun from time to time!..I'm looking for more, no sense wasting your time and effort in sending a message, I'm not interested in being another number to someone or another notch in someone's bedpost....not sure it matters all that much what we do, if I'm in the company of an amazing man...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

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    Hi,there! I'm self confident and independant yet very kind ,loyal,honest and decent with an open heart.I'm very giving in relationship and would like to find a man who can appreciate that quality and also finds a joy in giving back.My ideal relationship involves two people,who are best friends and soulmates! A couple should always love,support and encourage each other in whatever situations come on their way.I've learned that there are reasons why things don't work out even if you don't understand why at that time.Trust your ***'t change anyone.Don't settle for anything less than what makes you happy.I would like to meet a man ***y.o.),who is established in his career and secure with his own being.I'm not affraid to show affection ,so you have to be affectionate as well ;) I'm not into playing games and would like to meet someone who is available in every sense. Just feeling comfortable with each other,not wanting the night to end,dissapointed when it does,and excited about the next date.I like to be surprised! Mutual attraction is a must and strong chemistry is very important.

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    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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