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Zola, 41

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About Me

I am a single mother of three. My oldest son is 21. I put him through welding school and he has a good job making good money. I have another son that is 18 and a senior in High School this year. I also have an 11 year old daughter in Middle School. I have worked hard to raise them to be well respectable people. They are good kids that have never been in any trouble. I am equally proud of all three of them. People always tell me that I have done a great job raising them all by myself and that makes me feel great! Life has not always been easy for me but I do know that my children are my best accomplishment.Besides being a mother, I am currently working as a Nurse Assistant at a local hospital. I enjoy working and helping people so therefore I have been seriously thinking of going to Nursing School. I have always loved being outdoors so moving to the mountains seemed like the thing to do. We really like it here. I like spending time with someone that I can talk to and share thoughts with and dream with. I would like to meet someone that I can become great friends with and then the relationship turn into more. First and foremost, this person that I want in my life has to like my kids (and the feeling be mutual). The other qualities I am looking for is a completely honest trustworthy hard working man that shows love from deep within his heart. If he can show me that, I will always be good to him in return.I want to have fun getting to know you! I think the first date should be simple. Come to my house, let me cook a good dinner. I have been told I am a wonderful cook...so you can see for yourself. Who doesn't like good food? I would want you to meet my kids. You need to like spending time with them and they need to like you too. After dinner, we could either make a bon fire out in the back yard while having a cup of coffee or sit on the front porch with a glass of beer/wine and enjoy the beautiful country setting while having good conversation and getting to know each other.The 2nd date would be just you and I......

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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