Total users: 60,524,492 Online users: 217,763
Sabra, 36
United States, South Carolina, Beaufort

Online

About Me

About Me:I'm an attractive, very young looking 36 yo (who can pass for 20 any day of the week). I have a strong sense of adventure and always try to make the best out of whatever is thrown my way. I live in a safe part of L.A. I stay pretty active but always make time for friends and those I hold close to my heart. I live with a rare medical condition that is part of who I am. I was born with it and have had a lifetime to adjust.... so this isn't something new that I need to have my hand held through. :-) When it flares it can take on countless forms in terms of symptoms, but I always seem to manage to deal with them and move forward in life. Currently, I am in the treatment stages from a bad flare that begun two years ago. I have learned more about life in this time than I have in my entire 33 years prior. For about the last 6 months, I require the use of an electric wheelchair for distances beyond 1 block. Furthermore, my primary nutrition is obtained via a surgically implanted feeding tube. It is hidden under clothing and most don't know it exists unless I show them. I can still go out and enjoy a cup of coffee, but I cannot eat solid food and do not absorb the liquids I drink (so they are for the sake of taste only). I try to stay positive always and tend to play around with friends when it comes to my wheelchair ... such as giving them rides on the back. If I choose to go full speed, it can create some truly funny moments... as one would need to run (literally >6.0mph) to keep up with me. I know disclosing such info might seem odd to some, but why omit such a thing when (hopefully) we are eventually going to meet and the truth will come out anyhow? I value honesty greatly and have zero desire to misrepresent myself. Besides, as I mentioned above, I see my handicap as a good thing despite the difficulty it presents. It has made me stronger and that is a very powerful gift.As for my friends, they are the greatest anyone could ever hope for. I consider myself incredibly lucky to be surrounded by people that are loyal, loving and supportive of my endeavours. They have often described me as adventurous (snowboarding, anyone? If you have children, I am "OK" with this. I raised two boys in the past ***for many years and am proud of the young men they have become. Having said that, I am not necessarily looking to have children. I would consider it only ...if I was with a man I truly loved and he really wanted to have one of his own.What I seek:First off, the following are "absolutes" for any Man that chooses to contact me: 1. If you have stated and/or selected via dropdown anything comparable to, "Wants to date, but nothing serious," then I am not what you seek. Similar phrases include "Not seeking any kind of commitment" ..and so forth. In turn, this does not mean I am looking to settle down and marry the next Man of interest whom crosses my path! It's simply the reality that causal is easy. If a casual date is all I desired, well, I wouldn't need to be on a dating site for such encounters. In fact, I suppose very few women would need to be here for such - not just me. 2. If your photos showcase you holding an alcoholic beverage in 90% or more of the images, I have no interest in talking with you. Granted, I do not mind in the least someone who drinks socially. I just find absolutely nothing attractive about alcoholics. Moving along....I seek a Man ideally between the ages of ***that is Single and open minded when it comes to dating a Woman in my situation. I seek someone who is independent ...secure both financially and mentally. I can take care of my bills just fine and expect anyone I am with to do the same. Typically speaking, I like Dominant Men. I enjoy giving up power from time to time, and I appreciate a Man that can take such a thing and just run with it. I enjoy fetish and leather based clubs/events and I'd love to find a partner in crime to enjoy them with.In terms of physical features, well..I'm fairly open-minded. Height, race and religion are not of importance to me. However, I do need to have some level of physical attraction to anyone I am with - and would expect the same in return. Furthermore, someone that can hold their own in an intellectual conversation is important. I enjoy discussing world events and the news on a regular basis. People often remark that I am incredibly well rounded when it comes to my knowledge base. This is true and it's because my physical sense of adventure and curiosity (jet skiing, etc.) carry over to my intellectual side as well. I am particularly fond of: medical science, ancient history, psychology, unsolved mysteries, nanotechnology, computer science, archaeology, cuisine, and linguistics. Religion and politics, however, are topics I tend to avoid unless I am truly comfortable with a person.As I've briefly mentioned above, I enjoy adrenaline-based sports. Since my need for a wheelchair has become a factor, I've been searching for ways to maintain this sense of adrenaline.... safely within my limits. Adaptive sports (such as skiing) is one way. I am open to discovering as much I can ...and would love for a partner to join me not only with the physical activities, but also with the research side of discovering new ones that we can enjoy together.Also, please understand that my dogs are often in photos because they are service animals - not just pets. When I am alone, one is always with me to help out. However, if I am with someone, they generally stay home since I usually don't need their extra help. This means that chances are, they will *not* be with me on dates...unless you specifically request to meet one, or both. In the event, you do ...they are amazingly well behaved, and fully trained. Lastly, I ask that you please have at least one recent photo, or be able to send me one privately, if it is not posted for public view. I acknowledge the lighting might not be the greatest, but they are still respectfully very current pictures, and even show my wheelchair. This way you know I've put in some honest effort to provide photos that represent me accurately - not some weird angle and so forth. I genuinely appreciate others that do the same, and offer my thanks in advance. :-) Well for starters... I'll show up.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Pop Indonesian Japanese Action Mystery Sport Thriller War
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Kimberlyn from Beaufort | Woman | 36 years old | Leo
    Kimberlyn

    Online

    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Hi I am a full-time student and I work I am also a mother. With this I can still find time for fun. I enjoy doing most things if I am with a fun person. I am looking for someone that I can enjoy going out with and having fun if it leads to more than friendship then all the better. I am a happy person with I think a good personality. Anything fun

    Chat
  • Roni from Beaufort | Woman | 41 years old | Cancer
    Roni

    Online

    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I don't think men are really reading my profile in depth so before I get into what I normally would start with, please don't contact me if:* You don't want any children* Are a player who is only on this site for one reason or are married* Never workout; I'm looking for an active person like myself* Have no recent picture posted (I know there are lots of married people on this site & if you don't have a pic posted, I'm assuming you have something to hide)* Are an atheist or agnostic* Are not ***years of age* SmokeNow, for the real me. I'm an outgoing, down-to-earth, petite brunette looking to meet someone new with the potential for a relationship. My friends would describe me as sweet, loyal, fun, sincere, witty and caring. I enjoy all types of music and going to movies, music events, hanging out with friends, traveling. I'm mature and smart but love to laugh and enjoy life.I hate it when people take themselves too seriously.Life is too short. I spent my high school years in Okinawa, Japan and loved it. I'm a professional who has my life together looking for a professional gentleman with good family ties and a sense of humor. Intelligence and a sense of humor is a must. I prefer tall brunettes who are outgoing and mischievous with a nice smile, dimples and twinkle in their eye but really have no requirements. I don't like men who smoke or who are players and would like someone who also works out regularly (I workout at least 5 times a week). Even though I am independent, I'm somewhat old-fashioned and appreciate the differences between men and women. I like men with a current style. I really love it when a man can go from having a beer and hanging out to dressing up for a nice dinner and having a glass of wine. I'm the same way. Something simple where you can have a chance to get to know each other better like coffee or a drink.

    Chat
  • Lieselotte from Beaufort | Woman | 43 years old | Gemini
    Lieselotte

    Online

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    So, a bit about me......I'm honest, loyal, fun, and adventurous. I'm not into playing games and I hope anyone who contacts me isn't either. I like to be outdoors - boating, camping, hiking, fishing (but only if you'll bait my hook!!), gardening or just goofing off with the kids. I'm planning a sky- I'm an animal person - right now I have 2 cats, a bird, and a snake. Not soo in love with the snake...anyone want a Ball Python???I love music, dancing and going out to see local bands. My iPod contains a wide variety of music....anywhere from The Dead to Kid Rock to Bob Marley... And of course of TON of 80's music!!!So now that you know a smidge about me....tell me about you!!! Maybe coffe (tea for me) or a light lunch somewhere we can chat and see if we hit it off.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: