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Hildegarde, 44

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About Me

I am a very logical, common sense person. Honest & trustworthy but have a very low tolerance for BS & games. In person, I am shy and somewhat reserved at first , but goofy, quirky & fun the more comfortable I get. I love to laugh, smile & have fun... and I would go out of my way for the person I love, but I can't build you up & put you on a pedestal if I don't trust & respect you first. I am looking for : a kind-hearted, dependable & loving gentleman that enjoys the simple things in life. Someone I can trust... A man of his word. A man who takes responsibility for himself, his actions, his family and home; and who has a good work ethic. Someone who is faithful, who respects the person he's with enough to give the relationship 100%, who's willing to truly work as a team to make it work. Someone who loves God, who enjoys watching football, walking/running, going to the beach, movies, music, festivals and road trips. Someone who likes to hold hands, someone who is inspired & passionate about what he loves & believes in. Anyone can *say* they like/love and appreciate you. I want someone who shows it... not so much with material gifts, but with their behavior. I love a BIG heart, but also a strong back bone. I LOVE integrity - doing whats right even when it's not popular; doing what's right even when no one's watching. Treating others the way you want them to treat you. What I'm not looking for (i.e. BS): ***Negativity: Life is way too short be so focused on the negative. If you're unhappy with your job or some aspect of your life, do something about it. Complaining solves nothing. ***Game player: I have no interest in someone who makes plans they have no intention of keeping; who's so self-centered that they give no thought or concern about wasting other people's time, etc - You will always know exactly where you stand with me. I expect and want the same. Speak up. No games. ***I am also not interested in people with constant unnecessary drama in their life or those who go out of their way to create it. If you have an ongoing battle with your ex(es), baby drama, more than one baby momma, unable to pay your bills, take care of your responsibilities and constantly blame everyone else (except yourself) for your life woes, We are not a match. I live a simple, drama-free life because I prefer it that way. Anywhere quiet so we can talk & get to know one another better

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

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    Wondering where the "real " people are anymore. Wondering if true love is out there. Life is a journey of which i have been both lucky and unlucky....both of which has made me stronger. My kids will tell you , they have the strongest mom ever. Little do they know, i've paved the path for them. In this life, i've learned it's more important to me to have a few good friends rather than many who are phony.

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Dance like no one is watching, love like you'll never be hurt, sing like no one is listening, live life like it's your last day on earth! That is my nature! I'm open minded and patient. My nurture makes me a little shy and guarded. But around the people that I am at home with, I am a little crazy and love to dance. I also love live theater, but feel just as comfortable at a pub drinking a beer or sitting on the beach at 4:20... I love, love to travel!! Cruises are my fav and you will find me in the club every nite dancing like a crazy person. But my all time favorite past time is watching my kids perform. They are into musical theater and are a very important part of my life. I'm very new to this and am not sure what I'm doing, but I guess this is a start. I have read alot of people on here say they don't want any drama. I'm not a game player and I'm very real. I'm sometime too open or honest for my own good. And I hate liers and manipulators. But I do have drama in my extended family, business and life. Can you really avoid it these days.

  • Sonia

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Recently moved here for work, still trying to understand the traffic circle and the frontage roads. And why no street signs? I enjoy a good margarita but prefer a great one! My sense of humor tends to lean toward the sarcastic side but can also be a bit goofy as well. I'm a reader and enjoy all types of books. Laid back but my red hair does get me in trouble from time to time. :-) Somewhere laid back and low key, so we can get to know one another.

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