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SAY WHAT YOU MEAN--MEAN WHAT YOU SAY!!! DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WANT DONE TO YOU!!!!!!!!F.Y.I.: I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A FLING OR TO BE ANYBODY'S MISTRESS SO IF YOU'RE MARRIED YOU'RE DEFINITELY LOOKING AT THE WRONG PROFILE....DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU ARE MARRIED....I COULD ALSO CARE LESS ABOUT THE MATERIAL THINGS YOU HAVE THOSE THINGS WON'T KEEP ME WARM AT NIGHT...JUST SAYIN I am a down to earth woman looking for a down to earth kind of man who is HONEST, SINCERE and TRUSTWORTHY and is not afraid to say what's on his mind or open up his heart. Someone who will RESPECT me and care about me for the person I am NOT what they want me to be and check out someone else's profile. I am currently going to school for my Associate Degree as a Paralegal. I am not looking for someone to 'take care of me' but someone to spend time with me and treat me like the lady that I am. It's the little things that make me the happiest not spending hundreds of dollars on me. I am easy going and I am up for just about anything. However, I am not willing to compromise myself or what I want for ANYONE. I am an honest, caring, understanding and loving person and I expect nothing less in return. I am a typical Scillian girl who wears her heart on her sleeve and loves with EVERYTHING I have. I can be very serious when I have to be but I am also fun loving and can be very "fiesty" when I want to be. I don't need, want or expect to be the center of any man's life/attention, I have a life of my own thank you and it's NOT THE QUANTITY OF TIME we spend together it's the QUALITY of time. If you're looking for a "friend with benefits" that's not me I'm not a "good time girl", nor AM I A TOY YOU CAN PICK UP AND PLAY WITH WHEN THE URGE SUITS YOU!!!!MOVE ON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I do not find it remotely appealing to meet someone on this site who upon FIRST contacting me(either through *** messages), IMMEDIATELY talks about SEX and/or wanting it from me in any way shape or form!! THIS IS SOMETHING THAT COMPLETELY IRRITATES ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!As my profile says if you're looking for a "friend with benefits" or a "good time girl" move on it will be a waste of my time and yours because I assure everyone out there that I am far more CLASSIER and have more RESPECT for myself than that!!!! So, if you're truly interested in me and want to get to know me, then feel free to contact me. Everyone has their own ideas so let's just compromise shall we..................

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Chasidy

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I have been a teacher for the past 17 years. I have taught kindergarten through middle school. Kindergarten is my love and I was able to move back to Kindergarten this past year. Being a teacher has brought me many opportunities to be a part of many lives and to teach as well as learn from others. I am able to persue my hobbies and other interests during the summer and during school vacations. Being a teacher you work a lot during the school year, but the summer trade off can be wonderful, unless you decide to teach summer school. Then you only have a few weeks off *** 8 weeks off lol. I enjoy taking classes to continue my own education. I enjoy learning anything new that will impact my students. I want my students to be able to find school exciting and fun and to want to come back everyday. I want them to be able to do their best and challenge themselves.I love to travel and have many places on my list that I would like to see one day. Most of my traveling has been in the U. I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh. I spend a lot of time with my friends and their families and spoiling their children as well as my 2 great nephews. I enjoy meeting new people and getting to know them.I am looking to meet someone that is kind, compassionate and caring that enjoys going out on occasion as well as staying in hanging out with friends or just us. Casual drinks to see if there is any spark and if there is then plan that first date.

  • Maryanne

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm constantly bewildered by the cruel joke of heterosexuality. Why am I drawn to and attracted to the opposite sex when it appears that everything about us is, indeed, opposite? It seems that men are more suited to living with men, and women with women. So why are we trying to fit a square peg into a round hole (please pardon the pun as I believe I've just answered my own question while philosophizing). I am sort of a walking contradiction in that I love people but am sort of a loner. I'm a little bit country, but I'm also a little bit rock 'n' roll. I love to go for a long hike in the woods with my dogs, but when I get home I might blast some Radiohead or Pink Floyd... or Johnny Cash. Then there's big band music! So much to choose from...I like social gatherings but I'm more likely to enjoy doing something productive. Most of my hobbies entail solitude. Things like painting, writing (screenplays mostly), hiking, biking, hanging out with my dogs. Very dedicated to my dysfunctional family, as well. I'm not a huge fan of television but do like public TV and a few cable shows like "Curb Your Enthusiasm." I could watch that show for hours. Also like Mad Men and a guilty pleasure is "The Bachelor". I can be too serious/cynical about life sometimes but when my mind is free from worrying about my family, my friends and the planet, I can be a hell of a lot of fun! I love to laugh but I also can appreciate a peaceful Sunday morning drinking coffee, listening to music and reading the paper. (One stripper said that a raisin was once originally a pickle--I'm sorry, it's cruel but it makes me feel better about myself!) I'm a pescatarian and would prefer someone that's not big on eating meat. Also would love someone who is outdoorsy and more of a homebody than an adventurer.I've been told I'm a gay man trapped in a woman's body. Maybe you should be a lesbian trapped in a man's body? First date should always be quick and painless, like ripping off a band-aid, just to see if there is chemistry. A quick dinner/drink or lunch is preferred. If we make it to the second date, I'd like to take a day trip to a city I've never been to before (provided I'm driving so you can't try to kidnap me, only to be seen again on milk cartons--Have you seen this girl?) and explore the local culture. Restaurants, shops, art museums, plays, etc. If the day goes well, the drive back home exchanging time on the iPods (which we'll bring on the first date, of course) should be titillating!

  • Janie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    My work schedule is crazy. My days off are generally during the week. I work hard and like to have fun in my down time. My hobbies include anything outdoors. I love to camp, fish, hunt, cookout with friends, etc.I am loyal, honest, trustworthy and looking for the same. I do not like cheaters and am intersted in a one woman, one man relationship.Country music is my favorite and I love going to concerts.Feel free to ask me anything else you want to know. Just something casual to talk a little and get to know each other and see where it goes from there.

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