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Thea, 44

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About Me

I'm tired of the games and the lies,besides Aren't we too old for games? Why do men hide if they meet and they decide they aren't compatable? Not all women are fragile or psycho, some of us more adult women will actually respect you for saying "I'm sorry its there won't be another date". So men suck it up and grow up and actually be the man you say you are. You'll at least have my respect. Because otherwise I will call you out on your b.s., I'm bold and honest and you'll get nothi ng less from me. I work in the telecommunications field in a call center. I love my job and seem to do rather well at it. I want to do some traveling now that my children are older and I am looking for someone genuine to spend some quality time with. I'd like to experience the things life has to offer. I don't need your money I have my own. I am not interested in what you own, they are only things, they do not make you who you are, but I am interested in you and what we could share together. I want to find someone I can be friends with first and get to know to build something lasting. (If you aren't interested in a friendship that could turn into a long term relationship please don't waste my time or yours.) I want to find someone to date who wants to put effort into getting to know me and doesn't want to keep fishing for something better because, really how do you really get to truly know someone and build a relationship when your still looking for someone else. You can't. If I'm not good enough that you'd need to continue looking then I'm not your filler woman till better is found. I won't make you a filler fish, don't make me your filler fish lol. Someone who wants to know how my day was or enjoys the daily Txt saying "have a nice day" or "I'm thinking of you" I don't want someone who is just looking for a sex friend. If that's you just keep moving and don't bother me. I saw this and thought it was rather fitting for how I feel. "I may not be the most beautiful or sexiest, nor do I have the"perfect body". I might not be someones first choice, but I'm a great choice. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, because I'm good at being me. I'm not proud of some of the things I've done in the past, but I'm proud of who I am today. Take me as I am or watch me as I walk away"Why sit idly by and let life pass you by? Live life to the fullest!! I look forward to talking you soon! A first date would be a great conversation getting to know each other over a cup of coffee,a drink or a good meal. Depending on the weather a walk in the park, a Tincaps game, or a Komets game. I love riding a motorcycle in nice weather.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Caileigh

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    You write about yourself but you can't really get to know somebody unless you actually speak to them and see if you click!So really it's simple......if you're interested and want to know more, just ask! A first date is really seeing if you have a connection with the other person. There always has to be some kind of chemistry as well as a flowing conversation. With that being said I guess a good first date would be meeting for a drink or for coffee and seeing where it goes from there.

  • Nevada

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Well after raising two children who are now young adults I find myself thinking about settling down often. I am still raising my son who is 11 and although it is hard to find time to date. I make the time. Patience seems to be something that many men lack. They don't understand that I work hard and have lots of responsibilities however I am very spontaneous and fun. I love traveling, the beach, dancing... R&B .. all types of music.. I find it very calming along with a glass of wine and a nice fire. I am a hopeless romantic and am looking for a sweet, compassionate, fun , caring individual.. If that is you preferable a gentlemen who is involved in his childs life . I am looking for my soulmate, KING ... and I will be sure to be that Queen you are searching for. Smile. When we arrive, smile. Maybe you are a tough guy. Maybe you are nervous. Maybe you are paralyzed. Either way, smile. Women are strange, exotic, intuitive creatures, and we respond well to positive reinforcement. Do not glower.Ask Questions. This seems obvious, but it’s surprising how many men don’t do this. You know what women like? Attention. Also, kittens, flowers, and cupcakes. Nothing else. If you seem curious about the woman sitting across from you, she will like it. For sure.Listen. You can’t just ask a bunch of questions, and then not listen to the answers. They call this a “date,” but, really, for women, it’s more like a “test.” If you *** talked on the phone beforehand, remember what the hell she told you about herself. If you forget, we will feel angry and want to leave. Then you will be sorry.Act Right, Boy. We really do not care if you are secretly neurotic, deeply insecure, or mildly nuts. We are interested in how you portray yourself. Act confident, interested, engaged, self-assured, ambitious, and happy. We like that. Thanks.No Pawing Allowed. If you’re going to score with us at some point, we will let you know. Trust. Occasional physical contact is OK — a hand to the small of the back, a touch of the thigh, a brief holding of the arm while making a point. Do not grab anywhere in the red light zones. If we want your hands there, we will put them there.Say Goodnight. Don’t meander off into the night. Do something. What that is is up to you: a handshake, a hug, a kiss. Do it right? You might get a second date. I may be critical but it's better than having no expectation at all. Just what a real woman likes !!!!!

  • Georgetta

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Ive started seeing somrone.Don't you love talking about yourself? Well I'm an open book! If I don't touch on what you want to know, just ask! Two of my boys are now married and moved out, my youngest is 19 and moving out soon. I've never had the house all to myself. I'm now at a point in my life that I can do the things that I've always wanted to do. I would love to find a companion to keep me company. I'm NOT saying I want a committed relationship as soon as we meet but if it happens on down the road that will be awesome.I know what I want, Where I'm going and where I hope to be in 10 years. I have alot of goals and ambitions. I also have a long bucket list that I want to fulfill. I want to find that man that will help me obtain my goals and not hold me back from them. Hobbies are a long list. I really enjoy going to the movies, theme parks (love a roller coaster), beach, cooking out rather it's at home, beach or camping, nature walks, parks and almost anything that doesn't hurt me..lol There are lots of things that I want to do that I haven't.I have started working out in the gym and found that I'm becoming quickly addicted. I'll never be skinny, but in shape....YES. Got a ways to go but nothing like being a work in progress. I want to do a 5k by this time next year...that is on my bucket list! I really enjoy traveling, going to new places, discovering that cozy little dinner in the middle of nowhere or in a hole in the wall that no ones knows about, cruises are a passion of mine. I just came back from a medical mission trip to the Dominican Republic and had a really enlightening experience. I'm much more appreciative of the life that I live here in the states. Can't wait for that trip. Plan to ride down the Amazon River and have clinic along the river (I believe there are 9 outpost that we will visit). Nothing like giving of yourself to help those that are less fortunate and live in desperate times.I am a nurse, working in a hospital. I'm not rich and don't want to be your sugar mama or your mama of any type. What I'm looking for in a man is simple...honesty and caring. I want someone that wants me unconditionally even with all my faults. I'm not perfect, but i'm a good person. I want a man that wants to be with me and spend time with me. I don't want to smother or be smothered. However, I love to receive that text or call for no reason...just to say Hi and I'm thinking of you. I want to lay on the couch and hold hands while we watch a movie. .it's the simple things in life that are the most amazing at times. If you have questions or your still reading and find your interested, give me a holler!......

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