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Seriously?? Guys, if you don't intend to meet someone do NOT waste our time! Future guys, I will not waste weeks of *** we *** times, great but let's meet. Ask a person out! Why is that so difficult? Now that I have Sold my house in N. I am an independant women, where during the summer I do work 7 days a week ( help my elderly parents out with their summer business). For this reason, looking for someone close by, even though I do work a lot, I am "off duty" usually by noon...I am outspoken yet shy ( yes guys I am shy) ..I take great lenghts to make sure I am in good shape ( mentally and phyically) and expect my partner to do the same. By far this has been the most difficult state to date in. I find the men here ( please prove me wrong) not really willing to go that extra mile for a women, a bit lazy I guess I could say. I do want a man to come to my turf at first. Call it old fashioned, call it whatever you want, but one thing I can tell you all about women, is we like it when you do nice things like that.I am NOT a bar person. I will gladly meet you out for a drink on a first meeting, but guys, not a bar..that is not me..I am past that at my age. A quiet Restaurant in the corner where we can talk is much more my style.My likes:Walking, hiking, biking, gardening, going to the beach, the gym, cooking, wine..a good BBQ in the summer, hanging out with my family and Travel. Once I meet a man, my typical things to do are simple things...Dinner and a movie, walks on the beach or the back bay..hiking..traveling..Dislikes: Guys that tell me I have too many rules because I am not a late night person...One thing that is very important to me, is working out. I do classes at night afterwork. so my weekdays are usually doing that, I don't get home until 7:30..Will that eventually change, probably..but not right now..Even still I just don't do late night things..I am a morning person...you want to meet on a Sunday morning for a hike. GREAT...or an weekend afternoon kind of thing? fantastic..I guess it goes back tot he bar thing...just not interested. I am looking for someone fit, usually clean cut, ( Yes, that does mean the full beards, funky facial hair, are not attractive to me sorry, ), tall ( I stand 5'8" bare footed)and attractive. Also a complete non smoker. BTW unless I am at the gym or working for my Dad, I am Usually in heels..I am sure i will write more but kinda rushed. Anything but coffee pls..Be creative...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ally

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Okay... so short and sweet... I don't date smokers or really large men!! I don't mind a little meat on a guy, but just because you once played high school football, it doesn't mean you have an 'athletic' body type now!! Sorry, it had to be said!! Basically if you have no JAW DEFINITION between your chin, neck and shoulders or you look 7 months pregnant... odds are, I'm not gonna reply!! You don't see me saying I have an 'athletic' build just cause I have a relatively well placed curve here and there... I know I have plenty of junk in my trunk!! lmao I hate to be so blunt, but the physical part of a 'relationship' is EXTREMELY important to me and I know what I'm attracted to and what turns me off!! So please... don't take it personally!! But if you're a borderline caveman type (and no I'm not speaking in terms of body hair... yuk!! lol) and have testosterone still flowing through you at full capacity and find me attractive, you should definitely message me!! :PMy job is very stressful so my home life is uber chill and I'd like to keep it that way so leave the drama and baggage at the door!! Truth be told I'm a huge gaming nerd...ya I said it... have been forever and don't see that changing any time soon and honestly I think it would be awesome to find a guy who's also into gaming!! Don't get me wrong, I like to go do all the other 'same old shit' stuff that everyone always has in their profiles (camping, fishing, boating, outdoors, dancing, blah, blah, blah) but when I'm single most of my free time is spent playing FPS like BF3, HALO or COD... along with the occasional RPG since I don't drink much and rarely go out to the bars any more (if you know what I'm talking about you should certainly message me - if nothing else we can have some epic gaming battles online!! LOL)!! So that's it... if you want to know more, guess you'll have to ask and actually have some sort of conversation with me!! haha And if you have no ideal how to actually make a PHONE CALL on your cell phone and live your life via texting... sorry, I'll have to pass... I don't have entire conversations via text!! Don't get me wrong... texting has it's place, but is certainly NOT the most productive way to start anything meaningful!! And with that I say... Happy fishing and good luck!! :) First date should be extremely casual with no expectations. Other than that, my needs are simple so YOU can pick!! :)I'm NOT looking for a fu&$ buddy, FWB (that is something that just happens if it's RIGHT, not something you PLAN), or to HOOK UP for some random sexual encounter... so if that's what you're looking for, please don't bother wasting my time!! Thanks!! ***!!!***Put this on your***!!!***page if you---!!!!!!!!!!!!!!-- know someone in the ***!!!***Armed Forces or to***!!!***show your support***!!!***and respect to all***!!!***our troops!WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.

  • Tori

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I just moved back to the area. I have three children and two goldens full time mom looking to meet some one and build something special together slowly relatively normal, brutally honest and in constant motion. I have dated quite a bit since my divorce 3 years ago but haven't found some one I really feel strongly about I want to, but I am not going to settle for easy or do all the work. i want real romance, caring and equal Meeting for a quick drink maybe - then a first date rather traditional

  • Georgetta

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Ive started seeing somrone.Don't you love talking about yourself? Well I'm an open book! If I don't touch on what you want to know, just ask! Two of my boys are now married and moved out, my youngest is 19 and moving out soon. I've never had the house all to myself. I'm now at a point in my life that I can do the things that I've always wanted to do. I would love to find a companion to keep me company. I'm NOT saying I want a committed relationship as soon as we meet but if it happens on down the road that will be awesome.I know what I want, Where I'm going and where I hope to be in 10 years. I have alot of goals and ambitions. I also have a long bucket list that I want to fulfill. I want to find that man that will help me obtain my goals and not hold me back from them. Hobbies are a long list. I really enjoy going to the movies, theme parks (love a roller coaster), beach, cooking out rather it's at home, beach or camping, nature walks, parks and almost anything that doesn't hurt me..lol There are lots of things that I want to do that I haven't.I have started working out in the gym and found that I'm becoming quickly addicted. I'll never be skinny, but in shape....YES. Got a ways to go but nothing like being a work in progress. I want to do a 5k by this time next year...that is on my bucket list! I really enjoy traveling, going to new places, discovering that cozy little dinner in the middle of nowhere or in a hole in the wall that no ones knows about, cruises are a passion of mine. I just came back from a medical mission trip to the Dominican Republic and had a really enlightening experience. I'm much more appreciative of the life that I live here in the states. Can't wait for that trip. Plan to ride down the Amazon River and have clinic along the river (I believe there are 9 outpost that we will visit). Nothing like giving of yourself to help those that are less fortunate and live in desperate times.I am a nurse, working in a hospital. I'm not rich and don't want to be your sugar mama or your mama of any type. What I'm looking for in a man is simple...honesty and caring. I want someone that wants me unconditionally even with all my faults. I'm not perfect, but i'm a good person. I want a man that wants to be with me and spend time with me. I don't want to smother or be smothered. However, I love to receive that text or call for no reason...just to say Hi and I'm thinking of you. I want to lay on the couch and hold hands while we watch a movie. .it's the simple things in life that are the most amazing at times. If you have questions or your still reading and find your interested, give me a holler!......

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