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About Me

Oh sure, it saves some of my changes but not all of them. What's really frustrating is I liked what I wrote, which is kinda new for me. I usually have such a difficult time figuring out what I want to say.Both of my children are on their way to being grown, as of this year they are both in college. I'm so excited for them and enjoy watching them become adults. It's also put me in a position to learn about myself. What do I want in this next stage of my life. I've learned that I enjoy living alone, I like the feeling of coming home to an empty house. I've also learned I'm not the girl next door. I enjoy hanging out at home alone or with friends playing games (spades, dominos, etc.) or going out for a night of adventure. This is one of those things I didn't think to put in my about me section but several men have been offended by my response to there messages. My dating preference is black men, I've dated others (even married others), its an attraction thing its not personal. Not everyone is attracted to larger white women, I don't take offense at that so please don't be offended by my preference. To all those who visit my profile, I wish you luck in your search. Something that would allow conversation, to get to know the person better.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Dinner with friendsmoviesoutdoorscampinghikinghorsesskiingmusicI love being outside, going for walks, hiking, camping. I also like going to dinner with good friends having a couple of drinks, and most of all i love spending time with my daughter :)

  • Betsy

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am an intelligent woman with many hobbies and Interests including: music (classic rock, jazz, 80's stuff), travel, good books and good movies. I am looking to meet someone honest and caring. In return I hope I can offer the same. The world I live in is a very interesting place!Okay, to everyone living with a roommate that is actually your spouse, please don't involve me in your infedelity. I have my Karma to balance. Please be respectful and contact me ONLY AND I MEAN only if you are single. I am not good with drama. Oh, and if you don't live alone, please don't expect me to understand you want to be alone with me at my place. I am a single woman, and I have to be careful.Hmm, the personal information: well, I like affection. I am old enough to know all the good stuff and a little bit of the naughty stuff. I am comfortable in my skin, but have my shy moments. I adore human intimacy and contact as much as anyone, but not into anything that hurts another. I will leave the rest for later or for your imagination: whichever comes first. And again, please no drama and BS. I won't watch "reality" TV for the same reason. I know what's real and what isn't! Someplace with a good cup of coffee and good conversation. Oh, yes, and because some people insist on misrepresentation, somewhere public!

  • Chantelle

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    My profile seems to be evolving a bit as time passes. Funny how our priorities and perspective begin to change. There's no happy medium between "Dating but nothing serious" and "I want a relationship" but if there were a selection, that's what I'd choose >> Since friendship is a strong foundation for dating, I figure that's a good place to start. I don't put limits OR expectations on anything. But on the same token, I'm personally not into FWB - no, really. Ultimately, I'd like to find my perfectly fitting puzzle piece. Since I'm definitely not perfect, he doesn't need to be, either... Just perfect for me. Hobbies, hmmm... Wide and varied. Not into shopping - I'm missing that female shopping hormone. Although, Cabela's and Bass Pro do not count (they are the holy grail of retail experiences). As you can see by the list (way up there^^), I like a lot of different things. I value friends as much as I do my family, so spending time with them means the world to me. I love sports, but no, I'm not a Cowboys fan just because I happen to have been waylaid here over a decade. I will admit - their stadium is incredible. I'm actually a Chargers girl - always have been, always will be. Red Sox, win or lose, will always be in my heart, as well.Friends describe me as sincere, witty, affectionate, down-to-earth, and probably too honest for my own good. I'm very simple and live drama-free. By this age, most of us have some baggage - fortunately, I do NOT have stock in Samsonite > mine all fits in a mini ziplock. I've learned that I'm more of a giver so I'd like to find someone who is thoughtful, as well. Kindness and compassion absolutely charm me, and a rapier wit will keep me laughing for days. Communication is also very important to me. And if you don't have the time to date, please be fair about that.Please feel welcome to contact me if you'd like. If not, no offense taken, Happy Fishing! FYI, it's really not my nature to contact someone first, but if I do, it might just be a comment or question about a photo or something you mentioned. I'm not always "fishing."Yes, my photos are very recent. "Outside of a dog, a book is man's best friend. Inside of a dog, it's too dark to read." - Groucho Marx ~ First dates are always nerve-wracking ~ How about something low key just to enjoy conversation and learn a bit about one another?

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