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About Me

Oh sure, it saves some of my changes but not all of them. What's really frustrating is I liked what I wrote, which is kinda new for me. I usually have such a difficult time figuring out what I want to say.Both of my children are on their way to being grown, as of this year they are both in college. I'm so excited for them and enjoy watching them become adults. It's also put me in a position to learn about myself. What do I want in this next stage of my life. I've learned that I enjoy living alone, I like the feeling of coming home to an empty house. I've also learned I'm not the girl next door. I enjoy hanging out at home alone or with friends playing games (spades, dominos, etc.) or going out for a night of adventure. This is one of those things I didn't think to put in my about me section but several men have been offended by my response to there messages. My dating preference is black men, I've dated others (even married others), its an attraction thing its not personal. Not everyone is attracted to larger white women, I don't take offense at that so please don't be offended by my preference. To all those who visit my profile, I wish you luck in your search. Something that would allow conversation, to get to know the person better.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ondreea

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a single mom devoted to my 2 children. Would like to find someone that is willing to go slow, but looking for committment. Love to cook and d*mn good at it. Would love to cook a nice meal for an appreciative man. All around perfect gal who likes to watch sports. Love my Jets and Celtics. Enjoy watching racing too. Not into the bar scene anymore. Would love to go on an old fashioned date for a change. Outgoing, sarcastic humor, love to laugh. I should mention that I do have a restriction on distance, I just don't do long distance relationships. So if you live over an hour away, don't waste your time. I think with the prices of gas, and me being a VERY busy single mom I just don't have time to be on the road.Here are the things I know I DON'T want: Bad tempers, SMOKERS(I will not budge on this, if I wanted to lick and ashtray I would, and it stinks!) Big drinkers, and honest to god- if your more than 15 yrs older than me, your gonna waste your time. I'm not into much older men- and I've got a father already :) Now, some of you will write your letters saying not so nice things because they don't care for the style I've choosen to write my profile- that's great cus you're just weeding yourself out of the ones I might date. I'm a very independent woman, who has her own mind,some men find that threatening and I understand that..But if your willing to just see that this is one woman who knows what she does NOT want- it's that simple..Now, go out there and find yourself a date- isn't that what we're here for? :)See the above: I highly suggest reading it all :)PS: After about a thousand or so ONE little word *** as well just give you this hint..If you just send a hi, I won't respond. I'm mean come on, really? I have no clue anymore...

  • Charlotte

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Simple kind of woman who loves life and life loves me. Down 2 earth easy going like all kinds of music and loves taking care of myself. You wanna know some more leave me a message. Go for a coffee, drink and will see if there any connection if so will take it from there.

  • Beth

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    If you are 60 or older, I probably wont be interested. I do have a wonderful Aunt that might be though. I am a total people person, I love to surround myself with positive people, I love to laugh and have fun. I love to be in the water and on the beach, I love rollercoasters, I have only been skydiving once, but, I would do it everyday if I could. I have the most amazing son, mother and family. And, my friends are totally awesome. I have a great support system. Everything works out when I get out of the way and let go and let God. I wouldn't change a thing about my life at this moment if I could. I totally believe everything happens for a reason. I don't always get what I want, but, I always get what I need. I don't like drama, chaos or negative people. I lived in that world for way too long. I want peace and serenity. :-) " True nobility is being superior to your former self." -.. Apologize when you should... And let go of what you can't change... Love deeply and forgive quickly... Take chances and give your everything... Life is too short to be anything but happy... You have to take the good with the bad... Love what you have... Always remember what you had... Forgive... but don't forget.. but always remember that Life goes on!!Let go of what kills you, and hold on to what keeps you breathing. Live in the present and make it beautiful. Embrace the ones who love you; forget the ones who mistreat you. Save what's left in the best part of your heart for the one who truly wants to prove to you what love is.I'm going to put this out there right away, I don't want to waste anyone's time. I am a member of AA (sobriety date ***, I am in recovery and I WORK at one of the top drug/alcohol treatment centers in the US. I DO NOT drink or do any drugs. With that being said, lets see how many more people ask me out for a drink. I know on the "About You" I put that I don't drink. PLEASE, DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A BOOTY CALL. Thanks.someone teach me to surf, PLEASE!!!Words can not describe the love I have for the ocean. If you don't love the beach and the ocean, we will not be a good match.I have a crazy sense of humor. If you are easily offended or easily shocked, chances are you won't like me. I like being silly, saying and doing off the wall things. Some say opposites attract, that is not true for me.I want someone that is as crazy and as outgoing as me. We can do something exciting like skydiving or something relaxing like going to the beach.

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