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Shala, 41

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About Me

I signed up on here, then got steam rolled at work. But I have now found my balance :D I am ready for a relationship where both people are honest and on the same page. The only games I want to play are board games.....and maybe some hide and seek. I enjoy getting to know people and keeping them in my life. I am honest and upfront....solid, but not obese. And I think its great that those types can get their asses handed to them in a game and laugh about it after. I'm not restricting myself to a type. I'm just telling you what's attracted me in the past.I also appreciate those that read these profiles and try to take them at face value. Yes, I am that height and I enjoy wearing heels. Yes, I did say a few extra pounds. If the other things about me interest you, then message me. If me not being skinny is a problem, then don't bother. ( I told you above that I am honest)Don't send me pictures of your penis and don't ask me to be friends with benefits. If I wanted either of those things, I would've said so. Mini golfmoviesCoffeeWalking and talkingJust about anything fun to get to know people.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sharolyn

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    People always tell me I'm funny and outgoing. I'm also told I'm a bit sassy. Whatever that means. :) But, I also think I can be a bit shy and laid back. I am a true friend for life. One thing that brings me great joy is giving a good gift. I am thoughtful and dependable. I am not a perfectionist, but expect people to always try their best at everything and anything they do. I am a true Midwestern girl at heart. But, I love to experience the world as well. I have traveled or lived in Europe, Asia, the Caribbean. This is home. But, I am always up to experiencing a new place and new people. Having said that, nothing makes me happier on vacation than to have a very relaxing day on a very quiet beach. I love sports. And, while certainly not a tomboy, I always tend to hang more by the t.v. with the boys than chat with the girls in the kitchen. Holding on... still... for my Cubbies. Oh pahleeeeze... It's time. I enjoy yoga and feel great after I've had my butt kicked in class. I also enjoy swimming and biking. I've become a bit more serious about my running in the last few years. I'm certainly not good at it, but I'm giving it my best effort. My new thing seems to be running ***marathons. While still hard for me, I'm getting better at it each time. Hey, I get some bling-bling and a free beer for finishing! I'm easy to please. ; Fingers crossed... You better like tall. I love my heels and really only wear flat shoes when I have my running shoes on. I appreciate someone who loves life and loves family. I like a confident, but certainly not arrogant, guy who works hard (but not too hard) and plays hard (but not too hard). Make me laugh and your golden. I like someone who is active in some way, whether running, biking, or other sports. Also, it is very important to me that you are not afraid to show affection. This is a non-negotiable for me. Also, tall Yeah, I need tall. Sorry, anyone under 6'0. P.S. I find men with Cubs season tickets particularly attractive. ;)

  • Tresha

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    We all have our own opinion. I'm genuine and not afraid to speak my mind Love surprises

  • Chantelle

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    My profile seems to be evolving a bit as time passes. Funny how our priorities and perspective begin to change. There's no happy medium between "Dating but nothing serious" and "I want a relationship" but if there were a selection, that's what I'd choose >> Since friendship is a strong foundation for dating, I figure that's a good place to start. I don't put limits OR expectations on anything. But on the same token, I'm personally not into FWB - no, really. Ultimately, I'd like to find my perfectly fitting puzzle piece. Since I'm definitely not perfect, he doesn't need to be, either... Just perfect for me. Hobbies, hmmm... Wide and varied. Not into shopping - I'm missing that female shopping hormone. Although, Cabela's and Bass Pro do not count (they are the holy grail of retail experiences). As you can see by the list (way up there^^), I like a lot of different things. I value friends as much as I do my family, so spending time with them means the world to me. I love sports, but no, I'm not a Cowboys fan just because I happen to have been waylaid here over a decade. I will admit - their stadium is incredible. I'm actually a Chargers girl - always have been, always will be. Red Sox, win or lose, will always be in my heart, as well.Friends describe me as sincere, witty, affectionate, down-to-earth, and probably too honest for my own good. I'm very simple and live drama-free. By this age, most of us have some baggage - fortunately, I do NOT have stock in Samsonite > mine all fits in a mini ziplock. I've learned that I'm more of a giver so I'd like to find someone who is thoughtful, as well. Kindness and compassion absolutely charm me, and a rapier wit will keep me laughing for days. Communication is also very important to me. And if you don't have the time to date, please be fair about that.Please feel welcome to contact me if you'd like. If not, no offense taken, Happy Fishing! FYI, it's really not my nature to contact someone first, but if I do, it might just be a comment or question about a photo or something you mentioned. I'm not always "fishing."Yes, my photos are very recent. "Outside of a dog, a book is man's best friend. Inside of a dog, it's too dark to read." - Groucho Marx ~ First dates are always nerve-wracking ~ How about something low key just to enjoy conversation and learn a bit about one another?

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