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Shala, 41

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About Me

I signed up on here, then got steam rolled at work. But I have now found my balance :D I am ready for a relationship where both people are honest and on the same page. The only games I want to play are board games.....and maybe some hide and seek. I enjoy getting to know people and keeping them in my life. I am honest and upfront....solid, but not obese. And I think its great that those types can get their asses handed to them in a game and laugh about it after. I'm not restricting myself to a type. I'm just telling you what's attracted me in the past.I also appreciate those that read these profiles and try to take them at face value. Yes, I am that height and I enjoy wearing heels. Yes, I did say a few extra pounds. If the other things about me interest you, then message me. If me not being skinny is a problem, then don't bother. ( I told you above that I am honest)Don't send me pictures of your penis and don't ask me to be friends with benefits. If I wanted either of those things, I would've said so. Mini golfmoviesCoffeeWalking and talkingJust about anything fun to get to know people.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Alma

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm the girl next door and would probably remind you of your best friend's little sister. I am looking for someone nice, honest, kind and reliable to hang out with. I am NOT looking for a hookup or friends with benefits.Wow, how to describe myself... I am a woman after all, we change from one second to the next! Come on, you know you are agreeing with me right now. ;)Well, here goes... I'm kind, honest, faithful and loyal. I'm pretty (so I have been told) but not girly, I like the simple life and money doesn't mean much to me. I am much more impressed with a man's personality than his bank account. I live in the country by choice. I don't like mean, snobby, cruel people and I have no time for men who are liars or cheats. I like real men- the kind they used to make. I can be stubborn. I almost guarantee I will cry at a sad movie, song or one of those darn Hallmark commercials. I like to camp, fish, canoe, go to movies, the theatre, sit around a bonfire, go boating, go to an auction, I love photography, road trips or just a lazy drive on a gravel road with the radio on! I am up for about anything, but I am not the daredevil type. There are so many more things I could list- but let's just go with I am multifaceted. I'm easy going and easy to please, BUT if you screw up and do something INCREDIBLY stupid- I will let you know what I think about it. I may be quiet, but I am no wallflower. I am relatively low maintenance- I drive a truck (which is usually dirty) and prefer jeans and a tshirt to a dress and heels. You will find me dressed up though, I do know how. I have a job and don't need someone to support me, I'm not a freeloader (I am also not looking for someone that wants to spend MY money for me). That was not a slap in the face, I am about as far from being a woman's libber as you can get. I have old fashioned values and stick to them and I am just a bit tired of getting used. And I can handle a little harmless jealousy, but if you plan on going crazy with it or controlling me- you might want to send a message to someone else ***, I don't handle being pushed real well.All of this sounds so blunt, like I'm trying to sell a used car. My profile isn't glamorous- there are no lies. I am not going to try to be someone else just to impress you- this is who I am and I am pretty ok with that.So, here I am! TaDa! I don't know what you are looking for, but I guarantee you would like me as a friend. Shoot me a message and we can talk, go fishing, hit a movie, grab some ice cream... maybe hang out. I am looking for someone NICE- someone that I can be friends with, but someone with some spark and passion that is fun to be around. Am I picky? ABSOLUTELY. Oh, and contrary to what my profile may make you think... I am not crazy... or am I?? ;0) Come on... a lame attempt at some humor in an uncomfortable situation here.*Since most of the responses I get make mention of how I look, I wanted to clear things up.- this may not be the norm for me. I would rather have someone say 'You look SO much better than your picture, than the opposite of... you looked MUCH better in your photos." So, I am adding a new profile pic- assume this how I usually look (it may be closer to the truth) and then there will be no surprises or disappointment. As you can see, I wasn't joking about loving the greasy pizza... Not trying to be rude here, but sending me a message calling me sweetie, baby, honey, sexy, etc is just weird. You don't even know me and I am not the kind of woman that falls for it. And no, I am not a fan of motorcycles- sorry.

  • Frannie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Please no booty calls. My interests go deeper than a fling. A sexual relationship takes time and trust. If you are not in a rush and are truly interested in getting to know me before jumping into the sack then let's start with a face to face.Kindly be honest and add a recent photo as this is one big ocean of people to screen. Some have asked why so important to see a photo? Again, I am sure you will concur, there are, well... scary people out there. I prefer to have a preview of what I might be sitting across from. Who knows, we might show up in the same outfit (no word of a lie). Awkward. WARNING : I no longer have filters. If you need things to be sugar coated, we might have issues.Okay now that said, negative points are out, and if still interested, please continue.I have every other weekend off and enjoy avoiding my house work. Please feel free to take me out of this vortex. I love and need to laugh and goof off. Life's responsibilities are heavy and serious enough. I have shared custody of my 2 children ***& 8), but it is a mid week rotation, so dates can be a little spaced. BTW they are NOT part of the package. Their father and I are doing a great job raising them.Important to mention, I do much better with low maintenance people. If you are jealous or insecure, I am not the one who will make you happy, of that I am sure. I don't want to take people for granted and know that everyone deserves respect no matter the situation.Prepared to invest the time it takes and not simply horny, send me a message.FYI - I am fluently bilingual in both French and English.Off topic : I wish I renovated bathrooms 'cause there are many nasty ones as far as meetville goes. ;) I don't approach this as a romantic opportunity. We are strangers so let's have a laid back sit down face to face over a drink or coffee. We'll know what to do next if there is a next in our future.

  • Reese

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am looking for a friend to start and if there is magic there...if there is chemistry there...if there is love at first sight...then the rest will follow!! Read on: I think true love is when you and the person you are with find comfort and strength in eachother without "needing" it, i think it's when there is such a bond...such a connection that each feels as if they have known eachother forever, i think it's when each feels they can put blind faith in eachother to be honest-sincere-trusting (trustworthy) and not have to think twice about it, i think it's when just a touch from that person makes you feel that warmth you feel from the first rays of sunlight on a beautiful spring morning, i think it's when each of you can be on opposite ends of a room and be able to just look at eachother a certain way and know that each is the only person they are thinking about, i think true love is out there..."They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, and an entire lifetime to forget them. There are many things in life that will catch your eye, but only a few will catch your heart; pursue those. "FOOTNOTE: I will be beginning college in a couple of months so my time will be limited. There WILL be time for that someone special if I find him, but he must understand that I have children and their needs come before mine. Anything that would be fun and enable us to talk and get to know one another.

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