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Shala, 41

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About Me

I signed up on here, then got steam rolled at work. But I have now found my balance :D I am ready for a relationship where both people are honest and on the same page. The only games I want to play are board games.....and maybe some hide and seek. I enjoy getting to know people and keeping them in my life. I am honest and upfront....solid, but not obese. And I think its great that those types can get their asses handed to them in a game and laugh about it after. I'm not restricting myself to a type. I'm just telling you what's attracted me in the past.I also appreciate those that read these profiles and try to take them at face value. Yes, I am that height and I enjoy wearing heels. Yes, I did say a few extra pounds. If the other things about me interest you, then message me. If me not being skinny is a problem, then don't bother. ( I told you above that I am honest)Don't send me pictures of your penis and don't ask me to be friends with benefits. If I wanted either of those things, I would've said so. Mini golfmoviesCoffeeWalking and talkingJust about anything fun to get to know people.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sixta

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Down to earth, love to laugh but more so for you to make me laugh, enjoy the outdoors and spending time with family and friends. Love the water, beach, festivals, concerts, traveling and just having at home quiet time, alone but even more so with someone special. Not the easiest to trust at first, but once you've earned it I'm yours. I'm independent and can handle things on my own, but still appreciate a man to make an effort to take charge and show that he cares. I'll update more later but in the meantime, if you have questions please feel free to message me. Look forward to hearing from you :)I guess I should go ahead and end this with this:I'm in no hurry but my ultimate goal/hope here is to find a good, stable, long term relationship, so if that's not your intent please don't ***, no offense but no need in wasting your time but more importantly mine :) Open to anything, let's decide together!

  • Franchesca

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Im so sick of tired of the men here who claim they r seeking something longterm and real but really on one thing...just trying to see how they can sqeeze somone in, for their own beneufits!!!! ALERT TURN OFFS ARE PICS WITH GLASSES ON, AND SHIRTS OFF....COME ON///LOL ......ALSO IF U HAVE NO TIME TO DATE CUZ U WORK SO MUCH, AND HAVE KIDS EVERY WEEKEND PROB NOT A MATCH, I REQUIRE TIME, WHAT LADY WANTS TO WAIT AROUND OR ALWAYS BE A LAST RESORT TO UR TIME! Hi, Ive been here quite a few times, cancel account then get curious and come back to see if anything has changed, lol...I am 40, cosmotologist, I have a daughter who is 17, I am seeking professional BLACK MAN!!!!!!!!! OVER 35, someone with goals, dreams, real job, car, just simple place to call home, I perfer to date mEn with older children,and not a ton of them..lol, I am not here for sexual encounters!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! pLS LEAVE UR SMaRT COMMENTS TO UR SELF!I am a loving person with alot of love to give, but I will not settle for less!! We are not getting any younger,,,lol Whatever comes to mind with in reason

  • Marchelle

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hobbies: Outdoor activities (hiking, kayaking...anything to do with water) exercise (yoga especially), the arts.Goals: Travel, try new things, enjoy life.Taste in music...everything but country.I like being around positive people who are drama free. I have no drama in my life and I am pretty much baggage free (aside from a few quirks that I consider part of my charm ;***I would prefer someone who knows what they want but really, who is that sure of themselves? I seek someone who is intelligent, honest, unique, open minded, fun, kind, and considerate. I am financially stable and in a good place, and looking for someone who is as well (not someone who is wealthy necessarily, but someone who can enjoy nice experiences, travel, and things without worry). Also, if you're a couch potato, move on. I like to be active, out and about, but I also like SOME nights at home relaxing with a glass of wine, popcorn, movies, backyard fire pit, etc). I have a life that is full of good friends, family and fun and I consider myself very lucky and blessed. I would like to have a special person in my life but I am not desperate or clingy and I will not boil your bunny (ETA: my brother read my profile and thinks I should leave the boiled bunny comment out. I disagree. If you don't know what movie that is from, then you're probably too young for me anyway...If you took it seriously, then you probably don't have my off sense of humour and just might need to lighten up a bit. If you just didn't get the reference but understood the context that I am not a psycho, then good enough). I have no children of my own but have no problems dating those who do have children. I like children and work well with them (I should, it's my job). They're good for setting the VCR and junk. Ok, I don't have a VCR, but I do depend on the kids in my life to keep me updated on technology. They teach me well :) I also understand that time may be at a premium if you have children and that they are your first priority. Remember, I am not clingy and in fact, I enjoy and value my time with friends, myself, etc. so you will get no flack from me for being a responsible, loving parent. I get it, I respect that, it's good. Let's take a hike! Or go to the art museum and let me quiz (or you can quiz me) on the art/artists/styles etc. Or, get your in-line skates and let's see if we can still do this thing!

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