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Chantelle, 44
United States, Pennsylvania, Red Lion

Offline, last seen Sat, 04 Apr 2026 18:19:41

About Me

My profile seems to be evolving a bit as time passes. Funny how our priorities and perspective begin to change. There's no happy medium between "Dating but nothing serious" and "I want a relationship" but if there were a selection, that's what I'd choose >> Since friendship is a strong foundation for dating, I figure that's a good place to start. I don't put limits OR expectations on anything. But on the same token, I'm personally not into FWB - no, really. Ultimately, I'd like to find my perfectly fitting puzzle piece. Since I'm definitely not perfect, he doesn't need to be, either... Just perfect for me. Hobbies, hmmm... Wide and varied. Not into shopping - I'm missing that female shopping hormone. Although, Cabela's and Bass Pro do not count (they are the holy grail of retail experiences). As you can see by the list (way up there^^), I like a lot of different things. I value friends as much as I do my family, so spending time with them means the world to me. I love sports, but no, I'm not a Cowboys fan just because I happen to have been waylaid here over a decade. I will admit - their stadium is incredible. I'm actually a Chargers girl - always have been, always will be. Red Sox, win or lose, will always be in my heart, as well.Friends describe me as sincere, witty, affectionate, down-to-earth, and probably too honest for my own good. I'm very simple and live drama-free. By this age, most of us have some baggage - fortunately, I do NOT have stock in Samsonite > mine all fits in a mini ziplock. I've learned that I'm more of a giver so I'd like to find someone who is thoughtful, as well. Kindness and compassion absolutely charm me, and a rapier wit will keep me laughing for days. Communication is also very important to me. And if you don't have the time to date, please be fair about that.Please feel welcome to contact me if you'd like. If not, no offense taken, Happy Fishing! FYI, it's really not my nature to contact someone first, but if I do, it might just be a comment or question about a photo or something you mentioned. I'm not always "fishing."Yes, my photos are very recent. "Outside of a dog, a book is man's best friend. Inside of a dog, it's too dark to read." - Groucho Marx ~ First dates are always nerve-wracking ~ How about something low key just to enjoy conversation and learn a bit about one another?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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