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Shanda, 42

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About Me

After an incredibly unsuccessful run here this past summer I've been persuaded by friends and the general lack of men on white horses galloping past my house to come back here again. So here it goes....I am pretty happy with my life, solid career, good friends and family and amazing kids. I don't dwell on it but I recognize I'm missing the "the adult portion" of my life, I would like to fill that gap. I like (in no particular order) house projects, red wine, beaching it, skiing, seafood, hot yoga, weekends to random cities, cheering on my kids,watching the sox or b's, wine country (it's been way too long since I've been), a good book, a night by the fire pit, gardening, art....I'm not into reality tv, riding on the back of motorcycles(on that note I do think they can beautiful - I just don't ride on them) , drama (of any kind), horror movies, cars, camping, lots of tattoos, comedy clubs, following the entertainment industry, being overwhelmed or disappointed by life, endless texting or ***, picture exchanges I like the kind that actually happen...so lets pick a day, pick a spot, pick a time to meet and make it happen. We are all busy and sometimes schedules aren't aligned so drinks and an appetizer, lunch outside somewhere before the weather turns, coffee....they all work.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jenessa

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm not looking for someone who makes hundreds of thousands of dollars. Sure, that would be great, but really, it's not me, it's not what I'm used to. I believe that if you want something, you have to work for it. I'm NOT the stay at home type. I need to work, I need to feel that I am contributing to the relationship. If you don't make as much as your spouse, that's OK. There are other ways to give to a relationship...love, caring, sharing, honesty, support. Things like that. I don't want to be your whole world, just part of it. And please don't keep me a secret from your family and friends. I just want to love and be loved. To share every day life with someone special. I'd like another child, but it's not deal breaker. you should know that I plan on becoming a foster parent within the next two years. Trust is extremely important, please don't lie to me, and I won't lie to you. I really am looking for something long term, even marriage. I feel that I'm too old for "Hook ups"...besides, that's just not something I would do anyway. If I'm not the lady for you, then I wish you luck in your search:-) It could be anything from dinner at a nice restuarant, to mini golf and go karts, to hot dogs on the beach at sunset...pretty much anything, as long as we're having a good time. I can't stress this enough...NO HOOK UPS PLEASE!

  • Shawna

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm a country girl at heart. Love to ride horses. I enjoy doing alot of things, Dancing to just snuggled up on the couch. I like to have fun, don't like to be to serious all the time. Life is too short, you have to enjoy life to be happy. I would like to meet someone to be happy with, that will treat me the way I treat them. Im not fancy by any means at all. So if your looking for a barbie doll im not it. I like to get muddy, hair in a ponytail or cap, jeans and boots or tennis shoes. I also like to dress up once in a while, but not everyday. Im lookin for a longterm match, not just a roll in the hay. So please if that is all you are looking for, go to the next person. Thank you. I would like our first date to be somewhere that we can talk and get to know more about each other.

  • Jolene

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    .I am a very independent person... have my motorcycle liscense but have not bought one yet or even if I am going to.. I listen to a variety of music so I can not say which I like the most... depends on my mood. I have decided I am not going to waste my time or yours so if you are recently broke up, still undecided on what you are looking for, please don't *** to contact me..I am looking for one true heart to spend my time with doing whatever comes up... one that is spontaneous but true from the heart... ---I would like a man that is secure in his life emotionally and financially! So very unattractive when a man complains of child support or how he didn't go to college therefore he has no money! Life is what we want out of it! Not the can haves cause you didn't make it happen! - If your looking for sex right away..move on this is not what I am looking for or about..That comes when YOU know someone and theres more to dating then jumpin in the sack... Sorry but life is proven that sex is the best part when YOU share it with someone you care about!! I am open to dinner, movies, bowling, pool, drinks.. drop me a line lets see what happens!!

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