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Jenessa, 44

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About Me

I'm not looking for someone who makes hundreds of thousands of dollars. Sure, that would be great, but really, it's not me, it's not what I'm used to. I believe that if you want something, you have to work for it. I'm NOT the stay at home type. I need to work, I need to feel that I am contributing to the relationship. If you don't make as much as your spouse, that's OK. There are other ways to give to a relationship...love, caring, sharing, honesty, support. Things like that. I don't want to be your whole world, just part of it. And please don't keep me a secret from your family and friends. I just want to love and be loved. To share every day life with someone special. I'd like another child, but it's not deal breaker. you should know that I plan on becoming a foster parent within the next two years. Trust is extremely important, please don't lie to me, and I won't lie to you. I really am looking for something long term, even marriage. I feel that I'm too old for "Hook ups"...besides, that's just not something I would do anyway. If I'm not the lady for you, then I wish you luck in your search:-) It could be anything from dinner at a nice restuarant, to mini golf and go karts, to hot dogs on the beach at sunset...pretty much anything, as long as we're having a good time. I can't stress this enough...NO HOOK UPS PLEASE!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alma

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm the girl next door and would probably remind you of your best friend's little sister. I am looking for someone nice, honest, kind and reliable to hang out with. I am NOT looking for a hookup or friends with benefits.Wow, how to describe myself... I am a woman after all, we change from one second to the next! Come on, you know you are agreeing with me right now. ;)Well, here goes... I'm kind, honest, faithful and loyal. I'm pretty (so I have been told) but not girly, I like the simple life and money doesn't mean much to me. I am much more impressed with a man's personality than his bank account. I live in the country by choice. I don't like mean, snobby, cruel people and I have no time for men who are liars or cheats. I like real men- the kind they used to make. I can be stubborn. I almost guarantee I will cry at a sad movie, song or one of those darn Hallmark commercials. I like to camp, fish, canoe, go to movies, the theatre, sit around a bonfire, go boating, go to an auction, I love photography, road trips or just a lazy drive on a gravel road with the radio on! I am up for about anything, but I am not the daredevil type. There are so many more things I could list- but let's just go with I am multifaceted. I'm easy going and easy to please, BUT if you screw up and do something INCREDIBLY stupid- I will let you know what I think about it. I may be quiet, but I am no wallflower. I am relatively low maintenance- I drive a truck (which is usually dirty) and prefer jeans and a tshirt to a dress and heels. You will find me dressed up though, I do know how. I have a job and don't need someone to support me, I'm not a freeloader (I am also not looking for someone that wants to spend MY money for me). That was not a slap in the face, I am about as far from being a woman's libber as you can get. I have old fashioned values and stick to them and I am just a bit tired of getting used. And I can handle a little harmless jealousy, but if you plan on going crazy with it or controlling me- you might want to send a message to someone else ***, I don't handle being pushed real well.All of this sounds so blunt, like I'm trying to sell a used car. My profile isn't glamorous- there are no lies. I am not going to try to be someone else just to impress you- this is who I am and I am pretty ok with that.So, here I am! TaDa! I don't know what you are looking for, but I guarantee you would like me as a friend. Shoot me a message and we can talk, go fishing, hit a movie, grab some ice cream... maybe hang out. I am looking for someone NICE- someone that I can be friends with, but someone with some spark and passion that is fun to be around. Am I picky? ABSOLUTELY. Oh, and contrary to what my profile may make you think... I am not crazy... or am I?? ;0) Come on... a lame attempt at some humor in an uncomfortable situation here.*Since most of the responses I get make mention of how I look, I wanted to clear things up.- this may not be the norm for me. I would rather have someone say 'You look SO much better than your picture, than the opposite of... you looked MUCH better in your photos." So, I am adding a new profile pic- assume this how I usually look (it may be closer to the truth) and then there will be no surprises or disappointment. As you can see, I wasn't joking about loving the greasy pizza... Not trying to be rude here, but sending me a message calling me sweetie, baby, honey, sexy, etc is just weird. You don't even know me and I am not the kind of woman that falls for it. And no, I am not a fan of motorcycles- sorry.

  • Delmy

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a passionate person that loves people, the way food taste, things smell and the way music sounds; my senses are heightened! I have a zeal for life and want to continue exploring and learning. I love to travel; I would love to meet someone that likes to travel as well, but to even more obscure places that I could learn from and enjoy. I like everything from dive bars to the ballet to fine dining. I enjoy lying in bed on a Sunday watching football (preferably rainy), to sitting outside at brunch and having a glass of nice wine on a cool evening and conversing about life. I love to cook and watch live bands as well as create memories with my daughter! What I want/I'm looking for a passionate person that I can learn from, that is open minded, and spontaneous! Dinner and drinks

  • Lexus

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I just really want to find a loving caring guy. . Well here goes for what I am like and looking for. I like to do a lot of things like reading, movies at home or out I'm not picky. NASCAR, football, baseball. Walks in the park. Taking my puppy to the dog parks. I enjoy a lot of differant activities like camping. Dinners in or out. I like to spend time w someone who wants to be spoiled w love and an open caring heart. If they have small children which is great, I love to go to the park, build a snowman in the winter together. Have game nite in... Have fun times. I could never have my own children so would love to have kids in my life. Meet for a drink. It doesn't have to be in a bar. Anywhere that we can talk and see if we connect. I hope for it to be special. I like to be surprised, maybe even unique. I like when men can do special things for his woman. Open doors, slid chair in and out for her. Guys like that don't exist anymore. But if your out there. I want one just like u.

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