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Pollie, 41

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About Me

What you see is what you get - that's me in a nutshell. Straight forward, brutally honest at times, loyal, caring but emotionally strong. I tent to take life as it comes. No drama, simplicity, outgoing, love to laugh, strongly dislikes being controlled therefore, am not controlling. Sense of humour is extremely important. Attractive to me is a man who is witty and sarcastic however, without coming across as being arrogant... What turns me on in a man? A great looking face - Your eyes, your lips, your gaze will most likely be noticed way before your 6, 8 or 12 pack... Interests; being with family, dinners with friends, dancing, movies, walking, cycling... exploring! Dislikes; being around energy suckers (depressed and negative people). Life is to short to be a constant victim. If you are emotionally unstable and seeking free therapy, you may move along to the next profile!Looking for a real man, not a child nor someone who is confused about life.... just emotionally strong and balanced. Be creative!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Amya

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    You only get one chance to make a first impression so I will be upfront and honest and I hope to find the same in return. I am a very casual, active, athletic person looking to meet people I can have fun with and enjoy this new lifestyle as a single woman. I do know exactly what I am looking for in a man and a relationship but it's not exactly something I can spell out in a profile. You either have it or you don't so all I ask is be yourself, be honest and let's see what happens. I'm not interested in a long back and forth *** do believe nothing replaces the natural chemistry you can only experience in person and I don't want to waste my time or yours unless we are actually going to meet. Putting your life on paper and in photographs only shows a small fraction of who you really are. My status is separated which I know can turn some people away but it's the truth. It's been over two year now and there is no chance we will be getting back together but for several reasons we have not finalized the official divorce yet. I have 3 boys ages 9, 12 and 16 that I am very grateful are with me most of the time and spend weekends with their father. They are a big part of my life but they are also very independent which allows me flexibilty to enjoy my life.It's time for me to really start living my life and I want someone to share that with. Please refer back to my opening line about first impressions and honesty. I would like to think there are still some gentlemen out there that know how to approach a woman properly and introduce themselves using complete sentences, those are the ones I will respond to. If you "want to meet me" please send me a message too. A first real date should come after a personal meeting in a casual setting to see if there is chemistry and a casual comfort together. After that I'm up for just about anything and appreciate a man who is comfortable and confident in himself to make the phone call and set up a real date. Confidence is very sexy.

  • Tammi

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'll come back and put something funny and eye-catching very soon. Trust me, you're gonna want to know me. :) I'm basically looking for my other half and not someone who is immature and likes to play games, there are too many of them on here as well.

  • Reese

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am looking for a friend to start and if there is magic there...if there is chemistry there...if there is love at first sight...then the rest will follow!! Read on: I think true love is when you and the person you are with find comfort and strength in eachother without "needing" it, i think it's when there is such a bond...such a connection that each feels as if they have known eachother forever, i think it's when each feels they can put blind faith in eachother to be honest-sincere-trusting (trustworthy) and not have to think twice about it, i think it's when just a touch from that person makes you feel that warmth you feel from the first rays of sunlight on a beautiful spring morning, i think it's when each of you can be on opposite ends of a room and be able to just look at eachother a certain way and know that each is the only person they are thinking about, i think true love is out there..."They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, and an entire lifetime to forget them. There are many things in life that will catch your eye, but only a few will catch your heart; pursue those. "FOOTNOTE: I will be beginning college in a couple of months so my time will be limited. There WILL be time for that someone special if I find him, but he must understand that I have children and their needs come before mine. Anything that would be fun and enable us to talk and get to know one another.

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