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Alexandra, 44
United States, Pennsylvania, Oxford

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A guy friend of mine states, "A typical guy will make their girl jealous of other women. A real man will make other women jealous of his girl." I am looking for a real man.WOW, I find myself thrown back into the dating scene. What am I looking for? I am looking to laugh. I want to smile. I want to find my new best friend. I prefer someone that works, pays his bills, trustworthy, and fun...... I want someone respectable, semi mature, not very stuffy, very caring. If you are married and passing yourself off as single or seperated, please, don't waste my time. If you are young enough to be my son, or old enough to be my father, please move on.If we have the opportunity to meet, you will see that I am caring, funny, hard working, good hearted and I always put everyones happiness above my own. If I could find the male counterpart of myself, I would be the happiest girl in the world. I am first and foremost a mother. I am looking for a POSITIVE role model for the kids to be around, not to replace dad, but become an additional family member. I am looking for someone genuine and decent. My free time is limited. I miss being in a relationship and have devoted many moons to everyone but myself, it's time for me to find happiness. I have doubts that I will find someone on here, and will be the first to admit if I am wrong! My head is in a good place and I'm on a hunt for Mr. Right-For-Me.P.S.* If I wanted the world to see my belly piercing, my breasts or my rear end, I would post those types of pics. Don't ask, it's not appropriate.* If you have a problem talking/ texting a little before we actually meet, you need to check yourself. To not waste either of our time, it really helps to get to know someone before the actual meeting, it makes it all the more exciting, if you feel you are a match. * One last thing...... A "copied and pasted" *** woman in the vicinity, may not be a good thing. We women, talk. ;-) I think meeting for coffee or a drink during the day would be the perfect start. If we seem interested, the drink can turn into a meal. Then we will take it from there.Get in touch, lets see if there is something there!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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