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Theda, 45

United States, Pennsylvania, Oxford

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About Me

UPDATE: I've have talked to a few people on here and let me tell you, I am NOT looking for a one night stand or to just get together for sex. I am not desperate! I don't want to sound rude or b**chy, but if you don't want to connect (whether, just as friends or possibly more) then I'm not interested. I am a strong willed and independent country girl with a good sense of humor, somewhat sarcastic at times. I'm honest, to a fault sometimes, and won't fake it up for anyone. What you see is what you get. I hate mind games, so if that's what your into, don't bother.I have a small farm that consists of horses, pigs, chickens, dogs, and many barn cats. My animals are very important to me. Would love to travel, but my responsibilities keep me close to home.I enjoy horseback riding, a good book or movie, dining in or out. I also enjoy working around my place, always things that need to be done. I'm not a big drinker, but do enjoy the occassional bonfire with friends. I like to go to horse and farm auctions. As a matter of fact, all my horses came from a sale. They start out in rough shape, I bring them home, fatten them up, put a little training on them and usually end up with a great horse. I, also, look forward to the semi-annual Amish flea market that is local to this area.I'm looking for a partner, not someone to take care of or someone to take care of me. I've been a single mother most of the boys' life (done pretty damn good job, too). I am more than capapble of taking care of me and mine. So, if you can make me laugh, treat me with respect and are willing to share your life, *** put dating but nothing serious on here but that doesn't mean I'm not open to a relationship. I'm just not in a hurry to jump into anything. I would rather work on friendship first and then see where it goes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Crime Mystery Western
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