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Carlota, 45

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About Me

To be honest, I'm a simple gal. What you see, is exactly what you get, If you ask me a question, I will be honest, which sometimes causes trouble, because people dont usually like the answer....I have a son who is in college but still lives at home. Times are tough for just about everyone right now...I really do not want a man that requires someone to take care of them..............I want some who will complete me....who is independent and honest....as I am. I enjoy being outside....in the summer in the water if I can help it. And guys....let me give you some advice.....most women, who respect themselves are not going to talk about panties, sex, etc right off the bat.....I personally am a crock-pot....I need time to get warmed up to that kind of thing....Please dont bother talking that way with me....it will result in us not talking anymore....So if your still reading and my profile sounds like something that would interest you, please message me....If you are looking for a mommy....just keep looking elsewhere!! Its hard to say and it depends on the person your out with, but music is always nice as is dinner out.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Verline

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I could probably write a book about what I feel or think about what it takes to make a good relationship. Here are some of my thoughts on it...If you want to know more ask...1. Respect me, and others.2. We are all human, screw ups happen, learn to forgive and forget.3. Talk to me, I am not unreasonable. I am not going to have a melt down over hearing news I don't like. 4. Have a sense of humor, life is too short to be ultra serious. Know how to laugh at yourself, it makes life easier.5. Being truly open and vulnerable is the only way to feel true feelings for someone. Give it an honest shot, no oneever died of a broken heart.6. When you don't know me, you don't have the right to intimate details. That is a privilege; one that isn't givento just anyone.7. If you are newly separated or divorced, give yourself ample time to get over it. Dragging someone elseinto your life when you don't know what you want is really unfair. No one deserves to be the rebound.8. Be truly romantic. Women love it, even if we are supposed to be fiercely independent.9. Don't be intimidated by a woman that is smart and knows what she wants. She chose to go out withyou, thank your lucky stars.10. We all have insecurities. Sometimes people will push that hot button that makes it come to the surface. It is no big deal, have a conversation about it, and move past it.11. Know your worth and demand that others treat you with dignity.12. Own your mistakes and stop playing the blame game, we are adults and all in control of our emotions.13. Always expect the best, if someone gives you their worst quickly move on.14. Women in general are not crazy (most of us) what makes some of us angry is being lied to and made a fool of.15. Don't lie about yourself, your baggage, or things in your past. They all eventually come out. Once trust is damaged it is difficult to recover.16. Be a good listener and truly interested in what your partner has to say.17. Get to know someone well before engaging in an intimate relationship.18. Not sure if soul mates exist, but a partner should be a best friend, lover, and confidant. 19. Love truly and without condition.20. When you say sorry, look the other person in the eyes and truly mean it. Surprise me, show some imagination....

  • Mirella

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Looking for my soulmate!!! Not looking for a one night stand, if that's what ur looking for, go to the next page because I'm not the one!! I enjoy camping, bike riding, bingo, nascar, football, hockey, hanging with my friends! Etc.. Just ask!!! I love country music!! Dinner, some drinks, quite place so we can talk

  • Linette

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love art, anything unusual, tats, (although I currently have none), piercings. I work hard, like to play hard, but I am selective. I enjoy the uniqueness that is each person individually. I consider myself a libertarian, although I mostly dislike politics because of what it has become. Im very open minded, non judgmental. I believe in equality. Please be open minded. You are not required to like everything that I like. I listen to a variety of music, but typically land on the Buzz, alternative rock. I am not really a drinker unless I go out. On these occasions, I can throw em back with the best of them. I RARELY go out..if that gives any indication of my alcohol consumption.I like a man who knows what is what and can take care of his own stuff. This type of man knows who he is and what he wants..and can make me want those same things. Intelligence is sexy. I prefer men who have a little meat on their bones as opposed to someone ultra thin. However, its mostly attitude and personality that i am attracted to. A sense of humor doesnt hurt either. Smoking is my deal breaker. I love to kiss and i dont want to taste cigarettes.What Im NOT looking for: A sex partner, an affair, a 20-year-old. If you are looking for sex only, please move on and do not message me. Sex is very important to me, but it isnt the only thing that is important. True connection comes from two people who know each other and care about each other. If you arent willing to share of yourself, move on. If you are religious..looking for a christian mate..please look elsewhere, that isnt me. My profile states 'non religious'. Im not judgmental at all..but I want to be straightforward about who I am. I do not want to get remarried..ever. I dont want more children although if you have kids and we hit it off..I will love them as my own. Please dont let my "separated" status scare you. Its been a long time. My ideal first date is one that involves laughter, fun, nonstressful, a drink or 5 whichever we decide. We can go pretty much anywhere.. a bar or just a restaurant. OR none of the above..and we can meet at some random place and do something very random.

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