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Linette, 41
United States, Pennsylvania, Oxford

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About Me

I love art, anything unusual, tats, (although I currently have none), piercings. I work hard, like to play hard, but I am selective. I enjoy the uniqueness that is each person individually. I consider myself a libertarian, although I mostly dislike politics because of what it has become. Im very open minded, non judgmental. I believe in equality. Please be open minded. You are not required to like everything that I like. I listen to a variety of music, but typically land on the Buzz, alternative rock. I am not really a drinker unless I go out. On these occasions, I can throw em back with the best of them. I RARELY go out..if that gives any indication of my alcohol consumption.I like a man who knows what is what and can take care of his own stuff. This type of man knows who he is and what he wants..and can make me want those same things. Intelligence is sexy. I prefer men who have a little meat on their bones as opposed to someone ultra thin. However, its mostly attitude and personality that i am attracted to. A sense of humor doesnt hurt either. Smoking is my deal breaker. I love to kiss and i dont want to taste cigarettes.What Im NOT looking for: A sex partner, an affair, a 20-year-old. If you are looking for sex only, please move on and do not message me. Sex is very important to me, but it isnt the only thing that is important. True connection comes from two people who know each other and care about each other. If you arent willing to share of yourself, move on. If you are religious..looking for a christian mate..please look elsewhere, that isnt me. My profile states 'non religious'. Im not judgmental at all..but I want to be straightforward about who I am. I do not want to get remarried..ever. I dont want more children although if you have kids and we hit it off..I will love them as my own. Please dont let my "separated" status scare you. Its been a long time. My ideal first date is one that involves laughter, fun, nonstressful, a drink or 5 whichever we decide. We can go pretty much anywhere.. a bar or just a restaurant. OR none of the above..and we can meet at some random place and do something very random.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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