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Lashell, 45
United States, Pennsylvania, Oxford

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About Me

Ok...Not sure what to say here,but here it goes. I am a social butterfly..love to cook out and listen to live bands. Enjoy dancing and spending time with friends and family. My son is grown and gone,so it's my turn to live a little. :) Totally over drama and bs,and believe me...had my share of it! Life's too short for all of that. That's why I'm a very honest and up front person. No need to waste time pretending you're something you're not,so *** wasting time I'm just going to be me. Want to meet someone who is comfortable with who they are. Of course I may not be exactly where I want to be just yet,but I do know where that place is. Getting there! Just want to explore my options and see what's out there. Not a big DATING lots of people fan,but you have to put yourself out there at some point,so we'll see. ;) No crazies please...been there,done that and OMG it's getting old! LOL Have faith that nice guys are still out there. I just tend to attract the bad boys! Time for change! MUST LOVE BAMA FOOTBALL!!!! ROLL TIDE ROLL!!!!!!!! Update: Not interested in dating ur dog..so why so many pics of ur pet or car or home and only 1 of u(holding a fish,usually) ? And the famous bathroom mirror shot tells me u may not have any friends to *** of you.:( Sorry ,had to throw that out there... Nothing one on one...my mom taught me better than that. LOL Maybe meet for drinks in public place and go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Salsa Crime Documentary History War Cricket Ice Hockey
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