Total users: 56,951,204 Online users: 205,294
Gerry, 45
United States, Pennsylvania, Oxford

Offline, last seen Sat, 10 May 2025 22:38:34

About Me

I am a mother of 4 beautiful children, ages 9 to 18. They are my world, but I have room in my world for another special someone. I am very spiritual, but claim no particular religion. My belief is in love of all that exists. I am Reiki practitioner, which means I do energy healing. I like to spend time in meditation on a daily basis. I would like someone who is open minded and on a similar spiritual path to grow with me. I love nature and anything outdoors. I love to camp. I also enjoy just spending the day at the lake swimming, or the night just looking at the moon and stars. I love campfires. I like to fish...as long as someone else takes care of the rest. Then I'll cook it. lol. I like to play board games. I like to play outdoor games once in awhile...softball, volleyball, horseshoes, or whatever. I love animals of all kinds and feel that is something important to look for in a man. I love to do anything artistic or crafty. I like to be creative and to be able to see what I have accomplished. I love country music, but am pretty open in that area. I really don't care for hard rock or rap. That stuff gives me a headache. I like to go out and have fun with friends, but I am definitely not a party animal. I'm not really sure what else to say here. I guess this is just a start and anything else...you will just have to take the time to get to know for yourself.Update: Everyone comes with baggage. I come with a U-Haul trailer. I have four kids who are used to getting all of my time and attention. You must be willing to be patient as they learn how to share me with someone else. I think this is a pretty natural thing. I also have a pain in the butt ex who lives to give me a hard time. There would be some work to do in that area too. If you are not strong enough to withstand these storms then you are not strong enough to withstand all of the trials that life deals us. I want someone who is strong, willing to put forth his greatest effort and seek shelter within each other. God gives his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers. Yes, there will be some tough battles in life, but in the end, those are the times in which we receive our greatest rewards.Update 2: DON'T WASTE MY TIME! If you are just looking for sex, don't contact me. I will not have sex with you until there is a developed relationship and that begins with a friendship. If you can't be my friend, you will never be my life partner because I want my significant other to also be my best friend. Do not send me pictures of your private parts. I only want to see that in an intimate setting in the appropriate time. I do expect respect and to me that is not a sign of respect at all. Do not contact me if you have ever been convicted of a violent crime. Do not contact me if you are jealous, insecure, or have anger issues. Be real! If you don't feel a connection when we meet...just let me know. I would rather know immediately, than after I become emotionally involved. I will do the same for you. Just not a movie. I would actually like to have a conversation and get to know you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reading English Greek Portuguese Spanish Charity
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Irina from Oxford | Woman | 35 years old | Leo
    Irina

    Offline

    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-37

    Hi! My name is Irina. I am never married catholic caucasian woman without kids from Oxford, Pennsylvania, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

    Chat
  • Olivia from Oxford | Woman | 45 years old | Capricorn
    Olivia

    Offline

    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Interested in finding someone to laugh with, someone who I can connect with, who likes to have intellectual conversation, and is fun to be with. I LOVE MUSIC!!! AC/DC, Van Halen, Bon Jovi... I like pretty much all types of music though, and love going to see live bands. Cuddling is great when there's a good connection. Love wine, cozy fires, cooking, going out, staying in, beaches, dancing, hanging out, traveling to new places. Cayman & Maui are my favs so far, and recently the Bahamas. Still wanting to get my scuba certification. Have always snorkeled, but want to try diving. I'm a "night owl" & VERY YOUNG AT HEART!!!! Tend to get along w/younger guys due to that , but doesn't mean it couldn't work w/someone my age or older, just have to be fun & not old-spirited. Tough being with someone in a one-sided conversation, that's not good... I tend to have a sarcastic, playful sense of humor. I like tall, confident, witty, intelligent, sexy men, who we can learn from each other and always have a good story to trade each day. Good communIcation is Key Seems like a lot of people lack in witty communication anymore in my opinion.List of no-; not over ex, alcoholics, druggies, heavy partiers, over do-it work out guys, crazy into sports, and those who live more than 30miles away. "Internet Cruisers","players", bar-hoppers ", and "sack hoppers" need not apply!! :-) I have 2 kids middle-school age that are the loves of my life, and that has to be ok. They are with me most of the time, but their dad does live in town & has a good relationship with them. I'm not perfect, and do not expect to find someone perfect, but a like-match is desired. Would love to find someone to laugh with and have those butterflies... If you've got a "witty" sense of humor, and look at each day as a new day, give me a shout. Please have more than one current pic. I usually won't reply if there's no pic. Play fair guys!! If I don't respond, cuz I feel like it's not a match for us somehow, plz don't get offended, as I don't either. We all just need to be honest in what we want & are attracted to.Weird to say, but please do not send me inappropriate messages. I'm not here for that. Thx!! First date, well, meet for coffee, a drink, or dinner usually. A place where it's easy to chat & get to know one another a little better.

    Chat
  • Eladia from Oxford | Woman | 44 years old | Leo
    Eladia

    Offline

    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a country girl at heart that loves being outdoors, horses, working in the yard, going for drives and fishing with my son. I also have an interest in nature/wildlife photography. I love music, most all types (except hard rock). Music is an escape for me. Horses are one of my passions.I have 2 fun loving teenagers that are my world and keep me laughing. I've been at my current job 12 yrs and still love it. I am strong in my faith and believe family comes first. I am also very driven and independent. Hoping to find someone who shares these traits yet can enjoy time together. Mostly someone who shares my faith in Christ.If you're looking for a one night stand, keep looking as I'm not your girl. If you are not officially divorced or married, please do not message me. Meet somewhere in a public place, if there is any chemistry, then we can figure out something fun to do together.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: