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Pamala, 45
United States, Pennsylvania, Oxford

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********I'M VERY STRICT ON THE NO SMOKING ISSUE...IF YOU SAY YOU DON'T SMOKE I EXPECT IT TO BE TRUE...I LOVE TO KISS AND I FIND KISSING A SMOKER VERY OFFENSIVE...I JUST WON'T DO IT!!!*******I DON'T TALK TO PEOPLE WHO CAN'T POST A PIC!!!!********I NEED A FRIEND MORE THAN ANYTHING RIGHT NOW.....BUT ISN'T THAT HOW LOVE BEGINS?!*************************************FIRST AND FOREMOST: I am not on here because I NEED a man!!! And I am not interested in RUSHING into anything! It takes time to get to know someone. With that being said if your not interested in me GETTING TO KNOW you through chat/texting....which means you sharing truths about yourself then please don't waste my time. I do not have the time to talk to multiple guys at once. I will be talking to someone who interests me...one at a time. Not here to speed date. If things don't work out/arent going anywhere or there is no chemistry ONLY THEN will I begin to talk with someone else! If you immediately start talking about marriage or (planning our future) I probably will be moving on!! Not looking for a relationship just for the sake of being in a relationship. I am looking for love and ONLY LOVE....which means being friends first. And if I share things about myself with you its because I'm interested in getting to know you as well. It doesnt by any means mean I am rushing into anything. I just dont wish to waste my valuable time. I am real..I am me..what you see is what you get..no holds barred..either I interest you or I dont!!! It's best to determine that as soon as possible!!! I'm not here to play games!!! I'm not one to pretend to be someone else! And if I look at your pics or read your profile multiple times it doesnt mean I'm stalking you...it just simply means..I like your pics or what I have read and nothing more...Take it or leave it!! NOW FOR A LITTLE ABOUT ME!!!!!Divorced for 16 years. Been alone a long time. Very Independent. I want to feel butterflies again. Don't want to grow old alone. Not looking to be anyones Mom, in other words...kids are ok if they're grown. I live in the country with chickens, ducks etc. Not looking to support anyone. Must be responsible and have home, job, car etc. Am very much looking for Love, you know..the mad, passionate kind. Won't settle for anything else! A good sense of humor is a must. If you can make me laugh perhaps you could win my heart! FYI......If your profile pic is you without a shirt and your pants undone or sagging low you will not get any attention from me!! Perhaps it would be in your best interest to seek out someone with about as much class as you!!!!!!! Interested in perhaps meeting someone for dinner/drinks in a public place after talking for awhile.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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