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Pamala, 45

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About Me

********I'M VERY STRICT ON THE NO SMOKING ISSUE...IF YOU SAY YOU DON'T SMOKE I EXPECT IT TO BE TRUE...I LOVE TO KISS AND I FIND KISSING A SMOKER VERY OFFENSIVE...I JUST WON'T DO IT!!!*******I DON'T TALK TO PEOPLE WHO CAN'T POST A PIC!!!!********I NEED A FRIEND MORE THAN ANYTHING RIGHT NOW.....BUT ISN'T THAT HOW LOVE BEGINS?!*************************************FIRST AND FOREMOST: I am not on here because I NEED a man!!! And I am not interested in RUSHING into anything! It takes time to get to know someone. With that being said if your not interested in me GETTING TO KNOW you through chat/texting....which means you sharing truths about yourself then please don't waste my time. I do not have the time to talk to multiple guys at once. I will be talking to someone who interests me...one at a time. Not here to speed date. If things don't work out/arent going anywhere or there is no chemistry ONLY THEN will I begin to talk with someone else! If you immediately start talking about marriage or (planning our future) I probably will be moving on!! Not looking for a relationship just for the sake of being in a relationship. I am looking for love and ONLY LOVE....which means being friends first. And if I share things about myself with you its because I'm interested in getting to know you as well. It doesnt by any means mean I am rushing into anything. I just dont wish to waste my valuable time. I am real..I am me..what you see is what you get..no holds barred..either I interest you or I dont!!! It's best to determine that as soon as possible!!! I'm not here to play games!!! I'm not one to pretend to be someone else! And if I look at your pics or read your profile multiple times it doesnt mean I'm stalking you...it just simply means..I like your pics or what I have read and nothing more...Take it or leave it!! NOW FOR A LITTLE ABOUT ME!!!!!Divorced for 16 years. Been alone a long time. Very Independent. I want to feel butterflies again. Don't want to grow old alone. Not looking to be anyones Mom, in other words...kids are ok if they're grown. I live in the country with chickens, ducks etc. Not looking to support anyone. Must be responsible and have home, job, car etc. Am very much looking for Love, you know..the mad, passionate kind. Won't settle for anything else! A good sense of humor is a must. If you can make me laugh perhaps you could win my heart! FYI......If your profile pic is you without a shirt and your pants undone or sagging low you will not get any attention from me!! Perhaps it would be in your best interest to seek out someone with about as much class as you!!!!!!! Interested in perhaps meeting someone for dinner/drinks in a public place after talking for awhile.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Delcie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a Southern born and raised Lady! I expect to be treated like one. In return, you will receive the respect that you so deserve. I am not looking for a one night stand, so if this is what you are looking for, please move on. I am in my early 40's and it is time to find my Life Partner, the one I have been waiting for all these years. I am looking for a one-woman man. When I love someone, I give it 110%. I would prefer the same from you.I love country music most of all, but I do enjoy most genres.I have one child at home now and she is in High School. I personally do not want anymore children of my own, but would gladly accept any that you may have. I will treat them as if they were our own. The same way I would expect you to treat my children.I love to shop! Favorite hobby of all! HAHAHA. I love to fish, watch SEC football, favorite team is...... :-)~ , go to the theatre (movie or plays) and hang out with Family and Friends. On the go or just sitting at home, I'm great as long as he is with me. :-)I am a firm believer in Jesus Christ. I do attend Church every Sunday and sometimes on Wednesdays when I'm not working. I do want a man who enjoys the same. Just because I am a Christian, doesn't mean I'm stuck up and perfect, It means that I am a Perfect Sinner. I certainly make my share of mistakes! I have flaws, as we all do, but I want the one who will love me even with those flaws. Forgiveness is a huge part of a relationship and you may never forget but in order to keep the relationship going, honesty has to be first. Honesty, Trust, Communication, Forgiveness, Love and Affection. These are the things I am looking for so if you think you have all of these....Please contact me Dinner with great conversation. Somewhere quiet so that we may get to know a little about each other.

  • Shawanna

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    ....beginning of a quote from my favorite funny movie. Also my best impersonation ever... :)I'm ridiculously honest and can be less filtered on occasion. I'm warm, down to earth and I definitely don't take myself too seriously. I am very affectionate and romantic, and enjoy a reasonable amount of PDA, especially if I'm completely enamored by your good looks and charm. I consider myself independent and selective, but I'd rather spend my days being madly in love with a nifty dude. I feel obliged to say that I stay fit and eat reasonably well, but I don't obsess. I have a very good career, which I do take seriously, at least when I'm not torturing my colleagues with fashion tips and stealing their food.Some other random facts about me:I am appropriate and classy (when called upon), I like good style, but am not high maintenance. I cuss occasionally. I like all the usual sporting activities (except cycling), but especially love water-skiing. I prefer snowboarding over skiing. I'm a sucker for a well-tailored suit and a nice pair of shoes. Kids dig me for some reason. I play guitar and sing. I prefer a stick shift. I like a mountain bike over a street bike (any day). I cook, bake, and sew (all pretty well). Love playing pool; smack-talk included. I enjoy an occasional chick flick or comedy, but mostly prefer better-made movies. Some favorites include The Professional, True Romance, The Departed, The Help, Matchstick Men, My Cousin Vinny, Catch Me If You Can, Hitman and Gran Torino. Next on my list is Game of Thrones. I like the food network and HGTV. I consider apple pie a breakfast food and like my coffee ridiculously strong. I also love going to breakfast (or just staying in and making it).Some not-so-random facts about you:You have a funny, fun-loving profile or at least a hint humor so it's evident your claim to having a sense of humor is valid. You took the time to write meaningful things in an attempt to set yourself apart from the other poor **stards on this site (yes, I say things like "**stard"). You're thoughtful and sweet. You're confident, smart and articulate, but not pretentious or arrogant. You're accomplished and happy in your career. Like me, you can (and do) laugh at yourself daily. You're active, but not competing for some world record. You've traveled, but your scenery-to-self portraits ratio is not ***. You're in the ballpark of my age. You're cute and you have a touch of charisma. And last (but not least), you like dogs. This does not mean you have to own one, but it means you appreciate the fact that I have one that I adore.One last thing..."meet me" and "favorites" are nice, but I only really respond to written communication. Clicking a single button doesn't really show me you're all that interested. Hope you understand. Coffee or maybe food

  • Brandy

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I have finally found my dream career. I am a third grade teacher that enjoys the challenges of my job. I enjoy outdoor concerts, sporting events, wine tastings, comedy clubs, movies, theater, museums....the list goes on and on. I like all types of music (except metal and hard rap) but country is mostly on my i-pod. I enjoy reading books especially suspense/mysteries.#1 on my bucket list. I love trying new hole in the wall type of restaurants. I will try any food once and enjoy new experiences (no blue cheese or olives please). My favorite food of all is grilled seafood. I am a very caring individual and am looking for my partner for life. I think family is important and am looking for someone with the same beliefs. Spending time with friends is important and sharing it with a partner would be great. I love the beach as well as the mountains. I am comfortable at the local sports bar as well as at a formal engagement. Tired of meeting BOYS who tell me what I want to hear, make and break promises, and aren’t ready for something serious. Please……mean what you say and say what you mean!!! I'm considered a very generous person in all aspects of my life especially in friendship, family and love. I've been told that I'm smart, beautiful and sensitive, although I also tend to be a bit modest too. I'm looking for a man who shares my views on love, family and friends and is ready for all of it to begin with me. Going someplace quiet enough to talk. Meet for a meal and see what happens. Maybe a walk afterwards to get to know each other better. The first date is to see if there is a connection, we can get creative after that.

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