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Pamala, 45

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********I'M VERY STRICT ON THE NO SMOKING ISSUE...IF YOU SAY YOU DON'T SMOKE I EXPECT IT TO BE TRUE...I LOVE TO KISS AND I FIND KISSING A SMOKER VERY OFFENSIVE...I JUST WON'T DO IT!!!*******I DON'T TALK TO PEOPLE WHO CAN'T POST A PIC!!!!********I NEED A FRIEND MORE THAN ANYTHING RIGHT NOW.....BUT ISN'T THAT HOW LOVE BEGINS?!*************************************FIRST AND FOREMOST: I am not on here because I NEED a man!!! And I am not interested in RUSHING into anything! It takes time to get to know someone. With that being said if your not interested in me GETTING TO KNOW you through chat/texting....which means you sharing truths about yourself then please don't waste my time. I do not have the time to talk to multiple guys at once. I will be talking to someone who interests me...one at a time. Not here to speed date. If things don't work out/arent going anywhere or there is no chemistry ONLY THEN will I begin to talk with someone else! If you immediately start talking about marriage or (planning our future) I probably will be moving on!! Not looking for a relationship just for the sake of being in a relationship. I am looking for love and ONLY LOVE....which means being friends first. And if I share things about myself with you its because I'm interested in getting to know you as well. It doesnt by any means mean I am rushing into anything. I just dont wish to waste my valuable time. I am real..I am me..what you see is what you get..no holds barred..either I interest you or I dont!!! It's best to determine that as soon as possible!!! I'm not here to play games!!! I'm not one to pretend to be someone else! And if I look at your pics or read your profile multiple times it doesnt mean I'm stalking you...it just simply means..I like your pics or what I have read and nothing more...Take it or leave it!! NOW FOR A LITTLE ABOUT ME!!!!!Divorced for 16 years. Been alone a long time. Very Independent. I want to feel butterflies again. Don't want to grow old alone. Not looking to be anyones Mom, in other words...kids are ok if they're grown. I live in the country with chickens, ducks etc. Not looking to support anyone. Must be responsible and have home, job, car etc. Am very much looking for Love, you know..the mad, passionate kind. Won't settle for anything else! A good sense of humor is a must. If you can make me laugh perhaps you could win my heart! FYI......If your profile pic is you without a shirt and your pants undone or sagging low you will not get any attention from me!! Perhaps it would be in your best interest to seek out someone with about as much class as you!!!!!!! Interested in perhaps meeting someone for dinner/drinks in a public place after talking for awhile.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lavelle

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    My daughter is my life she is 14 going on 40 lol. I would love to find someone who wants to get to know each other. I was married for 20 years and I never thought I would have to start over. I like most music (no rap) I don't go out much like to stay home and watch movies or just lay around talking. To go somewhere we can talk get to know each other. Hang out walk around Walmart. I really don't know as long as we can talk and just see where things go.

  • Narcisa

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Lets enjoy life!!! Hello,Thanks for looking & stopping by.I would like to meet happy,honest,fun men who are also gentle & kind hearted.I would love to find my true love to spend the rest of my life exploring what life has to offer.There comes a time in life when you walk away from all the pointless drama and the people who create it.Then surround yourself with people who make you laugh hard you forget the bad and focus on the good.Life is too short to be anything but happy!!!!!!I enjoy having fun no matter what I'm doing.Life is meant to be lived & enjoyed.I like the simply things &; happy.I like to laugh & joke around.I also like affection & romance.I'm a scuba diver who like to travel whenever I can.My next trip is to the Indian Ocean/The Maldives in ***.Good communication is important too me.You should be financially secure by now so you can live the life you want.Be happy for who you are & be honest,true to yourself & others. Being careing, loving & thoughtful are important to show that respect. I really value not having alot of dept so it gives you the flexibility to go & do things that would be fun plus enjoyable.Living within a budget of your goals is awsome to have that freedom.Living a life with out alot of stress & drama makes life enjoyable.Be able to laugh at yourself at times.No one is perfect laughter is the best medicine.I like being silly & goofy at times you should too.We can start being friends & see what happens.You never know what could happen.Please ask if you have any questions???? I'm not big on alot of typing.Drop me a line & we can chat. Meet for ice cream or a fancy hot chocolate w/ whip cream and see how it goes.I'm not looking for any 1 night stands or booty calls.

  • Jenna

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Do people really read these things ?I am a hopeless romantic looking for my knight in shining armor. I'm realistc though and I live in the real world and not a fantasy created by movies and romantic books. My ideal man would have to meet certain criteria to interest me. These criteria include-* He must be a Christian* He must be gainfully employed* He must understand that my children are vitally important to me* He should be a good guy but have enough "bad" in him to be fun and interesting* He should treat his Mom with kindness and respect ( My Nanny always said you can tell a lot about a man by how he treats his mother )* He should have a sense of humor and be able to make me laughThere are a few things that I will not compromise on. I have learned some hard lessons by experience and I don't plan on making those same mistakes again.* I'm not interested in a smoker. I lost my father to lung cancer at the age of 49. I simply can't be around cigarettes* I'm not interested in getting in the middle of a family drama. * I'm not looking for a one-night stand. If sex is all you want, please move on.* If you are not a Christian, please move on.* I don't expect you to be perfect, but I do like a man who can take care of himself. Please be clean, neat and well groomed.I've lost who I am in the past with relationships. That won't happen again. I am capable of taking care of myself and I've come to realize that it is okay for me to have an opinion and express it. I believe that compromise is essential in any relationship. I also believe that a successful relationship takes a ***% commitment from both people or it won't work. I'm not looking for *** I would like to simply meet a nice man that I am compatible with, start a wonderful friendship and let a relationship bloom from that friendship. I beleive that a friendship is the essential building block of a successful relationship. I think an ideal first date would be to meet somewhere quiet. I don't want a noisy crowded restaurant or a movie where we can't talk to each other. I want the opportunity to really get a sense of who you are..... you get the idea.

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