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Nelle, 45
United States, Pennsylvania, New Oxford

Offline, last seen Thu, 12 Mar 2026 06:13:28

About Me

Okay, so I have been on this dating site for awhile now, and honestly have not put much effort into dating. So although I have kep a post I have not really been dating.... I have been single for a number of years now, but initially had very young children and did not date at all for quite some time. I am a single mom who works fulltime and has an extremely active lifestyle. So, what it comes down to is that about 2 years ago I realized that my kids were getting a little older and did not need me as much anymore, but then I did not know how to 'date' and incorporate someone into my 'already formed, overly scheduled, and more importantly comfortable routine'... and what did not not help was that I live a happy life. When you are happy and comfortable sometimes you get lazy about taking 'effort' to add something new... but, I realize, that eventhough I am happy with my life, I do really truly want to share that life with someone, a friend and companion ... so.... yes, way way more than you probably ever wanted to know... but there it is... I am not on here to casually date, I have never been a casual dater, my life if full and happy, and although I see alot of 'friends' things and casual dating, that is not for me... does that mean that I am wanting to just 'jump into a relationship'.. nope... I still want to get to know someone, but I do want to meet people who are also serious about wanting to meet the right person and find someone to share life with and grow old together. I love mountains, snow and skiing, rock climbing, hiking, but i also love the smell of the ocean and sound of the waves, and would like to meet someone that is also wanting to get out of the house and explore the world, even if it is just down the block. I think a first date is great if you are happy to be there and when you leave you want to see them again. So therefore, what plans you have or where, really end up not being that important.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Craft Making Museums American Indian Vietnamese Animation Comedy Romance Sci-Fi Golf Spirituality
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