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Mei, 42
United States, Pennsylvania, New Oxford

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About Me

Hello! I am a classy, open minded, intelligent, independent woman. I enjoy being around fun, outgoing, positive people. I am very passionate about life and have been told that I am a beautiful woman and have an old soul. I'm down to earth, modest and believe the key to any type of successful relationship is open, honest communication. I am respectful, sincere and passionate. I don't "artificially" take care of myself. I believe in yoga, pilates, some strength training and eating healthy to remain looking young and vibrant. Oh, and yes, I'm a real redhead (I seem to get that question a lot). The qualities that I look for when meeting men include intelligence, sophistication, a positive outlook on life, someone considerate, romantic, affectionate and family-oriented. I also prefer men with somewhat of an athletic background or those who are physically active and health conscious. Good communication skills and trust are obviously very important aspects as well. I hope to meet others who are open-minded and enthusiastic and can enlighten my life as I hope to enlighten and inspire that individual. I have a wonderful 19 year old son that I've raised alone for 17 years (by choice) and have spent that time developing an awesome relationship with him. I wanted to give him a life free of a revolving door of men and raise him in a secure and stable environment. I have dated over the years, but have always put my son first. Now that he's off to college I'm looking forward to focusing on myself and my love life! :) A glass of wine and excellent conversation would be ideal. The best end result would be an awesome connection with someone I’m attracted to that is just as attracted to me. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am new to the area so just stepping out some and trying to meet the locals. I will not fill this space with all the wonderful things about me (there nearly isn't enough space..lol) Seriously, I love to read profiles (I am a people person) and what I am finding is most (not all) people pretty much say what they think others want to hear to ensure they are more desirable. The ones who state "no games" in their headline (mostly are the game players) ...I do love diversity so I'll hang around a bit...lol Having phone conversations is very important to determine a persons personality....Please know how to communicate/converse, It is the single most important factor in relationships (lovers or friends or family). Having good conversations with good people has nothing to do with "what you're working with" lol (I kill myself) I love to laugh (life is just too serious) I have many interests and talents, I am a nurse, a hairdresser, a painter/designer, dog trainer and have a restaurant (love to cook). UPDATE: I closed the business..it was time! (this is a direct reference to my headline.A few interesting facts about me: I am passionate about anything I do. I do see the world a bit different than most (that is a good thing) I love a bald head on a man! (yet totally not exclusive to it..I am a talker, can have a full conversation with a complete stranger (and often do). I am very unique, I am funny, and I am very open so no telling what will come out of my mouth.(NEVER OUT OF ANGER) I hate fighting and wished everyone had the dicipline to NOT say what they want out of anger and just think of the damage it will do to the relationship) ....I have what I call musical tourettes... (all kinds of music is always milling in my brain and sniplits just come out throughout the day.) UPDATE 2? : Guys PLEASE ...Be self sufficient,( living on your own,with your own transportation) without some messy breakup at current or nearly current status. I am hoping that you know what a healthy relationship feels like or at least knows what it looks like. I do.HAPPY CHATTING ALL!

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