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I am new to the area so just stepping out some and trying to meet the locals. I will not fill this space with all the wonderful things about me (there nearly isn't enough space..lol) Seriously, I love to read profiles (I am a people person) and what I am finding is most (not all) people pretty much say what they think others want to hear to ensure they are more desirable. The ones who state "no games" in their headline (mostly are the game players) ...I do love diversity so I'll hang around a bit...lol Having phone conversations is very important to determine a persons personality....Please know how to communicate/converse, It is the single most important factor in relationships (lovers or friends or family). Having good conversations with good people has nothing to do with "what you're working with" lol (I kill myself) I love to laugh (life is just too serious) I have many interests and talents, I am a nurse, a hairdresser, a painter/designer, dog trainer and have a restaurant (love to cook). UPDATE: I closed the business..it was time! (this is a direct reference to my headline.A few interesting facts about me: I am passionate about anything I do. I do see the world a bit different than most (that is a good thing) I love a bald head on a man! (yet totally not exclusive to it..I am a talker, can have a full conversation with a complete stranger (and often do). I am very unique, I am funny, and I am very open so no telling what will come out of my mouth.(NEVER OUT OF ANGER) I hate fighting and wished everyone had the dicipline to NOT say what they want out of anger and just think of the damage it will do to the relationship) ....I have what I call musical tourettes... (all kinds of music is always milling in my brain and sniplits just come out throughout the day.) UPDATE 2? : Guys PLEASE ...Be self sufficient,( living on your own,with your own transportation) without some messy breakup at current or nearly current status. I am hoping that you know what a healthy relationship feels like or at least knows what it looks like. I do.HAPPY CHATTING ALL!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mei

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hello! I am a classy, open minded, intelligent, independent woman. I enjoy being around fun, outgoing, positive people. I am very passionate about life and have been told that I am a beautiful woman and have an old soul. I'm down to earth, modest and believe the key to any type of successful relationship is open, honest communication. I am respectful, sincere and passionate. I don't "artificially" take care of myself. I believe in yoga, pilates, some strength training and eating healthy to remain looking young and vibrant. Oh, and yes, I'm a real redhead (I seem to get that question a lot). The qualities that I look for when meeting men include intelligence, sophistication, a positive outlook on life, someone considerate, romantic, affectionate and family-oriented. I also prefer men with somewhat of an athletic background or those who are physically active and health conscious. Good communication skills and trust are obviously very important aspects as well. I hope to meet others who are open-minded and enthusiastic and can enlighten my life as I hope to enlighten and inspire that individual. I have a wonderful 19 year old son that I've raised alone for 17 years (by choice) and have spent that time developing an awesome relationship with him. I wanted to give him a life free of a revolving door of men and raise him in a secure and stable environment. I have dated over the years, but have always put my son first. Now that he's off to college I'm looking forward to focusing on myself and my love life! :) A glass of wine and excellent conversation would be ideal. The best end result would be an awesome connection with someone I’m attracted to that is just as attracted to me. :)

  • Bekki

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I\'m self-confident and independent. I enjoy snuggling with my kids, eating ice cream and drinking red wine. I’d like to find an intelligent and fun person. Please be ready to move forward in your life.

  • Drusilla

    Online

    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I wish this app wouldn't show me as online when I'm not and that people would actually read my profile.I have the true "; personality! I can be a pain in the ass and hard to handle at times but also someone that you will never forget. I am out going, energetic, honest to a flaw, strong willed and comfortable in my own skin. I have been told that I often intimidate people but I also have a personality that people find addictive. I like to be around people who are able to carry on a conversation but also comfortable in the silence. I have family that lives near the beach, so my son and I go every chance we get. I enjoy going to the lake with friends or sometimes just hanging out and relaxing. I just like to have fun and enjoy myself. But with that being said, I am also a single mother and he always comes first. He usually goes everywhere with me and all of my friends adore him. I have experienced many things in my life both good and bad. The one thing I have not experienced, is the feeling of "forever". Not even sure it exists or is possible of obtaining! So let's just start with friends :) But understand that I don't have time nor will I tolerate your bullsh*tor your games. I'm often too honest for my own good. If you're not or can't handle it, don't waste my time. Can we just relax, take a breath and have some fun :-)The best relationships start off as friends, lets start there and see where it leads. Yes, I do want my forever but I am not desperate for it or in a hurry. I am not a fitness nut but I do take care of myself and want to meet someone that also does. I'm sorry but I do not date outside my race but thank you and I prefer men taller than me, I am not on here every day but please feel free to send me a message and if there is a mutual interest, I will respond. Please have a picture on your profile and more importantly still look like your picture.Let me know if you want to be *** A relaxing time, just being yourself and having fun. Getting to know each other is essential and if there is a spark, then there will be a path already mapped out for us. Which will come naturally!

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