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DeandreaOffline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Ideally, I'd like to meet someone fantastic, get to know him without pressure, eventually discover that we're both crazy about each other, and walk off into the sunset with him. ;-) Fortunately, I have a solid game plan until that happens! Intrigued? Please read on. I love hanging out with friends wherever they happen to gather. I love boating so much that I'm willing to suffer through applying and reapplying the sunscreen. I love conversations that slowly wind around you like a soft, comfortable blanket and lull you into talking until the small hours of the morning. I love dinner with friends where we have "save the world" discussions in raised voices punctuated with our hands banging, like gavels, on the table. I love road trips. I love going to piano bars to sing along with the performers... Even in an especially zealous fit of logical angst, I KNOW the world of human choice is paved in a kaleidoscope of grey rather than black and white. As much as I can embrace rules and structure, you will not like me if your glasses show you a black and white view of life. Trust me. What I'm working on in my life: Learning to accept help from good friends as I realize that I cannot, in fact, shoulder everything by myself. Feeling incredibly thankful for where I am, whom I know and like and love, and what I have and do not have. Wondering why people brag that they are brutally honest. What could possibly be laudable about being "brutally" anything? How about compassionately honest. That's what I want to be--and that's the kind of person I'd like to be around. Giving myself permission to stop feeling like I need to prove some random things to some random people. Giving myself permission to stop over-thinking everything. Travel. "And now that you don't have to be perfect, you can be good." John Steinbeck I'm really good at the following : Giving bad news to people, strangers and friends alike. I'm excellent on the phone, and I have a knack for helping people hear the news, process things, and gear up to make a plan. Being logical, making lists, explaining things, helping people push through the emotion in something in order to figure out how to cope or how to fix it. This means I'm less good at sitting with you in your pain. I want to fix it. I want you not to hurt. I want to make sure you're happy, even though I know it isn't my job. I'm working on being better at this, but I think it's important flaw to admit to potential romantic partners :-). Please drop me a note if the following are true: You're confident in your ability to get things done. You have a healthy curiosity for learning new things and going to new places. You find your life can be busy to the point of chaos, and you've realized you kind of like it that way. You're happy with yourself--what you've done and where you've been. You're excited about the future, but you'd like to find someone with whom you can share the fun. You don't just *enjoy* physical intimacy with a partner ***you *need* it to have a successful relationship. Or run over to my house to taste the perfect scone. Or grab an impromptu meal or coffee or movie or hike. A couple of important notes are as follows : I do not have children, and I am not interested in raising any as a mother. I'm thrilled with the idea of being friend and mentor, and possibly an eventual step-mother, but if you want someone with whom you can have more children, I am not she. If this is a problem, then you may want to refrain from contacting me. Coffee and conversation without any pressure. Do not contact me if you do not have a photo posted on your profile. I've found a shocking number of men on this site are married and cheating. If you do not have a photo, you'll need to have an excellent reason and a method of proving it :-)
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AnjanetteOffline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
Lookin for fun people to hang out with. I have one child that lives with me, she is disabled so takes up alot of my time (its hard bein a single parent) I enjoy going to the movies, dinner, or just hanging out chatting over some cold ones. Summer time i really enjoy sitting around the fire with friends (with some cold ones lol). My taste in music varies really by my mood i guess, i like just about anything, really lean towards 70's 80's classic rock. I enjoy comedies and horror films. Not really into sports although i do like baseball only because i know how to play the game lol. Not too goal oriented just like takin life as it comes. My dream is to be able to buy an RV and travel the U.S. and enjoy lifes little wonders with that special someone who has the same dream. I am a smoker but trying to quit (arent we all?) I am pretty laid back, dont like to be rushed. Think i have a pretty good sense of humor, want to hang out over some beers and get to know someone as friends first then maybe move on to more if the opportunity arises Dinner, drinks, movie
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CriseldaOffline
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I enjoy going to the movies, out with friends for dinner, drinks, and definitely any outdoor activities. I'm looking to develop a social network to enjoy time away from work in the evenings and weekends. Life is about living.....Feeling great, looking for someone who enjoys physical activities especially outdoors.I'm a successful career women and am looking for fun in my downtime. A casual meeting at a place where we enjoy conversation and learn a little about each other. It could be over lunch or dinner. I'm not real fussy so I'm game for just about anything...