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Janiya, 42
United States, Pennsylvania, Mount Pleasant

Offline, last seen Sun, 11 May 2025 01:43:16

About Me

First: if you are already in a relationship, I'm NOT interested. It's sad that I have to add this part. Married guys, please go fix your relationships and leave me alone. I'm using my original profile, as I'm newly back to this site and have updated much. I've had my first experience hearing grizzly bears roaring from the deceptively "safe feeling" other side of a very small creek and adrenaline pumping, I took some amazing photos. It is desolate here, in a beautiful glacier-carved wind sculpted way, with the wind so cold it makes your teeth ache, like drinking sweet icy spring water. The glacier is glowing as though lit from within by this liquid blue light and continues to mutely shine after the sun sinks. Helicopters are constantly landing and leaving, sometimes bringing me, and it feels like random heart beats taking up temporary residence in my chest. Everywhere there are piles of gravel from past glaciers, past times. I feel as though I've stepped out of now into another era and the thwup thwup of the ***disturbs my peace.First outdoor solitary camping of the year. Nice fire, wrapped up in my sleeping bag and a tarp, all good, then at 3am wolves howling all around. Seems to be a theme! A little unnerved this I chased a wolf out of the yard in my slippers this morning!I am a seeker of many things... I desire to understand metaphysics, my own spirituality, nature, the purpose of (my) life and the greater meaning of our existence...On a more earthly level, I would like to find a piece of land where I can build my dream home, or a simple cabin (which might be my dream home?), dig in the earth, and let my dog run free. I would like someone to share it with. I also have itchy feet and need to periodically just pack up spontaneously and go somewhere. It may be overseas, or it may be just a local camping trip, both are rewarding.I grew up in an isolated northern community and have a lot of experience with organic gardening, farming, homesteading and hands-on fix-it-ing. I am practical, dreamy, direct, shy, willing to believe the best about people, disillusioned, hopeful and always, always, working on myself.Best pick-up line Him: Hey babe, you with any of these guys?Me: No, they're just friends, but I'm not looking for anyone right now.Him: Well... that's alright hon, I'm catch and release!I guess a few deep-thinking quotes are in order? "Understanding is the one-dimensional comprehension of the intellect.It leads to knowledge.Realization is three-dimensional – a simultaneous comprehension of head, heart, and *** from direct experience."- Dan Millman quoting “Socrates”From: The Way of the Peaceful WarriorConsciousness & Energy create the nature of reality.-R"You can't solve problems with the same level of intelligence that created them" - Einstein "Great lions can find peace in a cageBut we should only do that as a last resortSo those bars that restrain your wings, I guess you won't mind if I pry themopen"~Rumi~"Outside of a dog, a book is man's best friend. Inside of a dog it's too dark to read."~Groucho Marx~ Maybe climb some jungle gyms, or throw rocks in the river? About you: You can communicate and listen. You have a sense of humour... can be dry, quirky, sarcastic; doesn't matter. You like me. You can read, you like dogs, you like nature. You are interested in expanding yourself - are open to discussions on many topics, are interested in at least some of the things I am, are not judgmental.Turn-ons: ("Ons"... is that a word? On's? Plural of on...?)An easy spontaneous laugh.Someone who follows through (in all senses of the word).Nice teeth/smile.Meeting my eyes.Nice hands (not talking manicured and soft). The ability to talk about a range of subjects and to be able to disagree gracefully.Okay with comfortable silences.Touch.Profile picture with your shirt on...! Need to leave something for later, eh?A few nice clear photos = good... too many, and it smacks of narcissism! Especially if you have all sorts of girls hanging on you. If you are doing that well, why are you on here?Oh, and when I say I don't do drugs, I actually mean it - I'm not looking for someone who does.Pet peeves: Okay, I make the occasional gaffe, but why do so few people use spell checker? (For example... the guy who said he's not looking for a "; of himself... um.... that's a milk-snorting offence for sure! Maybe proof-reading might be a good idea? Just a suggestion.)Here's a few silly things that bug me. It's "a lot" not "alot or allot" (unless you're doling out someone's allotment). It's pronounced "noo-klee-er" not "nyoo-kyuh-ler", and "etcetera", not "ect-cetera" . Um... what else? If you've gotten this far, wow. I'm impressed!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Fitness / Gym Adult History Martial Arts Western Cricket Dance Dirt Bike Racing
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