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DeandreaOffline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Ideally, I'd like to meet someone fantastic, get to know him without pressure, eventually discover that we're both crazy about each other, and walk off into the sunset with him. ;-) Fortunately, I have a solid game plan until that happens! Intrigued? Please read on. I love hanging out with friends wherever they happen to gather. I love boating so much that I'm willing to suffer through applying and reapplying the sunscreen. I love conversations that slowly wind around you like a soft, comfortable blanket and lull you into talking until the small hours of the morning. I love dinner with friends where we have "save the world" discussions in raised voices punctuated with our hands banging, like gavels, on the table. I love road trips. I love going to piano bars to sing along with the performers... Even in an especially zealous fit of logical angst, I KNOW the world of human choice is paved in a kaleidoscope of grey rather than black and white. As much as I can embrace rules and structure, you will not like me if your glasses show you a black and white view of life. Trust me. What I'm working on in my life: Learning to accept help from good friends as I realize that I cannot, in fact, shoulder everything by myself. Feeling incredibly thankful for where I am, whom I know and like and love, and what I have and do not have. Wondering why people brag that they are brutally honest. What could possibly be laudable about being "brutally" anything? How about compassionately honest. That's what I want to be--and that's the kind of person I'd like to be around. Giving myself permission to stop feeling like I need to prove some random things to some random people. Giving myself permission to stop over-thinking everything. Travel. "And now that you don't have to be perfect, you can be good." John Steinbeck I'm really good at the following : Giving bad news to people, strangers and friends alike. I'm excellent on the phone, and I have a knack for helping people hear the news, process things, and gear up to make a plan. Being logical, making lists, explaining things, helping people push through the emotion in something in order to figure out how to cope or how to fix it. This means I'm less good at sitting with you in your pain. I want to fix it. I want you not to hurt. I want to make sure you're happy, even though I know it isn't my job. I'm working on being better at this, but I think it's important flaw to admit to potential romantic partners :-). Please drop me a note if the following are true: You're confident in your ability to get things done. You have a healthy curiosity for learning new things and going to new places. You find your life can be busy to the point of chaos, and you've realized you kind of like it that way. You're happy with yourself--what you've done and where you've been. You're excited about the future, but you'd like to find someone with whom you can share the fun. You don't just *enjoy* physical intimacy with a partner ***you *need* it to have a successful relationship. Or run over to my house to taste the perfect scone. Or grab an impromptu meal or coffee or movie or hike. A couple of important notes are as follows : I do not have children, and I am not interested in raising any as a mother. I'm thrilled with the idea of being friend and mentor, and possibly an eventual step-mother, but if you want someone with whom you can have more children, I am not she. If this is a problem, then you may want to refrain from contacting me. Coffee and conversation without any pressure. Do not contact me if you do not have a photo posted on your profile. I've found a shocking number of men on this site are married and cheating. If you do not have a photo, you'll need to have an excellent reason and a method of proving it :-)
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DebroahOffline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
Does anyone really read these? Don't you just look at the picture?I'm a single mother of 2 children. Wait I guess one is and adult since he's 19. The other is a 17 year old girl. I've done this on my own. To do that I've he'd to be motivated, driven and determined. I'm sure my friends would tell you that as well as how I'm willing to help them whenever they askI'm teaching myself to run again. Don't let the extra weight fool you, I'm a very active person. Being outside walking, running, biking, swimming or just sitting by the lake are things I love. Just going out with someone new would be great. Who knows what it could bring. A new friend, great; more even better. You'll never know if you don't get to know me :) I love coffee or dive bars.
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SofiaOffline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Love spending time with family and friends. Like a balance of going out and staying home.Love camping and being outdoors and enjoying the smells, sights, and sounds away from city life. I like to laugh (sometimes at myself), and enjoy making others laugh.I like most kinds of music, country is my favorite.I am a laid back jeans and t-shirt kind of girl most of the time. Not afraid to get my hands dirty.I am looking for someone to share some of my interest and introduce me to a few of theirs. I believe in treating people the way you would want them to treat you. Any kind of relationship, be it friends or a significant other, needs to have respect, communication, honesty, and trust. I am a person with strong morals and values and would like someone who respects that. I am not on here looking for a hook up or a pen pal. I want to meet someone, get to know them and see where it goes from there.I use my phone to access meetville most of the time so the chat feature is not an option for me. Depends on the other person and what they enjoy. Lunch is always a good start :-)