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Beckie
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Hoping to find the one ive been LOOKING for my whole life....want a best friend....who gets me and all my weirdness....lol.....im Happy with my life....jus want someone to make it great....and complete me:)...OH AND OVER ALL THE HEAD GAMES...if u don't want a relationship....still stuck on ur ex....looking for Ass only....skip me....don't stop here....I'm starting to get annoyed big time!!!! Let's have fun....dating is such a chore...good food...some drinks...good conversation....can lead to a suprising finish...let's see where this takes us.
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Deandrea
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Ideally, I'd like to meet someone fantastic, get to know him without pressure, eventually discover that we're both crazy about each other, and walk off into the sunset with him. ;-) Fortunately, I have a solid game plan until that happens! Intrigued? Please read on. I love hanging out with friends wherever they happen to gather. I love boating so much that I'm willing to suffer through applying and reapplying the sunscreen. I love conversations that slowly wind around you like a soft, comfortable blanket and lull you into talking until the small hours of the morning. I love dinner with friends where we have "save the world" discussions in raised voices punctuated with our hands banging, like gavels, on the table. I love road trips. I love going to piano bars to sing along with the performers... Even in an especially zealous fit of logical angst, I KNOW the world of human choice is paved in a kaleidoscope of grey rather than black and white. As much as I can embrace rules and structure, you will not like me if your glasses show you a black and white view of life. Trust me. What I'm working on in my life: Learning to accept help from good friends as I realize that I cannot, in fact, shoulder everything by myself. Feeling incredibly thankful for where I am, whom I know and like and love, and what I have and do not have. Wondering why people brag that they are brutally honest. What could possibly be laudable about being "brutally" anything? How about compassionately honest. That's what I want to be--and that's the kind of person I'd like to be around. Giving myself permission to stop feeling like I need to prove some random things to some random people. Giving myself permission to stop over-thinking everything. Travel. "And now that you don't have to be perfect, you can be good." John Steinbeck I'm really good at the following : Giving bad news to people, strangers and friends alike. I'm excellent on the phone, and I have a knack for helping people hear the news, process things, and gear up to make a plan. Being logical, making lists, explaining things, helping people push through the emotion in something in order to figure out how to cope or how to fix it. This means I'm less good at sitting with you in your pain. I want to fix it. I want you not to hurt. I want to make sure you're happy, even though I know it isn't my job. I'm working on being better at this, but I think it's important flaw to admit to potential romantic partners :-). Please drop me a note if the following are true: You're confident in your ability to get things done. You have a healthy curiosity for learning new things and going to new places. You find your life can be busy to the point of chaos, and you've realized you kind of like it that way. You're happy with yourself--what you've done and where you've been. You're excited about the future, but you'd like to find someone with whom you can share the fun. You don't just *enjoy* physical intimacy with a partner ***you *need* it to have a successful relationship. Or run over to my house to taste the perfect scone. Or grab an impromptu meal or coffee or movie or hike. A couple of important notes are as follows : I do not have children, and I am not interested in raising any as a mother. I'm thrilled with the idea of being friend and mentor, and possibly an eventual step-mother, but if you want someone with whom you can have more children, I am not she. If this is a problem, then you may want to refrain from contacting me. Coffee and conversation without any pressure. Do not contact me if you do not have a photo posted on your profile. I've found a shocking number of men on this site are married and cheating. If you do not have a photo, you'll need to have an excellent reason and a method of proving it :-)
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Rebeckah
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I am not looking for games or drama. I was married and had all that already. LOL!!! I am an honest person who knows what she wants and goes for it. I have a great personality and sense of humor. I like going out to a nice dinner and drinks but am completely comfortable staying at home and having some intimate time as well. Very passionate woman, who needs a very passionate man. I have two children who are teenagers who are the center of my universe but that doesn't mean I don't have room for a special person in my life to keep everything in balance. I love all types of music. I have to admit that I am not a country music fan. Some is ok but really, how many times can someone sing about break ups, dogs and pick up trucks! lol!Hope to hear from you soon! First dates should be a little casual. Drinks and maybe dinner. If things feel right then maybe then the next step will take itself.