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I am more attracted to tall black athletic men, just my preference......I have dated men from meetville before long term, it can work, just be honest . I am single because I am picky. I am told that I am much prettier in person, very laid back and direct. Very rarely do I even find anyone who interests me enough for a second date. I am hoping it is time for that to change :) I dont think we have perfect matches. I think we have chemistry, conversation and the rest is what we make of it. I am really looking for my best friend. My best friend that I call when I have great news, need to cry or just to vent. Is it too much to ask to get butterflies, goosebumps???I need the guy who can show me new things, test my limits, push me harder, someone who can tell me to shut up if my mouth gets out of control...Someone who shows me new views, teaches me new things that I have never experienced.I am looking for a long term relationship, lots of romance.I want a gentlemen, someone who opens the door all the time not just the first few dates, someone who is protective of what they want and have, someone who believes taking care of there family is number one job. I was married 13 years... I know it takes more courage to leave looking for wow than it does to stay and settle for okay.My friends would say that I am fiesty, fun, love to laugh,very passionate, loyal and have no filter. Laughing is so important:)I do not like people who are disrespectful, judgemental or talk down to others. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Pay things forward. Yes I have children however please do not ask about them at first. But...it is important to know the basics of what your getting into. I have a big family by choice.Having a big family is not crazy, busy, stressful or hard, it is a true blessing.I have no Daddy baby drama, we wrote our divorce together. I am not looking for a father for my children but a positive role model. Lastly,I hate drama and I am not here to play games. Dont tell me what you think I want to hear. Say what you mean and do what you say,even it is simple as a phone call. It is not about the phone call it is about your word. I believe men do the pursuing..old fashion yes but my beliefs. I need the guy who is going to step up and set himself aside from the rest.If you want to know something, then ask. I dont believe in a pre-conceived "this is who I am." I am alot of things and I could tell you but I would rather show you.MUST BE BETWEEN ***I HATE BS, THUGS OR PLAYERS - DO YOURSELF A FAVOR MOVE ONNO BABY DRAMANO JEALOUSY ISSUES OR CONTROL FREAKSMUST HAVE A JOB, CAR, OWN PLACEMUST NOT BE IN A RELATIONSHIP, SEPERATED OR THINKING ABOUT LEAVING CURRENT GIRLFRIEND Establish chemistry, move forward. Chemistry and conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Clarisa

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am adventurous love life and all it has to offer I am looking for a full life with a special person who can teach me love I am outspoken positive and sometimes aggressive; I love a good challenge I have high standards I am independant and can take care of myself; I can also take care of other people; however I believe that people should take of each other. No one should be left behind or left out. I am a giver but can also receive. I enjoy intellectual stimulation. I take pride in the fact that I am independent, though the cost is high when it comes to my free time. I try to squeeze in game of Golf when my children or my business are not demanding my time. I have a very busy schedule, but I do intend to make time in the future for new adventure. Life is too short to pass up possible life long memories. I am a very authentic American Girl. I am considered esteemed and successful for small town America. Passion, lust and desire are definitely a requirement in physical attraction; intellectual integrity, character, common interests and respect; is what holds on to that emotion. I am looking for that one person whom you can look across a crowded room and lock eyes; I have the hope that one day I will look across a crowded room and my eyes will meet a man eyes and the room becomes silent. I am an optimist, which makes me somewhat of a dreamer; I am artististic, creative and a romantic. Positive thinking leads to positive things. I am a leader who can also follow. I enjoy people and friends; new places, smells and tastes. I appreciate beauty and natures simplicity. Veracity is required in my search I realize it is rare; trying to find it here may be a catch 22. I am not into x with strange men. Don't expect to find a girl lacking morals. I am a very confident well adjusted person. I love confident men; however if you are a narcissist or self righteous do not apply I do not play games or manipulate people, I can be selfish but I make sure everyone benefits; I am not a cheater or a player I absolutely require the same; please do not apply truth will always present itself so please don't waste your time or mine. Look boys..... If you are going to lie about who you are and what you do; don't you think you are wasting your time? Just because you want me to talk to you. Don't exagerate or lie about yourself, it won't help; I will see right through it.Oh one more thing; I can be a princess! so if that is not what you want then don't ask me to let down my long hair for you climb. And YES I Do want a lot; I have worked hard for it, I deserve it and if you have also, You deserve it as well!Additionally; I am not looking for someone to drink with or party with, I am looking for someone to Jog with, work-out with, Cook with, Read, Maybe Hunt, with discuss world issues, build things, Travel with, take photographs, decorate, landscape, garden, ect ect ect. I would like to date a man who is charming and respectable. I am looking for a sane man who is not into control or mind manipulation. I would like to meet a real person with morals some one that I can compliment as well as compliment me. I am looking for a athletic or physically fit man, Under my must have list: I must have well dressed clean and smell good man. I also must say this; I am not looking for man to take care of me or control me, I have been divorced for 7 years and all my decisions have brought me success thus far. That being said, I am searching for someone to walk with me, laugh with me, dance with me, ride motorcycle with me (though I don't mind riding on the back and holding on ;) I certainly do not want to be someones Idol, mother, or motivational energy. Looking for someone that can keep up with me. BTW I have my life together emotionally and financially, and I know what I want out of life, 'that being said' If you are still living with mom and dad or don't have a job car or your life organized please do not apply.

  • Elenore

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am looking for a friend first to do fun things with and would be open to a relationship if the chemistry is just right I'm at a point in my life where I want to meet people who are real, authentic.Would like to meet someone who is cheerful and positive, with a zest for life. Someone who takes care of himself and values family,Nothing beats cuddling on the couch and watching a good movie!I am comfortable being single but feel it would be even better to meet someone to share my life with. I feel I have a lot to offer. :)Thanks for taking the time to read my profile and good luck! I won't likely reply to a profile without a picture. Sorry! Je parles aussi le francais ! We can decide together...

  • Anjanette

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Lookin for fun people to hang out with. I have one child that lives with me, she is disabled so takes up alot of my time (its hard bein a single parent) I enjoy going to the movies, dinner, or just hanging out chatting over some cold ones. Summer time i really enjoy sitting around the fire with friends (with some cold ones lol). My taste in music varies really by my mood i guess, i like just about anything, really lean towards 70's 80's classic rock. I enjoy comedies and horror films. Not really into sports although i do like baseball only because i know how to play the game lol. Not too goal oriented just like takin life as it comes. My dream is to be able to buy an RV and travel the U.S. and enjoy lifes little wonders with that special someone who has the same dream. I am a smoker but trying to quit (arent we all?) I am pretty laid back, dont like to be rushed. Think i have a pretty good sense of humor, want to hang out over some beers and get to know someone as friends first then maybe move on to more if the opportunity arises Dinner, drinks, movie

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