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I am more attracted to tall black athletic men, just my preference......I have dated men from meetville before long term, it can work, just be honest . I am single because I am picky. I am told that I am much prettier in person, very laid back and direct. Very rarely do I even find anyone who interests me enough for a second date. I am hoping it is time for that to change :) I dont think we have perfect matches. I think we have chemistry, conversation and the rest is what we make of it. I am really looking for my best friend. My best friend that I call when I have great news, need to cry or just to vent. Is it too much to ask to get butterflies, goosebumps???I need the guy who can show me new things, test my limits, push me harder, someone who can tell me to shut up if my mouth gets out of control...Someone who shows me new views, teaches me new things that I have never experienced.I am looking for a long term relationship, lots of romance.I want a gentlemen, someone who opens the door all the time not just the first few dates, someone who is protective of what they want and have, someone who believes taking care of there family is number one job. I was married 13 years... I know it takes more courage to leave looking for wow than it does to stay and settle for okay.My friends would say that I am fiesty, fun, love to laugh,very passionate, loyal and have no filter. Laughing is so important:)I do not like people who are disrespectful, judgemental or talk down to others. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Pay things forward. Yes I have children however please do not ask about them at first. But...it is important to know the basics of what your getting into. I have a big family by choice.Having a big family is not crazy, busy, stressful or hard, it is a true blessing.I have no Daddy baby drama, we wrote our divorce together. I am not looking for a father for my children but a positive role model. Lastly,I hate drama and I am not here to play games. Dont tell me what you think I want to hear. Say what you mean and do what you say,even it is simple as a phone call. It is not about the phone call it is about your word. I believe men do the pursuing..old fashion yes but my beliefs. I need the guy who is going to step up and set himself aside from the rest.If you want to know something, then ask. I dont believe in a pre-conceived "this is who I am." I am alot of things and I could tell you but I would rather show you.MUST BE BETWEEN ***I HATE BS, THUGS OR PLAYERS - DO YOURSELF A FAVOR MOVE ONNO BABY DRAMANO JEALOUSY ISSUES OR CONTROL FREAKSMUST HAVE A JOB, CAR, OWN PLACEMUST NOT BE IN A RELATIONSHIP, SEPERATED OR THINKING ABOUT LEAVING CURRENT GIRLFRIEND Establish chemistry, move forward. Chemistry and conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Fern

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am very athletic and sporty. I am a fun loving woman who is full of life and I hope to meet someone equally minded. I am also successful, intellectual, humorous, and romantic. I enjoy adventure and am always looking for the next adventure. I also enjoy sitting on the couch with a good glass of red wine snuggling and talking until the wee hours of the morning. And most of all I love to laugh. If you think we might be a match.... Message me.

  • Marci

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    “Ten Things You Shouldn't Say on a Date.1. You're wearing that?2. Something smells funny.3. Where's the Tylenol?4. And to think, I first wanted to date your brother.5. I have a confession to make…6. My dad has a suit just like that.7. That man is hot. Look at him.8. My ex, may he rot in hell forever…9. You're going to order that? Seriously?10. You're how old?”? Gena Showalter, Animal *** to laugh, smile, play and have fun...but will be serious when needed. I am looking for someone playful, fun, confident, and adventurous. Someone who will make me laugh everyday and will be silly, but also knows when it is time to be serious. I am pretty easy going and I enjoy trying new things. I like to read, shop (mostly window-shop), go to movies, walk outside, spend time with friends and family, and travel. I am trying to get back into running. I am not fast, and look like a dork when I run, but it is something just for me and allows me time to think, plan, and dream. I have a 14 year old daughter who lives with her father most of the time as I had to purchase a home outside of her school district, but I spend as much time with her as I can. Her father and I have a good relationship still and try to remain friends. Finding someone who understands that dynamic would be great. I am a registered nurse by trade, but I have a desk job now. Sometimes I miss patient contact, but then again....I am happy to not be wiping butts anymore! ;)I love all kinds of music. I like to dance-even though I look ridiculous doing it. I miss slow dancing with someone who is not afraid to get out on the dance floor and hold me in his arms with confidence. I like karaoke-and I sing HORRIBLY!!! I love to play board games, cards, or just sit on the couch and watch a movie...scary ones are my favorite!

  • Elenore

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am looking for a friend first to do fun things with and would be open to a relationship if the chemistry is just right I'm at a point in my life where I want to meet people who are real, authentic.Would like to meet someone who is cheerful and positive, with a zest for life. Someone who takes care of himself and values family,Nothing beats cuddling on the couch and watching a good movie!I am comfortable being single but feel it would be even better to meet someone to share my life with. I feel I have a lot to offer. :)Thanks for taking the time to read my profile and good luck! I won't likely reply to a profile without a picture. Sorry! Je parles aussi le francais ! We can decide together...

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