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Cathie, 41

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About Me

I am looking for someone serous about a relationship, not someone says he is, then turns around every chance they get, to come on this site!!! If you continue to log in after several dates, I will assume that you are still looking and that I am waisting my time. I have said this before, and will say it again..."!!" If you are fortunate to meet with me, I believe that I should come to your house and bring a friend with me, maybe have coffee and chat, to get to know one another a little better. Ok Update!!! I went out with a guy from this site, we saw each other several time, then no phone call no text, nothing.... What is that about, I only sent one text to him saying haven't heard from you....I am not going to beg or chase anyone, I just do not understand why guys are acting so weired!!!Have you ever felt that you weren't good enough, or that someone wants to change the person you are???? Well im looking for someone who is happy with just me!!!!OK, here is what NOT to say if you wanna go out on a date... (but probably correct in his statement) "the biggest ***hole that you could ever go on a date with,i would make you pay for everything and i would treat you like sh*tany takers?" I was sent this!I am tired of these guys who are married who message me wanting me to go out with them. Look Im single, why would I want to go out with you!!! I dont care if you are telling me the truth! I am not interested in you!I want to be the one and only, I dont want to share, and if your married and want to go out with me, then you would do it to me, Im not stupid!!!! So please come on... give me a break, just let me find someone who wants me not two ...........I am a 40 year old , i work a full time job, and have one kid. I like to hang out, play pool,and get to know people. I am not on here looking for a hook up!I am a big girl and know when the games are being played,If all you want is the hunt or just a quick fix, find someone else. Hm....... well i have had many first dates all different, every person is unique and different i would not like to compare any of them...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Charleigh

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    - By nature I'm artsy and love to draw, paint and create. I'm also a bit of a DIY'er -- painting cabinets, counter tops, furniture etc...love it all. :***I've lived in FL and AZ but have been back in Mass. since ***. I would love to do more traveling and see more of the world but I'm hoping to do it with a fun travel partner. :)- I like to eat healthy, and stay active and fit..this is very important to me, and should be for you as well. I try to eat organic as much as possible and I love farmer's markets. I'm not a vegetarian, but eat very little meat.- I guess my friends would say I'm genuine and kindhearted...I cannot hang with anyone who is pretentious or takes themselves too seriously. I'd like to think friends would also say I'm funny and a damn good time. :) I'm a strong believer in being/staying healthy, positive, and always striving to be the best person you can be. Gratitude, graciousness and random acts of kindness all rate highly with me as well. We're all here really just to help one another out, aren't we? - LOVE, love, love music...except country...sorry man, just can't do it. My preferred station is 92.5 or Alt Nation on XM...you get the idea. - A few more randoms about me: 1) I refuse to use "LOL"...there, I said it. 2) I'm not crazy into politics, but I tend to mesh better with those whose political ideology falls more middle of the road to left...no right wingers please. 3) Profiles written in all caps scare me...can't explain it.Lastly, good luck to everyone out there! Hopefully we can all find what we're looking for. *** why are there so many pictures of men in their bathrooms...??? I've never seen so many shower curtain rings in my life. :/ While we're at it, full disclosure...pictures of guys in or around their car/boat/motorcycle or flexing muscles in the gym = complete turnoff. I'm sure I'll get plenty of hate mail for that one...sorry, just being honest. Some gals are into that, I'm just not one of them...AT ALL. I'm sure not everyone digs brunettes with little white dogs either but I'm okay with that...c'est la vie! **I'm amending my comment re: men & bathroom photos...I've been informed countless women are also guilty of the "selfie bathroom pic"...complete with shower curtain rings...my bad. First meet for a drink/go for a walk and see if there's a spark. If no spark, no hard feelings...no sense in wasting each other's time, right? Giddy up! :)

  • Raguel

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm a single mom with 2 kiddos. My spare time is spent with family and friends or out at the ball park watching my son and daughter, floating the river, camping or just chilling out by the fire. I'm looking for someone with the same interests as me. Not sure really what to say because I am new to this site. Feel free to contact me if you would like to know more.My flaws are perfect for the heart that's meant to love me. I know that I may not be what everyone is looking for but if I send you a message it would be nice to at least receive a no thank you or I'm not interested, it's common courtesy and where I come from its called manners.

  • Rozanne

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am currently working fulltime and I am also a fulltime student. I am currently working on my Bachelor's degree....WOOHOO 10 more classes in order to take over a management role in the organization I work for. I have a beautiful grandson who is the love of my life. I enjoy reading books, hanging out with my friends, playing with my grandson of course. Music.....lol! I value honesty and respect from the people I surround myself with and you will get no less from me. I am not really looking for anything in particular.....just whatever happens.. happens. I would just like to meet someone that I have a connection with, that I can spend time with when we both can get away from our busy lives. You can never go wrong with dinner....and maybe a movie....

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