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Zena, 44
United States, Pennsylvania, Media

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About Me

Being an English teacher, I enjoy reading, writing, and movies that have an interesting plot. However, I also like to let my hair down and go out and play pool or dance. As my main picture shows, I'm comfortable in many different social situations. I can play pool with the locals one weekend and get dressed up for the ballet the next. I'm versatile. My life has taken some interesting turns, and I am learning that I never know what it has to offer or what might be taken away. Being a planner is part of my nature, but I understand the importance of living each day and not trying to plan or control what comes next. Don't get me wrong, I can still plan with a vengeance when it is necessary and appropriate. I'm organized but not rigid, plan oriented but flexible... In answer to the what-are-you-looking-for questions: I have a basic idea of what I want, but if I am too rigid in my expectations, I might miss something unexpected and equally as satisfying as what I thought I wanted. Most of us hope for a relationship at some point in the future, as do I, but that doesn't mean I'm looking to hook a husband. Some dates can result in finding a friend with whom I can go to wineries, plays, etc. even if there is no romantic connection. Some dates are complete disasters that result in the desire never to see the other person again. Some dates can be intriguing enough to result in a second date. One never knows, so I hesitate to say I have the same intent each time I meet someone. I truly believe "the unexamined life is not worth living." Most of all it is my sense of humor that has gotten me through the tough times. Even my students think I'm funny...most of the time. They also say I'm tough but fair. When I'm not there, they miss me, and that, I believe, speaks volumes.Don't worry about the red pen, though, I usually don't whip it out on the first date.A humorous poem I wrote about internet dating:So many men, so little time.It’s like the Wal-She had to hurry while still in her prime.But how should she go about rating?One man was posing with a large fish.She did not point the mouse and click.He could not fulfill her wish.He was probably compensating for a small…Flick went her wrist as she moved on.She saw short men, tall men, fat and skinny.If she kept looking, she would find “the one.”Surely some were smart, if not many.To find “the one” she would search near and far.She would persevere; she would be brave.This one loves his motorcycle and car.Another is looking for a sex slave.She read many profiles, saw many pics.This one was bald, another one handsome.If she kept going, she would learn the tricks.But could any of these men make her…“Come on, girl,” she spoke aloud.“From this website you must depart.You won’t find your man where boys abound.”Mr. Right is not on the shelf at Wal-If you've read this far, perhaps you'll take my quiz..."21 Things I Want In a Lover" by Alanis MorissetteDo you derive joy when someone else succeeds?Do you not play dirty when engaged in competition?Do you have a big intellectual capacityBut know that it alone does not equate wisdom?Do you see everything as an illusionBut enjoy it even though you are not of it?Are you both masculine and feminine?Politically aware and don't believe in capital punishment?These are 21 things that I want in a loverNot necessarily needs but qualities that I preferDo you derive joy from diving in and seeing thatLoving someone can actually feel like freedom?Are you funny? a la self-deprecatingLike adventure and have many formed opinions?These are 21 things that I want in a loverNot necessarily needs but qualities that i preferI figure I can describe it since I have a choice in the matterThese are 21 things I choose to choose in a loverI'm in no hurry I could wait foreverI'm in no rush 'cause I like being soloNo worries and certainly no pressure in the meantimeI'll live like there's no tomorrowAre you uninhibited in bed more than three times a weekUp for being experimental?Are you athletic? Are you thriving in a job that helps your brother?Are you not addicted?... curious and communicative? Don't take me for coffee. I despise the stuff. A glass of red wine would be much better. Let's not go see a movie on the first date. How can we get to know each other if we don't have an opportunity to interact? I like surprises and unique experiences. That doesn't mean, though, that I want to go sky diving. Italian food, good conversation and a few glasses of wine are never a bad idea. But I'm open. Surprise me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

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    well back on here after a few days and knowing that i cant chat with people i do know are my good friends:( but also back on to see if there s maybe one more chance that i can find somone who truly wants to be with me not just want to fool around,,,,,i dont do one nite stands and if your not single please don 't waste my *** message me...:) i want someone who will stand by me not behide me and true the good and bad times someone who loves the beach and outdoors,like bonfires and playing guitars around afire,,,while having a few drinks of course lol.i am fun loven,caring and have a big heart and lots of time and love to give so if you out there i am here???? :) i forgot to mention i do have 4 tattoos one on my ankle one on my wrist and one on my lower back and one on my chest: P.S please dont *** your not looking for any kind of relationship or anything serious,,,,,...I'am not looking for a one nite hang out deal.. Thanks good luck on the fish:) have a nice dinner so we are able to chat and get t know each other or walk at the park while a having coffee:)

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