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Nyla, 41

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About Me

Hi. I am a 41 yr old women. I have three children.2 are in college and the third is entering high school. I would like to talk, hang out and see how we both feel. I have a great sense of humor. No drama. I am very opened mind. I am easy going.y. I work and love what I do. I take doe joe and kick boxing. Iam looking for the one who is searching for me. Talk to me. Ill tell you the truth and love you like a king.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Zena

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Being an English teacher, I enjoy reading, writing, and movies that have an interesting plot. However, I also like to let my hair down and go out and play pool or dance. As my main picture shows, I'm comfortable in many different social situations. I can play pool with the locals one weekend and get dressed up for the ballet the next. I'm versatile. My life has taken some interesting turns, and I am learning that I never know what it has to offer or what might be taken away. Being a planner is part of my nature, but I understand the importance of living each day and not trying to plan or control what comes next. Don't get me wrong, I can still plan with a vengeance when it is necessary and appropriate. I'm organized but not rigid, plan oriented but flexible... In answer to the what-are-you-looking-for questions: I have a basic idea of what I want, but if I am too rigid in my expectations, I might miss something unexpected and equally as satisfying as what I thought I wanted. Most of us hope for a relationship at some point in the future, as do I, but that doesn't mean I'm looking to hook a husband. Some dates can result in finding a friend with whom I can go to wineries, plays, etc. even if there is no romantic connection. Some dates are complete disasters that result in the desire never to see the other person again. Some dates can be intriguing enough to result in a second date. One never knows, so I hesitate to say I have the same intent each time I meet someone. I truly believe "the unexamined life is not worth living." Most of all it is my sense of humor that has gotten me through the tough times. Even my students think I'm funny...most of the time. They also say I'm tough but fair. When I'm not there, they miss me, and that, I believe, speaks volumes.Don't worry about the red pen, though, I usually don't whip it out on the first date.A humorous poem I wrote about internet dating:So many men, so little time.It’s like the Wal-She had to hurry while still in her prime.But how should she go about rating?One man was posing with a large fish.She did not point the mouse and click.He could not fulfill her wish.He was probably compensating for a small…Flick went her wrist as she moved on.She saw short men, tall men, fat and skinny.If she kept looking, she would find “the one.”Surely some were smart, if not many.To find “the one” she would search near and far.She would persevere; she would be brave.This one loves his motorcycle and car.Another is looking for a sex slave.She read many profiles, saw many pics.This one was bald, another one handsome.If she kept going, she would learn the tricks.But could any of these men make her…“Come on, girl,” she spoke aloud.“From this website you must depart.You won’t find your man where boys abound.”Mr. Right is not on the shelf at Wal-If you've read this far, perhaps you'll take my quiz..."21 Things I Want In a Lover" by Alanis MorissetteDo you derive joy when someone else succeeds?Do you not play dirty when engaged in competition?Do you have a big intellectual capacityBut know that it alone does not equate wisdom?Do you see everything as an illusionBut enjoy it even though you are not of it?Are you both masculine and feminine?Politically aware and don't believe in capital punishment?These are 21 things that I want in a loverNot necessarily needs but qualities that I preferDo you derive joy from diving in and seeing thatLoving someone can actually feel like freedom?Are you funny? a la self-deprecatingLike adventure and have many formed opinions?These are 21 things that I want in a loverNot necessarily needs but qualities that i preferI figure I can describe it since I have a choice in the matterThese are 21 things I choose to choose in a loverI'm in no hurry I could wait foreverI'm in no rush 'cause I like being soloNo worries and certainly no pressure in the meantimeI'll live like there's no tomorrowAre you uninhibited in bed more than three times a weekUp for being experimental?Are you athletic? Are you thriving in a job that helps your brother?Are you not addicted?... curious and communicative? Don't take me for coffee. I despise the stuff. A glass of red wine would be much better. Let's not go see a movie on the first date. How can we get to know each other if we don't have an opportunity to interact? I like surprises and unique experiences. That doesn't mean, though, that I want to go sky diving. Italian food, good conversation and a few glasses of wine are never a bad idea. But I'm open. Surprise me.

  • Lynsey

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I really loved it there and already miss it. :-)Would like to find a life partner. Been frustrated with this site and the men that are not able to or incapable of having a relationship. Im a slow mover, i like to get to know someone good before just jumping in. So no expectation it would have to be slow process, lets just take the first steps.. talk and get to know. I like to work on my house, hike, work on my garden and do events during the summer. I love eventing.If you are looking for a play partner please dont even bother messaging me. I will not answer your *** profile says "looking but nothing serious". I am also not into games or playing around. I just dont play around!. If you state your looking for someone way younger then you, also dont bother with me, your probibly one of those guys that have expectations so high that no one will ever meet them. I have a thing for teeth, please brush them every day and take care of them. If your looking for an eventual lifetime partner/best friend/lover, then you should be willing to take your time and get to know someone. Im an intelligent, fun, positive, active person looking for the same and have alot to give. I want to give it to the right person.THE SCAM***if you claim your from another state and claim to have fallen in love with me *** on my pictures) but cant chat here because your in the military so you need my ***, dont bother, i get these messages every day and im not falling for it. Ii can usually tell by your broken up english anyway. and no American men say things like "god will punish you for saying scam" unless your from west baptist church. no buddy, your god will punish you for attempting to extract money from lonely women. SHAME ON YOU. decided by both, maybe a beer? Coffee or tea?

  • Carrie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I have a lot of interest but strongly believe it is the company you keep that makes things interesting. I love pretty pictures, lasting memories, candid moments... love it more when I take them. I'm selling my house... and haven't decided where I will live once it has sold... because I can. I'm very independent and not seeking someone who needs a keeper. I don't need... I want.... need comes after a friendship & real relationship. I like Harleys & tattoos, high heels & flip flops, blue jeans & dresses, camp fires & candle light, holding hands & soft kisses, laughing a lot & crying when it hurts... I can go on & on but it takes the fun out of discovering a person. If you have to convince me that your old enough or you are a mature man... then you really aren't. I won't date or talk to you if I'm not interested or you are closer to my sons ages than mine. I'm shallow & believe a physical attraction & chemistry must exist... or maybe I'm not shallow & I really do know what I want. I can come up with a lot of creative ideas.

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