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About Me

I am a smart, sexy, independent, honest, spiritual , and super affectionate massage therapist. I like all kids of music but mostly R&B, hip hop, some rap, oldies rock. I love animals and kids. I cook and bake. I like to read, take walks on beach at night, love watchin sports, theme parks, and concerts. I can be stubborn but am also very affectionate and loving. I want a nice, stable, funny, smart, confident, honest, affectionate, and spiritual African American Man with some of the same interests who has the time to properly date a Queen. I would like to go for a nice picnic on beach at dusk, where we could have some intimate conversation, maybe a lil drink, some hand holding, looking into each others eyes, as long as we r having a good time. It doesn't take money to have a good date Also on yyahhoo mmesssenggeer pamsanlmt.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Paityn

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love going out to dinner and trying new cuisines, and enjoy cooking. I am not a club person. I enjoy sitting at a cafe, going to nice lounge/restaurants or I'm just as happy being in someone's good company at home. I take care of myself physically and would want a man who does the same. I exercise and eat right. I consider myself to be a very good natured person. I am definitely a giver and love to make people happy. I get along with just about everyone but I tend to be very shy with people I dont know. I have to say that I love children. I teach autistic kids and working with these individuals gives me the greatest joy. It's nice to know that I am making a difference in their lives, which is very important to me. I am basically looking for a guy who is goodnatured, respectful, adventurous and kind hearted. Someone who loves to travel, and loves the city and is somewhat cultured. I guess you can say that I am traditional and old fashioned in some ways yet modern in others. I hope to find a guy who also has this balance in life.

  • Maren

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm a 44 yr old with 3 adult children and 2 granddaughters. I love music and dancing. I absolutely love college football.I'm on this site to possibly find that one guy I can't stop thinking about. He is funny...he is passionate..he knows how to enjoy life. If you think this may be you...send me a message but only if you are over your last relationship. **I Will not date anyone younger than 40. ** I also only date within my race. I am open for coffee or an easy dinner...no I am not coming to your house.

  • Rowan

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    ~ I totally have a bubbly personality, when I'm around the right people...you know what I'm talkin about-the kind of people that raise you up & encourage you (that makes you wanna be a better person)...someone you can laugh with, who doesn't want to analyze every little thing...I'm all for intelligent, serious conversations, but 100% of the time? Come on...My hobbies include traveling, hangin out w/ friends, and currently trying to decorate my apartment. I also enjoy riding Harley's. I've come to the conclusion that it's not mandatory, but huge bonus points if you ride. My life has consisted of the biker community for many years & SOME people on here would say that finding a "Nice Biker" is an oxymoron and they don't exist, but that's not true. Maybe THEY should research BACA (Bikers Against Child Abuse) or CMA (Christian Motorcycle Association) to gain knowledge, *** judging what they fear. (Yes, I'm referring to a particular person...; I'm considering getting my own, but we'll see. Right now, I'd be good with finding someone that I could hop on the back of a bagger and go enjoy a beautiful sunset somewhere.....I'm pretty independant, meaning I can take care of myself & pay my own bills. If a man is in my life it's because I WANT him there, not cause I NEED him. I just wanna meet someone that I can have fun with, that can be an equal...if you give 100%, so will I....Keepin it REAL section right here***Gentlemen, not all women are a size 6! Or an 8!; she was gorgeous. Curves & some voluptuousness :) If you want a stick, then hit your back button, cuz that is not me. I'm not a big gym/exercise fanatic either. I do watch what I eat (no fried stuff! & not alot of sweets), but geez'....if you like J'Lo, well, then I guess you'd be ok with me..lol. I'm not going to apologize for being me.I don't mind exercising as in taking hikes or walking on the beach or riding bicycles, but its not something I do regularly, but I'm always open to trying new things. That is all :)I own my own home in NC & just moved back to the AV 2 years ago. I work full time. I appreciate the free time I have. It'd be nice to have someone that I could hang out with, share some laughs (and coffee), and not wanna put a ring on my finger within the 1st 3 weeks! (3 weeks is a bit soon & yes, That really happened...lol)As for music, I like all kinds, with the exception of rap & the kind where they scream at you-don't need the headache-Contemporary Christian, Country, Old rock, Nickleback, Dautry, etc..I have 3 priorities in life-God, Family, Friends, exactly in that order. I'm a passionate person when it comes to standing up for what I believe in.; choose to live my life happy & seeing the positive in everything. God has His reasons & His plan, even if we don't see it-it's there.I know exactly what I'm looking for in regards to a relationship/guy, and that would be the following: an equal, a best friend, someone I can talk too, someone who won't keep secrets, & is willing to share his life, as I would be with mine. Let's face it, at this age, we all have baggage, and I'm ok with that. It's how we deal with those issues that make us the person we are and defines our character. Life is so short & I'm done playing games. I want someone I can respect. A man. No lies. No BS. Someone that his word is still as good as money. Someone with integrity. Someone that will open my car door, someone that will tell me I'm beautiful & send me flowers. Just because I'm independent doesn't mean I'm so cold hearted I can't enjoy a man putting on his sweet side. I love those relationships where you see each other across the room at a party and know...its time to be rescued from a mundane conversation or you share that little inside joke that only the two of us have a clue about. If you're ready to commit (not necessarily marriage) but committing to a relationship that has the potential of lasting & forever, then I may be the one you've been searching for :) I may be asking for too much these days I'm told, but hey, here's to answered prayers :***day at a time is a pretty good approach :) OK-I think thats about it....if you think we'd get along, great, shoot me a message~if not, I wish you all the best in your search for your "Ms. Right" :) Starbucks Starbucks Starbucks!!! :)

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