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Melania, 41

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About Me

I've done this so many times and it really hasn't worked but I keep making my way back. So, here's the thing. I've been called intimidating but I feel like, if you're intimidated, you're probably not going to be my type. I want a man's man. I'm looking for someone who knows what they want and goes and gets it. I'm looking for a man who is well over any past relationship, has a career (not just a job), has his own place (without roommates), and does not take any mood altering drugs. Can you tell I've done this before? LOL! I have my life established and am looking for someone who is on an even playing field. I'm not difficult but I am honest. Too honest. What do I have to offer? Well, I have a career that I've been doing for 21 years, been with the same company for 9 years. I have an amazing 13 year old son who is a blast. I love to laugh (big loud laughs not the snickering kind), I love hosting bbq's and dinner parties ( I can cook), and I love being around my friends. If you're an introvert, we probably wouldn't work out. I'm not sure if what I'm looking for exists but if I had to sum it up, it would go like this: Clean cut, tattooed, Harley riding, responsible, family oriented bad ass. Hahaha! I know, stop laughing! ;) Good luck in your search! Coffee, drinks...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Adelynn

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    What to write, what to write?!? Maybe my headline should read perfectly imperfect for a truly genuine nice man. Is that an extinct creature? Do I have a better chance of finding a dodo or a saber tooth tiger than a TGNM? If you want a woman with more baggage than Samsonite, then I'm not her. All of us on this site above, say, 40, have some of it. Some more than others, but we all have our scars and flaws. It would be awesome to meet a TGNM to hang with, go places together, laugh, be silly with and all the good things that come with meeting someone you are compatible and have great chemistry with. I consider myself mostly content, am very close to my family, have friends who have my back, enjoy how I make my living. I am grateful for what I have.) into his life. A man that I can connect with on an intellectual, physical and emotional level. I am definitely not looking for a guy who is in the middle of an online dating buffet. Simply put, I would like to get to know a good man. Getting to know doesn't mean rushing into anything, I am comfortable enough with myself that I enjoy my independence. Not looking to go from meeting you to meeting your kids, friend or parents in no time flat, take it as it comes. Or to borrow a phrase from my 5 year old nephew, easy peasy lemon squeezy :-). Very casual, can be a cup of coffee, lunch, etc.;-)

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