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Tama, 45

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About Me

So I have been trying to figure out why it is so hard to meet and date a man in LA that, has a job, has his own place w/o roommates or parents, has a working vehicle and is just a nice guy and not a douche. Can someone please help me with this question?I'm very active and work a lot but im ready to make time to find my other half. But I also have that quiet side too, that loves to cuddle up and watch a movie with my dog, Gunner.I'm someone that is driven and I know what I want, I just haven't found it (or him) yet.I love to laugh and I do it all the time, so I want a man that has a great personality and loves to laugh as much as I do.I guess you could say that I'm an over achiever, thus my zest for life is exciting. I'm very affectionate and love to cuddle.I love just going to the movies, going to the beach, fishing and anything out in the country. I don't do drama and would appreciate no drama coming into my life.I believe that everyday we are given should be cherished and lived to the fullest. I would like to find someone special to share each day with.I have a big heart and I tend to give it fully and unconditionally to someone that I like. I am looking for a partner in crime who will treat me as an equal and has a bad ass attitude. He's funny, dresses well and knows how to make me laugh and treat a lady.Well, I've said enough about me. If any of this sounds good to you, reply with a message and let's get to know each other. Meet for a drink or coffee at a quiet place so we can talk more and decide if we would like to continue to a more date like setting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Aniyah

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    -stepper, has a cool bike of some sort and likes to get out and feel that open road, throw back a few brews and laugh out loud without any chips sittin' on your shoulder...then maybe you should contact me. I'm looking to have a good time with whomever I'm with, and if the common interests, the attraction, and friendship is really there, then there's a good chance anything can happen! I also enjoy a good time at the lake, walking my dog, watching a good foot/basketball game - Go Jayhawks!, Chiefs - well, we'll see. Always finding good restaurants and meeting new and interesting people is fun. Traveling I do enjoy, just havent had much time for it. I am not even close to your average 40ish, I think I reverted 10 years back...lol, but I am tall - and would prefer my counterpart to be the same or taller. I am a smart, independent, savy, sassy, animal lover, that is down to earth, likes to laugh, learn and try mostly anything new. Ok, maybe not jumping out of an airplane!My goal is to be content in this life that has been given to me, continue to maintain it, and remain stable and secure enjoying all there is to offer. I look for quality and worth, so I don't believe that qualifies me as a high-maintenance chic...lol, and yes I have been there, done that, and am much stronger because of it. I think I know what works now....lol But the past is the past, and that's where it should stay.I'm just looking for that person that shares most of my interests, knows how to balance his life and his finances, has a good upbringing, a fun personality, and can enhance my life *** trying to bring me down or dominate it. Looking for the one that I can let me be comfortable in my own skin, no games, be silly or serious, and just gets it! I'm not much into the pressure of a first date, so I think just meeting for a drink, playing some pool, catching some live music or a ball game would be a great ice-breaker...that way the pressure isn't on us to talk only! The atmosphere would help move a conversation along :)

  • Moreen

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I love to listen to live music and dance. I like to be outside doing anything with my friends and family. I enjoy the water and boating. Cool, fast cars are nice and I love/want to travel more. I am outspoken and have been told I'm very funny. I have a quick wit and a smart mouth(in a good way).I can make friends anywhere and I do (ie...the ladies room). I don't like people who are negative or gossip. I have a positive outlook on life and laugh and joke a lot. I listen to classic rock, country and blues. I really enjoy food and I'm a great cook. I'm honest,caring,loyal, trustworthy & a good friend. I like to hang out with the guys but,I like to get all dressed up and turn a head or two as well! The only things I won't compromise on are common curtiousy and mutual respect!***NOT LOOKING FOR SUGAR DADDY, BOY TOYS OR CASUAL SEX******( Thanks for the offers though guys!!) lol****PRIVACY NOTICE:****Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. Something we both are comfortable with and enjoy...

  • Citlali

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I enjoy coaching, watching my kids play sports, happy hours with my friends, running and long hikes with my dog, anything by the water, cooking, music and concerts, movies, and most of all spending time with my family, My children are the most important aspect of my life and I have dedicated much of it to raising them. Although I don't have one, I think big families are the best thing ever! I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh and have fun. I am more of an extrovert than introvert...and tend to tell it like it is :) I can be sarcastic once I get to know you.... I enjoy helping others, and I believe in karma, but I don't hand money to homeless people on the street. I am open minded, yet a bit conservative. I have a career I enjoy and love the people that I work with. I am comfortable in a board room/fine dining setting, and also have no problem mowing the lawn.... I am a single Mom and don't have any drama with my ex because he is in another state. My kids are old enough to be self-sufficient but they do have busy schedules and I am very involved in their activities. My ideal match would be a family oriented guy, but great at balancing free time so that we could spend alone time on the weekends frequently. I like the guy who can be the bad boy at times ;) Good luck in the pond Anything but a movie.... I think that going dutch on the first date is fair. Its about figuring out if you mesh a little....

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