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Tama, 45

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About Me

So I have been trying to figure out why it is so hard to meet and date a man in LA that, has a job, has his own place w/o roommates or parents, has a working vehicle and is just a nice guy and not a douche. Can someone please help me with this question?I'm very active and work a lot but im ready to make time to find my other half. But I also have that quiet side too, that loves to cuddle up and watch a movie with my dog, Gunner.I'm someone that is driven and I know what I want, I just haven't found it (or him) yet.I love to laugh and I do it all the time, so I want a man that has a great personality and loves to laugh as much as I do.I guess you could say that I'm an over achiever, thus my zest for life is exciting. I'm very affectionate and love to cuddle.I love just going to the movies, going to the beach, fishing and anything out in the country. I don't do drama and would appreciate no drama coming into my life.I believe that everyday we are given should be cherished and lived to the fullest. I would like to find someone special to share each day with.I have a big heart and I tend to give it fully and unconditionally to someone that I like. I am looking for a partner in crime who will treat me as an equal and has a bad ass attitude. He's funny, dresses well and knows how to make me laugh and treat a lady.Well, I've said enough about me. If any of this sounds good to you, reply with a message and let's get to know each other. Meet for a drink or coffee at a quiet place so we can talk more and decide if we would like to continue to a more date like setting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marvis

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a kind and caring person with a well developed sense of humor or goofball with questionable taste, your pick. I tend not to take myself seriously in general, but I love my work and am a driven professional. I know from googling, that men on dating sites really want to know one thing; how much do I weigh? ( it's okay, you can admit it). Huge, by the way....just kidding, or am I?I am a bit naive, wear my heart on my sleeve and always optimistically believe the best of people. I am in a people oriented profession, love them, ( people, I mean), but am introverted in my personal life. Although I am enjoying my singleness, it occurs to me that it would be nice to have a special person to share time, hopes, accomplishments and good news with. I love to laugh and cut up, sometimes to the point of annoying stick- in- the- mud type people. If you are that annoyed person, then you wouldn't like me. I like to be around warm, sincere types. I haven't had much opportunity to meet other singles, I don't go to bars or church, lol ( was that inappropriate?), its okay, Jesus has a sense of humor. Maybe we could get to know each other by exchanging some facts and info, decide if there's a reason to meet. An ideal first date could be at the park, a festival, roller skating, a tattoo shop, a quiet coffee shop or even a library. A first date could be any number of things, only limited by creativity.

  • Deb

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    love to laugh! I joke a lot and can be a smart a$$, but also know when to stop. I’m balanced so I have a serious deep side as well. I have been Divorced for about 14 years so there is no drama there… Not looking for a fling or one night stand rather someone to share life with. Someone strong and sound on their own but ready for something more….. I camp a lot with my family and love the outdoors when it's not ***degrees :) I go to my niece & nephew's basket ball, soccer, and base ball games when I can and love being a part of their lives. What are you looking for?

  • Nerine

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm a no nonsense kind of girl, I'm going to tell you like it is and if you don't like it, move on. I won't string you a long, I'm not here to see how many dinner dates I can get. Thank you... :) I have one daughter who lives on her own. She comes home every now and again to do laundry and have that home cooked meal. laugh... You must be able to laugh at yourself and others... laughter is the key to every good relationship. Well ok, one of the keys. I am looking for my best friend first. Then hoping it will grow into my life partner and lover. I am dedicated 100% to my relationship. I am comfortable with myself and enjoy intimacy with my partner. PDA is a great thing...... A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.I have a great job, enjoy cooking, movies, a nice walk, volunteering with Special Olympics, sporting events, concerts, picnics, family, friends, a nice fire and a good glass of wine. I'm equally happy going out for the night or staying home with a good movie and the love of my life. There are many others, but if I tell them here, we won't have much to talk about. I live a simple clean life. I'm not materialistic or a jealous person. I cannot carry a tune in a bucket, but that doesn't stop me from breaking out in song, while driving of course....... lol.. I do have several tattoos so if this is a problem you should move on.I asked my closest friends to describe me and this is what they came up with: funny, caring, loving. romantic, sarcastic, smart ass. I'm high heels and lipstick Monday-Friday and jeans and a t-shirt on the weekends. I'm a social butterfly, lol... I never meet a stranger. My male friends say I'm curvy but that's not an option...I am by no means a barbie doll, but I do have curves in all the right places. smile..The spaces between my fingers should be filled with yours... I hope to hear from you soon... :) lets decide this one together....

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