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This part of my profile totally baffles me. How do you sum up who you are in a few sentences or paragraphs? Even more, how do you even put it in words? Caring, loving, honest, loyal~~all words that you can use to describe yourself, but the truth is, these things need to be experienced to get the true grasp of who a person is.I tried this a couple years ago, went on a few dates, and it ended there. My friend was on a couple months, met someone and married him 8 months later. A little impetuous for me, but it works for them. I am not specifically looking to get married. I was married, to the wrong person obviously, then I was divorced. We are still really good friends (All family functions include him and his fiancée) so that would have to not be an issue. I still have love for him, but we know we are horrible together.I have a bucket list, or really a “to do “ list.~~that is a BIG one!) It would be nice to find someone who would like to help me mark some of them off i.e. Going to a winery, Going to museums and art galleries, travelling the U.S. I feel that you can be attracted to someone just by talking and getting to know them. And although I don't believe everything has to be based on physical appearance, I do think that there should be some kind of physical attraction, whether it be someone's eyes, smile, or just the way they look in a pair of jeans. lmao. I love to laugh, so a sense of humor is key.FYI: I am not the type of person to message first, so if you would like to start up a conversation, please do. NOTE: I have a good job and have been taking care of myself and my kids for the last 7 years, so I'm not looking for a "Sugar Daddy" but, since my kids are all grown and on their own, I am also not looking to take care of someone else. I believe in equality so it's not unusual for me to pay for a date...besides, that way I don't feel like I "owe" something just because a guy pays for everything, so hopefully that doesn't damage your sense of maleness lol.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Merit

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi Thanks for checking out my profile.... So I just wanna say I am not looking to just date or have a one night stand, if thats what you want please keep looking and good luck. I am a self motivated never stopping woman. I have 2 great kids, both boys who are 18 and 20. They do live at home but are not attached to my hip. I am self employed and do OK for myself. I have 2 large dogs and a cat whom I enjoy very much... Love to take hikes in the mountians or down by the river with the pups. I am an all American Gal... if you dont know what that means ask me and I will tell you :) I love Big Trucks, Fast Cars and Faster Bikes... ( I dont own a bike right now but the time is getting closer to having one again). Also a day on the fireing range is good with me too. I love to cook, so a night in with a good meal and a movie is great with me, but I also love a night out. Live bands, country fairs, long drives to no where, days at the beach. I am looking for the person to spend my life with. I want to share all that I have and have done for myself and share all that you are. It really does take two to make a life.As for music, I am all over the place, I love country, rock, clasic rock, and blues, even some pop and some clasical... Just NO light jazz please ( it makes my skin crawl)OK if you have made it this far... drop me a note and say hi....... First dates can be simple, like meeting for coffee or a drink... or something crazy like paint ball.... You tell me I'm pretty flexible.

  • Moon

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi there, let me start by saying if I check out your profile but don't say anything that doesn't necessarily mean im not interested. I usually like a Guy to make the first move. Every once In a while I may step out of my comfort zone & make first contact but its rare. I hope that doesn't make u over look me. I am definitely worth getting to know ;)Im very real & sincere. No games. I CAN'T STAND LIARS. If you decide we aren't working or you aren't interested then say so,don't lie or ***'s rude. Be honest! Im a simple girl. Not materialistic. I love deeply & appreciate the little things in life that money can't buy. (Hugs, kisses, smiles, holding hands ect. The list is almost endless) I enjoy a lot of activities. Im willing to try new things with a little encouragement & as long as I feel comfortable w/ya. I'm not into being at the bars a lot & I very rarely drink. That's not to say I wouldn't be willing to go out for one or two drinks w/friends or to meet you. Its just that i don't make it a habit.My kids are teenagers but still need a mom until they are old enough to move out so if you can't understand that, im sorry for you & move on. I will definitely make time for someone special just be understanding that sometimes I can't JUMP for you at last minute. My responsibility comes to my kids first but I will make every effort to make all of us, including u, happy.I own my own house. I have a Vehicle. I've never been married. I've been in 2 long term relationships lasting more than 8 yrs each & a few short ones. I've been single for about 3 years now. A few dates here & there but nothing more. Im trying to have some fun but also looking for that "perfect for me" Guy that I can settle down with & spend the rest of my life with. Someone young at heart, full of energy, has a great heartwarming yet mischievous & loving smile, likes to laugh & enjoy life & the little things it offers. I love PDA & the little actions throughout the day that show me im on your mind. (A Good morning or good night text puts a smile on my face EVERY time) If u think we might click say hi. I will warn you....I have a bit of a shy personality but im sure if you're right for me you can pull me out of it & we'll get along great! BTW.....Please have a pic. Not only do I want to see if there is a physical attraction but I like to see who im talking to : ) thanks a bunch! Ttys Lets meet, say hi, take a walk, go for a drink. Something relaxed and short to start off with. Then we'll go from there.

  • Jules

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    It's hard to tell in advance, but I usually like people who are well-educated or over-educated, who are creative and artistic or appreciate arts and culture, who are not at all interested in motorcycles or trucks, who hardly ever or never wear hats, who get tired of bars easily, who are slow to anger, who are passionate but not insane, who are law abiding, and who are outgoing and make friends easily. I appreciate a good sense of humor.I'm on this site looking for a partner. I guess that could start with meeting a smart, funny guy who would like to go out on the weekends. I enjoy going to parties, cultural activities, good movies. I like to stay active. I go to the gym daily, sing in a classical choir, like to travel when I get the chance. I like the outdoors when it's nice out, especially the lake. I don't like the country, weeds, or extremely hot weather. I have one brilliant daughter in middle school and she lives with me. I've been divorced for several years.I always see the best in people and find the positive side of situations -- it's important to me to find someone with a similar view. We can meet for coffee or a drink.

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