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About Me

HiYa (NJ Locals PLEASE),I'm a girl that likes thick sarcasm, wit and humor. I can be a bit of a hater sometimes (c'mon, I'm from NJ!), when I'm cranky, but for the most part, I'm very giving and always willing to help out. Except if you're moving. Then I'm very busy that weekend. At this point in my life, I'd much prefer to be around people that are honest, direct and sincere.-coated half-truth. Of course, if you intentionally hurt my feelings, I'll have to junk punch ya and cut your ATM card in 1/2. :)At the end of the day, I like things simple. Definitely not a fan of drama - baggage - jealousy - immaturity. Having fun together, talking & laughing, drinking coffee and being by the beach are really the main things I want right now. Ok, maybe a glass or 2 of wine is something else I want right now. Seriously. Like RIGHT NOW. **I do want a relationship AT SOME POINT, but that's something that has to happen naturally. It doesn't happen ***, so let's just see how things flow.**Oh. Ya GOTTA love animals. I have a cat and a dog, and they are kind of like my kids. They're not bratty and they don't usually talk back to me, but they do come with this package. So, if you don't like them, then you don't like me.2 Sticking Points:1. PLEASE write to me using some sort of punctuation recognized by the English language. If your spelling sucks, I'm ok with it, but trying to decipher sentences from each other frustrates me, and I'll just stop reading. True story.2. I don't want to have children, and I would prefer to date a man without children as well. I've been by myself for a long time, and I'm ok with it, but I'd like to find someone to walk through life with. I mean, my other option is to just start collecting cats... now...HAVE FUN & good luck! Cheers. Something that allows us to talk...LAUGH.... maybe hold hands... and perhaps even steal a kiss. :) If nothing else, we can go to Walmart, people-watch and try to be stealth in getting a picture so we can show people photos from our first date... YIKES!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ara

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    What's with all of the drama? People are really putting too much thought into all of this. I don't want to "complete" you. I'm kind of looking for someone who's already complete. A friend! Maybe more...someday. I'm a divorced mom of a 14 yr old daughter. I volunteer a lot of my time, which I enjoy very much. I'm good with hanging out at home, as long as it's comfy & fun. I also like to travel, read, write, hang out with friends, cook, go to the movies, theater, museums... I don't like clubs; I like pubs... I love music & there's not a lot I won't listen to; not really into classical or rap. I love to go to concerts or bars with live music. I'm pretty laid back not into game playing; just looking for a friend to hang out & enjoy life, with the hope that maybe that can grow into more. I think a 1st date should be fun; a chance to talk & get to know each other but with fun distractions. It should be a chance to share an experience without pressure.

  • Zinnia

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I would have to describe myself as the girl next door type. After all, I do live next door to someone! I am someone who gets excited about the simple things in life. I like to enjoy every day, no matter what I am doing. I would like to find someone that relishes the good things in life. There is fun to be had somewhere every day!I'm a country girl at heart who is currently living in a city! I am loving, loyal, affectionate and good humored. I love to laugh and find humor in everyday life. I am honest to a fault. I can be quite shy at first but warm up quickly.I am looking for someone with a sense of adventure who likes to try new things. Someone who appreciates life and living.Someone who is honest and open. I would like a honest relationship with good communication. No games. I am a good listener and a good friend. Looking for something more. Someone to celebrate life with me. Someone to cook dinner with while we talk about our day. I will even do the dishes!I have a wonderful daughter who is twelve years old who will always come first in my life. I also have a dog. Not a little yappy lap dog, a real dog. Any questions just askAlmost forgot! I do not have a 9 to 5 job, I work some holidays and most weekends, I am home early and I come home in a good mood (almost always). If my schedule is a problem for you then I am sorry, but it won't change Surprise me! You get bonus points for originality

  • Gema

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a fun loving individual that likes to venture out and try new things. There are so many things I would like to do like zip line,learn to scuba dive. Im a happy person and I am very social and love to meet new people. Im caring, kind and passionate. I like all kinds of music and love to attend live theatre. It has its pros and cons. I am looking for someone special not a one night stand. Someone I can be there best friend and hopefully leads to a romantic whirlwind. I am very sensual and affectionate to my special someone. I love to hug and kiss. Im not looking for Mr. Right Now***Im looking for Mr. Forever!!! I would like to get married!! BTW-Im a curvy girl and I know how to use them!!! lol I just want someone to love and love me back!!!!Please note: I am not looking for a one night stand or a hook up for sex! So if thats what you are looking for keep looking! Thank you!Updated photos to come!!! Hmmm the first date....well I guess the standard is usually meeting at a coffee shop or be creative together!!!Carpe Diem

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