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About Me

HiYa (NJ Locals PLEASE),I'm a girl that likes thick sarcasm, wit and humor. I can be a bit of a hater sometimes (c'mon, I'm from NJ!), when I'm cranky, but for the most part, I'm very giving and always willing to help out. Except if you're moving. Then I'm very busy that weekend. At this point in my life, I'd much prefer to be around people that are honest, direct and sincere.-coated half-truth. Of course, if you intentionally hurt my feelings, I'll have to junk punch ya and cut your ATM card in 1/2. :)At the end of the day, I like things simple. Definitely not a fan of drama - baggage - jealousy - immaturity. Having fun together, talking & laughing, drinking coffee and being by the beach are really the main things I want right now. Ok, maybe a glass or 2 of wine is something else I want right now. Seriously. Like RIGHT NOW. **I do want a relationship AT SOME POINT, but that's something that has to happen naturally. It doesn't happen ***, so let's just see how things flow.**Oh. Ya GOTTA love animals. I have a cat and a dog, and they are kind of like my kids. They're not bratty and they don't usually talk back to me, but they do come with this package. So, if you don't like them, then you don't like me.2 Sticking Points:1. PLEASE write to me using some sort of punctuation recognized by the English language. If your spelling sucks, I'm ok with it, but trying to decipher sentences from each other frustrates me, and I'll just stop reading. True story.2. I don't want to have children, and I would prefer to date a man without children as well. I've been by myself for a long time, and I'm ok with it, but I'd like to find someone to walk through life with. I mean, my other option is to just start collecting cats... now...HAVE FUN & good luck! Cheers. Something that allows us to talk...LAUGH.... maybe hold hands... and perhaps even steal a kiss. :) If nothing else, we can go to Walmart, people-watch and try to be stealth in getting a picture so we can show people photos from our first date... YIKES!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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  • Sherika

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    PLEASE NO IM'S ..sorryPLEASE HAVE A PHOTO IN YOUR PROFILE...IT'S ONLY FAIR TO SHARE...no pic no responseI am a single mom of 2 great kids. I am from CT..I love the beach( my favorite place to be).... I love to dance, Reggae, old school hip hop, dancehall, love to cook. entertain. hang out. watch movies...so many other things....I'm very independent, love to laugh, joke around, smile all the time and have fun....very easy going and very out going,strong willed, honest, dependable,smart, sexy, easy to get along with....( well most of the time lol)I work 2 jobs ( Analyst is my fulltime job and I bartend on the weekends) ...so my life is all about spontaneity, my philosophy is "if there is a will, there is a way". If you are interested in someone, there is always a way...but it works both ways. You get what you give. At least that's the hope.On a real note I'm not sure 100% what I am looking for... I guess just getting a feel for people, and see what happens. I am not rushing into anything, No need to settle for mediocre, keep it real and no games....It is about chemistry ( mind, body and soul)....it is needed to thrive in a relationship.I prefer Black or mixed men and I have a thing for Bald heads and Nice teeth...**** My life long goal****. ) and to open a flower shop or maybe even a bar/club there....Or get to the city and open a clothing store for plus size women. with trendy, sexy clothing. :***\\***Please Place***\\\***This Ribbon On***Your BPM Page If***Someone You ***Know Is Fighting***\\\***Cancer Or You've***\\***Lost Someone To***\***Cancer.***\\\***Cures Start ***\\\---With Us...

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