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About Me

HiYa (NJ Locals PLEASE),I'm a girl that likes thick sarcasm, wit and humor. I can be a bit of a hater sometimes (c'mon, I'm from NJ!), when I'm cranky, but for the most part, I'm very giving and always willing to help out. Except if you're moving. Then I'm very busy that weekend. At this point in my life, I'd much prefer to be around people that are honest, direct and sincere.-coated half-truth. Of course, if you intentionally hurt my feelings, I'll have to junk punch ya and cut your ATM card in 1/2. :)At the end of the day, I like things simple. Definitely not a fan of drama - baggage - jealousy - immaturity. Having fun together, talking & laughing, drinking coffee and being by the beach are really the main things I want right now. Ok, maybe a glass or 2 of wine is something else I want right now. Seriously. Like RIGHT NOW. **I do want a relationship AT SOME POINT, but that's something that has to happen naturally. It doesn't happen ***, so let's just see how things flow.**Oh. Ya GOTTA love animals. I have a cat and a dog, and they are kind of like my kids. They're not bratty and they don't usually talk back to me, but they do come with this package. So, if you don't like them, then you don't like me.2 Sticking Points:1. PLEASE write to me using some sort of punctuation recognized by the English language. If your spelling sucks, I'm ok with it, but trying to decipher sentences from each other frustrates me, and I'll just stop reading. True story.2. I don't want to have children, and I would prefer to date a man without children as well. I've been by myself for a long time, and I'm ok with it, but I'd like to find someone to walk through life with. I mean, my other option is to just start collecting cats... now...HAVE FUN & good luck! Cheers. Something that allows us to talk...LAUGH.... maybe hold hands... and perhaps even steal a kiss. :) If nothing else, we can go to Walmart, people-watch and try to be stealth in getting a picture so we can show people photos from our first date... YIKES!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Antonietta

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am back. I enjoy doing many different things. Im am kind of an up for anything kinda girl. The things i enjoy the most, the gym, harleys, the beach, BBQ's with family and friends. Adventures of anykind:) I love to dance, music of all kinds. Winter is probably my least favorite season...im a beach lover. I enjoy a challenge, its good to push the boundries of your abilities now and then. I am pretty out going, having said I enjoy relaxing on the couch with a good movie playing now and then too. Family is very important to me so family time is a must as well. I guess if you wanna find out more about me, you will have to ask me yourself :)

  • Jamee

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I have an amazing job that I love and look forward to every day. I love good food (sushi, steak), good music ( Adele, Stones),good wine (malbec,Champagne), and good company (all my crazy friends). I really enjoy trying new restaurants. I'm an aspiring foodie. I love my dog, Fifi. I've been lucky enough to do amazing things, go to amazing places, meet amazing people, and have a near-endless amount of amazing experiences. I don't plan to change that, either! I'm fairly analytical and balance my check book every month. I love to volunteer for groups that earn money for worthwhile events. In the past year, I've dressed up as a showgirl, Scarlette O'Hara and Amy Winehouse for just such events. Being an aspiring foodie, I try to have balance, in that, I work out often enough to offset the calories. My job is very important to me because I believe in the company I work for. Who wouldn't? One of our mottos is, "Work as hard as we play & Play as hard as we work".I'm not a fan of the bathroom self portraits. Come on guys, don't you have anyone who would take the pic for you? Also, I have no interest in hookups or single serving friends. If that's your thing, please skip me.But enough about me, let's talk about you? Cocktails on a lake, exceptional food, small bar with a great band and dancing like no one is watching; or KISS (Keep it Simple Silly)

  • Janay

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Honestly didn't plan on being on a site like this, but life happens and I find myself back in the dating scene after 19 years. I don't want to seem shallow, however the rest of my Life is going to be the Best of my life, so I want what I want, not settling for less then that. If that offends you, well I am really sorry.. I would rather be alone then waste anymore time with the wrong man, life's too short and I'm not getting any younger!! My Family, My dog, Honesty, Music are the most important things for me... I'm not interested in men Under 35 or over 48, men that are more then a few pounds over weight, or dating out of my Race, however, I'm not a raciest. I'm not big on Sports, I can and will watch on occasion, but I would rather entertain with the wife's then actually watch! I've been to a few Nascar races and had a great time, but I don't make a habit of watching the race every Sunday. I am responsible, try to always do the right thing even if no one is watching, I am hard working, easy going, loyal and supportive.. I can be sarcastic, I can dish it out, but I can also take it. I'm goofy and a little Naive, but I think that's due to honesty! I believe that laughter is the best medicine!! My kids, Holidays with Family, My dogs, Country Music, Southern Rock & I do like Eminem, Harley's, Tattoo's, Muscle Cars, Big Trucks, Cowboys, Gentleman, Cold beer, Hot Wings, Food in general, Cooking, Eating out, The Beach, Amusement Parks, Camping are some of my favorite thingsI really love the fact that my kids are now old enough to party with, however I do miss them being small and wouldn't not objected to dating a man with younger children. Would love to learn Country Line dancing, so if you have an interest, maybe we could make ass's out of ourselves together? At the least would be a good laugh! Please don't mistake my honesty for Bitc**ness! If you still decided to contact me, well I guess I couldn't have offended you too much! Happy Fishing.... :) Some place quit, a few drinks, maybe dinner? Depends on the vibe & connection.

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