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HiYa (NJ Locals PLEASE),I'm a girl that likes thick sarcasm, wit and humor. I can be a bit of a hater sometimes (c'mon, I'm from NJ!), when I'm cranky, but for the most part, I'm very giving and always willing to help out. Except if you're moving. Then I'm very busy that weekend. At this point in my life, I'd much prefer to be around people that are honest, direct and sincere.-coated half-truth. Of course, if you intentionally hurt my feelings, I'll have to junk punch ya and cut your ATM card in 1/2. :)At the end of the day, I like things simple. Definitely not a fan of drama - baggage - jealousy - immaturity. Having fun together, talking & laughing, drinking coffee and being by the beach are really the main things I want right now. Ok, maybe a glass or 2 of wine is something else I want right now. Seriously. Like RIGHT NOW. **I do want a relationship AT SOME POINT, but that's something that has to happen naturally. It doesn't happen ***, so let's just see how things flow.**Oh. Ya GOTTA love animals. I have a cat and a dog, and they are kind of like my kids. They're not bratty and they don't usually talk back to me, but they do come with this package. So, if you don't like them, then you don't like me.2 Sticking Points:1. PLEASE write to me using some sort of punctuation recognized by the English language. If your spelling sucks, I'm ok with it, but trying to decipher sentences from each other frustrates me, and I'll just stop reading. True story.2. I don't want to have children, and I would prefer to date a man without children as well. I've been by myself for a long time, and I'm ok with it, but I'd like to find someone to walk through life with. I mean, my other option is to just start collecting cats... now...HAVE FUN & good luck! Cheers. Something that allows us to talk...LAUGH.... maybe hold hands... and perhaps even steal a kiss. :) If nothing else, we can go to Walmart, people-watch and try to be stealth in getting a picture so we can show people photos from our first date... YIKES!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I enjoy coaching, watching my kids play sports, happy hours with my friends, running and long hikes with my dog, anything by the water, cooking, music and concerts, movies, and most of all spending time with my family, My children are the most important aspect of my life and I have dedicated much of it to raising them. Although I don't have one, I think big families are the best thing ever! I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh and have fun. I am more of an extrovert than introvert...and tend to tell it like it is :) I can be sarcastic once I get to know you.... I enjoy helping others, and I believe in karma, but I don't hand money to homeless people on the street. I am open minded, yet a bit conservative. I have a career I enjoy and love the people that I work with. I am comfortable in a board room/fine dining setting, and also have no problem mowing the lawn.... I am a single Mom and don't have any drama with my ex because he is in another state. My kids are old enough to be self-sufficient but they do have busy schedules and I am very involved in their activities. My ideal match would be a family oriented guy, but great at balancing free time so that we could spend alone time on the weekends frequently. I like the guy who can be the bad boy at times ;) Good luck in the pond Anything but a movie.... I think that going dutch on the first date is fair. Its about figuring out if you mesh a little....

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