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Joslyn, 44

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About Me

Hi, I'm a friendly, fun, down to earth woman who loves nature and almost any outdoor activity as well as city life. I enjoy gardening, cooking, concerts, dancing, skiing, canoeing, biking, fishing, hiking, and camping. I read alot and watch PBS more than any other channel. I have great friends and family that I do lot of activities with. I'm creative, handy and am trying to make a living as a designer - landscape and cabinetry but I work other jobs when I have too. :/ Lately I've had a burning notion to move to a farm so if your a farmer - yahoo! In the past I've run marathons and done triathlons but would like to switch up to adventures like kayaking around the shores of Lake Superior when the kids are grown and on their own. However, I've also been a single mom for the past 14 years. Four teenagers. Yup four. I need a night out once in a while!!! Ultimately I'm looking for someone who has similar passions and also wants that special woman to share a life with, a partner, a lover and best friend. Someone solid, true, family oriented, adventurous and can keep up with me. The best is yet to come come baby!I heard this saying once that pretty much sums it up for me: "Don't waste your time on a man who isn't willing to waste his time with you.";Sometimes I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure, I make mistakes and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." Thanks for reading and good luck finding that special woman!!PS I'm actually a 42 year old Libra, if that matters to you - my friend set this profile up for me with the wrong birth date and I can't change it now. Quick lunch or drink after work. If we like each other, the second date is the fun one. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kalie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Love the outdoors,trying new things,traveling & most of all a good challenge.Want 2 find someone who's not into playing games.Im an open book & would like 2 find someone like that also.Even though I love outdoors stuff I still like the romance side 2 every now & then.2 some it up I just would like someone real & not fake.Ive got a big heart I would love 2 show that 2 someone special. Get 2 know u better

  • Wendy

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    After a 17 yr marriage, it's time to rediscover myself. I have two amazing teenagers who keep me busy. But now, it's time to squeeze in some fun for myself, in between my busy lifestyle with my kids. One thing I don't tolerate: LYING.....hence, my impending divorce (which is taking longer than I ever thought possible). I've been separated for nearly 10 months (although I've been emotionally separated for many years) and am ready to move on with my life. What am I interested in? Maybe I should first list what I'm not interested in: old men with beer guts, biker dudes, farmers and cowboys, heavily tattooed men with ear gauges, fat men, men with long-hair, ZZ Top beards, men with gold teeth, nerds. IF ANY OF THESE DESCRIBE YOU, I WILL NOT REPLY TO YOUR MESSAGES. I have high standards, although not looking for perfection....just the perfect man for me. Things I like to do: I love to sing, go dancing, and love sporting events, except for NASCAR (which isn't a sport). I love running or playing anything competitive.! I'm a determined ball of fire and can compete with the best! What I want: I want a relationship with someone who is mature, respectful, full of conversation, even-tempered, accepting of my kids (ages 12 & 15), stable, passionate and attractive to me. No relationship should ever be exhausting. BTW, I'm learning that when men state they are "wanting a relationship," most of the time, that means a sexual relationship only. And I'm not interested in that alone. In addition, I am NOT looking for just a hot sexting/phone sex relationship. I deserve a real dating relationship that could potentially grow into something more. Anything less than that is not acceptable. Favorite music: R&B, pop music, smooth jazz, blues, contemporary Christian music. Turn-offs: Stupidity; excessively tattooed bodies; excessive facial hair; smokers; improper English (it's "you were", not "you was"); quiet men; hot tempers; lying; extremely hairy bodies; outdoorsmen; out-of-shape men; cowboys. In addition, if you don't know how to spell your profession, you're probably not going to be a good match. It's supervisor, not superviser. Also, note in a previous sentence how I used your and you're properly. ;-)Postscript: Messaging me for the first time "Mmmmm..." does not make a good first impression. And neither does the generic introduction, "Hi, how are you today?" Nor does the question, "Had any luck on here?" Be creative and make me smile! Please give me a reason to leave this site behind! Surprise me!

  • Janelle

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am not sure what all to put on here... I am a mother of 3. I also have a daughter in law and a grandbaby. I am kinda shy. I absolutely love the beach. It is my passion. I feel completely at peace there. I am looking for someone who has a sense of humor and doesn't take life too seriously. I am not looking for just sex. I do not do drugs of any kind. I am very kind hearted. I am honest (to a fault sometimes). I was married for 16 years and I married and had children young. So I have not experienced a whole lot in life as far as dating goes. It is all very new and, actually, kinda intimidating to me. I am in the process of rebuilding my life right now.I am looking to date and see what happens. I eventually hope to marry again if I find the right one. But I am in no rush to make that happen. I am looking to find someone that I am compatible with. Someone to spend time with and enjoy the company of. I love to cuddle up on the couch and watch a movie together. I don't mind going out either. I am pretty open to most anything. I am very easygoing and generally happy. I love to laugh. I'm very easy to get along with. I love to photograph nature. Well I am sure I have bored you to death by now if you have actually read all this. I wish you great luck in your fishing adventures! :-) If I haven't bored you too bad and you have any interest...drop me a line and I will return the favor. HAPPY FISHING!! :-) Meeting somewhere in public. Maybe the beach or for a drink somewhere. I'm open to suggestions. Just meeting somewhere we can talk and get to know eachother a little.

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