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Ethelyn, 45

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I do not date out of my race, thank you to those who have messages me but I have to be true to who I am and that's just not for me. Please don't send me hate mail and tell me I'm narrow minded or a racist, I'm not I just don't have an affinity for black men as they do for white women. Please for the love of GOD when you write me have something more to say than Hi, that will surely get your message deleted it shows no imagination and means you don't know what to talk about so what would you talk about in person? I've been told my profile sounds angry or is mean.......I'm neither of the two but I will say this, I am not here to blow smoke up anyone's..., It won't impress me to see pictures with your shirt off or lifting weights what will impress me is if you can hold a real intelligent conversation without using slangs and talking like a thug, I am real and not superficial, I don't give a crap if you make 200K or 60K a year it's not about the money, I'm not looking for my sugar daddy, I wasn't brought up that way so it truly wouldn't phase me if I had it. It's more about building a relationship with someone who understand me and doesn't try to change me, loves that I am the way I am because maybe just maybe you guys need someone to challenge you also, it's no fun if someone is always giving in, There sometimes has to be a little banter back and forth. I could say anything I wanted about myself but you will have to figure it all out when we speak on the phone, I am not a person who believe an entire conversation should be had through a text message. This is the problem with society today no one wants to speak to each, I will say this if you have anger issues or *** drop of a hat please do not contact me. I am a happy go lucky person, I do what ever I want when ever I want, I have not answered to anyone in 10 years, if you want to go with me by all means come along but please do not tell me I'm white trash or my friends are or the town I live in is, I surround myself with decent honest people who work as hard as I do and they have my back in every situation! We get together often because they are my family. We love to build fire pits and laugh and get silly or sometimes over serve ourselves but we are a great group and thick as thieves.I am considered full figured, thick etc what ever society labels me, if you can't look past my curves into my heart shame on you, I guess you will be very cold this winter! I'm pretty easy going and can be opinionated usually because I'm fairly certain of what I speak of but I have been known to be wrong from time to time and lately my judgement in people has been a little off but I'm back on track now and will not settle for anything less than what I give of myself, I guess you will have to get to know me to find out what that is..... I hope you are strong enough to message me, I have a strong personality in need of a strong man, don't be intimidated be intrigued! Ciao for now! Here are some things I enjoy doing so I will leave it up to you to be imaginative, again that is if you are strong enough to ask me out..... I love going to the beach even in October when the weather is warm walking the beach in jeans and sweaters and no shoes on holding hands and talking about anything and everything and sitting on the beach watching the sun go down. I enjoy fireplaces, making smores and feeding each other with candles lit all over the room, no TV just talking learning about each other. I enjoy going to quaint bars and listening to really good bar bands, I follow two because they are all friends of mine, Under a Ton and Who Wants What, so that's pretty much it, I am a very easy going person and would love to meet someone who is not interested in overbearing me or intimidating me or trying to change me, I am very content with the person I am, I am loved by allot of people because of the person I am but I am only looking to love one person and show him the person I can be and will be with him. Enjoy your day, I will look forward to hearing from you. D

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a very sweet , caring and funny girl . I love outdoor activities and new adventures .I have gone kayaking and would love to do that more this summer...its very relaxing . Some of the things i enjoy are camping,hiking,going for walks,kayaking,rafting,bike riding,weekend trips. I love going up north to the mountains....walking and looking for animals. I also love going to the beach...soaking up the sun :) and snorkling . I like doing weekend trips and staying at bed and breakfasts. I am a person who likes to help others and make people happy. I would rather give presents then recieve them. I have an 8 year old daughter and she is a sweet heart. I am looking for a kind, honest and funny man that enjoys outdoor activites,going to movies and just trying new things. I have a very sarcastic sense of humor ... But it's all in good fun :-) coffee, a walk , meet for a drink .

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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