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Ethelyn, 45

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I do not date out of my race, thank you to those who have messages me but I have to be true to who I am and that's just not for me. Please don't send me hate mail and tell me I'm narrow minded or a racist, I'm not I just don't have an affinity for black men as they do for white women. Please for the love of GOD when you write me have something more to say than Hi, that will surely get your message deleted it shows no imagination and means you don't know what to talk about so what would you talk about in person? I've been told my profile sounds angry or is mean.......I'm neither of the two but I will say this, I am not here to blow smoke up anyone's..., It won't impress me to see pictures with your shirt off or lifting weights what will impress me is if you can hold a real intelligent conversation without using slangs and talking like a thug, I am real and not superficial, I don't give a crap if you make 200K or 60K a year it's not about the money, I'm not looking for my sugar daddy, I wasn't brought up that way so it truly wouldn't phase me if I had it. It's more about building a relationship with someone who understand me and doesn't try to change me, loves that I am the way I am because maybe just maybe you guys need someone to challenge you also, it's no fun if someone is always giving in, There sometimes has to be a little banter back and forth. I could say anything I wanted about myself but you will have to figure it all out when we speak on the phone, I am not a person who believe an entire conversation should be had through a text message. This is the problem with society today no one wants to speak to each, I will say this if you have anger issues or *** drop of a hat please do not contact me. I am a happy go lucky person, I do what ever I want when ever I want, I have not answered to anyone in 10 years, if you want to go with me by all means come along but please do not tell me I'm white trash or my friends are or the town I live in is, I surround myself with decent honest people who work as hard as I do and they have my back in every situation! We get together often because they are my family. We love to build fire pits and laugh and get silly or sometimes over serve ourselves but we are a great group and thick as thieves.I am considered full figured, thick etc what ever society labels me, if you can't look past my curves into my heart shame on you, I guess you will be very cold this winter! I'm pretty easy going and can be opinionated usually because I'm fairly certain of what I speak of but I have been known to be wrong from time to time and lately my judgement in people has been a little off but I'm back on track now and will not settle for anything less than what I give of myself, I guess you will have to get to know me to find out what that is..... I hope you are strong enough to message me, I have a strong personality in need of a strong man, don't be intimidated be intrigued! Ciao for now! Here are some things I enjoy doing so I will leave it up to you to be imaginative, again that is if you are strong enough to ask me out..... I love going to the beach even in October when the weather is warm walking the beach in jeans and sweaters and no shoes on holding hands and talking about anything and everything and sitting on the beach watching the sun go down. I enjoy fireplaces, making smores and feeding each other with candles lit all over the room, no TV just talking learning about each other. I enjoy going to quaint bars and listening to really good bar bands, I follow two because they are all friends of mine, Under a Ton and Who Wants What, so that's pretty much it, I am a very easy going person and would love to meet someone who is not interested in overbearing me or intimidating me or trying to change me, I am very content with the person I am, I am loved by allot of people because of the person I am but I am only looking to love one person and show him the person I can be and will be with him. Enjoy your day, I will look forward to hearing from you. D

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Okay... second time around on meetville -I have recently updated my profile, although the description of myself has not changed, I felt out of fairness to you, and me, I should really include what I am looking for. :o) First a little about me. I am a fitness buff. I have worked out for 20 plus years and enjoy doing so.You don't need to have that same level of affection, but you must take care of yourself. If you can't respect your own temple, you certainly won't respect mine. :o) To follow that , I eat very well, and due to that fact, I actually find enjoyment in grocery shopping. I also enjoy camping, hiking, flea-marketing, thrifting, love a good wine and checking out new places to go for eats. Dancing, a good night out dancing, oh yeah, not only that, its GREAT excersise. I have a set of great friends *** this point in my life , my gals, and enjoy meeting up w/ them *** times to chew the fat.I have a deep affection for motorcycles, and when spring is in the air, you will find me on one. Would be great If you ride as well, so *** times I can find myself on your's . Note, this is not a deal breaker , but certainly worth mentioning. I am looking for someone who is diverse in what they will do in terms of their spare time. No more, "sorry, I don't like to do that", attitude for me. Life is too short! You must have some drive, diversity, life skills, people skills. I LOVE to watch the news . as it keeps me connected w/ what is going on in the world. Please come to the table w/ some social skills. I mean If i ask you "did you watch the State of Union Address" and you're like "what".. "what's that ", this is not going to work. I am not being mean , but there is no commonality there, and that's what we are looking for right? I've achieved various goals in my life, but I truly believe we should "stretch" ourselves on a daily basis, so my goals change as life changes. I volunteer when and where I can and find it GIVES back in so many ways TEN FOLD. I aspire to be the best person I can possibly be for me, god, my family and friends. My family, my friends and my spirituality have carried me through some very difficult times, so Its important to me that I always try to the right thing whenever possible. I go to church on Sunday, not every , but as much as possible. I'm not a holy roller but please believe in something. I enjoy spending time w/ my family, so you will have to as well. No , not like sleep-overs...!! Just normal stuff that some are opposed to. If you fall into that category, please don't bother. I am not jealous person, I am very secure , and expect the same of my partner. One more time - expect the same of my partner. Okay, I think that's clear enough. LOL I can appreciate all kinds of music and listen to Adelle when irritated. Aahh.. the voice of an angel. Other than that, I'm very regimented Sunday through Thursday , up w/ the birds, down w/ the sun. Yep, you got it. Come Friday and Saturday , my belief is moderation is key, as I like to enjoy lifeLast but not least, please have your own place...THAT would not be defined as the room you grew up in as a child. Don't laugh , it happens. Sorry to those who fall into that footprint. I know times are tough, but that's when you dig in. I won't do "sleep-overs" in a room that you grew up in as a child. Isn't going to happen. Look forward to chatting. Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails. 1 Corinthians 13:***Well, i'm open to about anything , EXCEPT, sitting on your grandmothers couch watching a movie. :O) Don't laugh, some people feel thats a first date. If that interpretation falls within your mindset, please, ask someone else. I'm open to new things, so don't be afraid to ask... respectably please. :o) I'm a grown woman - so treat me as one. Good Luck - xoxo CIAO

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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  • Michael

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I like to do things outdoors and I will try anything once. I like to hike, work out, movies, listen to music, cook and talk. Not looking for a sugar daddy or anyone to take care of me. I have my own job and cars.... You know gentleman.. just be a gentleman.. act like one.. all woman don't want to carry on a sexting conversation... or numerous *** you are looking for a compassionate, sweet, funny, honest down to earth woman, you have met her. I am not looking to get married or jump right into bed with you.. Just wanting to be respected for who I am and what I have to offer. Dinner, Movies, Sporting Event, Coffee. Conversation

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