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Opal, 45

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About Me

I'm a fun loving, affectionate, genuine, compassionate girl, nothing fake about me. Laughing with family and friends is always good for my soul. Outdoors is where I'd rather be if you ask me. Walking, biking, gardening, picnicing, time at the beach... I love feeling the warmth of the sun on my face. The simple things in life work for me. After all, the best things in life are not things ;-). I'm waiting for a genuine,honest, loving, compassionate, kind hearted guy with integrity (first and foremost) to share a life. I don't think we're are meant to be only one, why then would there be man and woman, two? I am different, I admit, but, aren't we all? I'm looking for a best friend, someone who cares enough to take the time to really know who I am. Not someone to take care of me, but to care about me. I have two beautiful teen age daughters who have kept me busy for the past 18 years. They are growing up quickly and are beginning to have their own lives, and will soon be on the way to taking off on their own. Now, I get to start a life too. I'm looking for someone who is willing to share themselves entirely with me. ...Everyone we meet will have some kind of baggage. I'm looking for someone who is willing to allow me to unpack, listen and understand, as I will do the same for them.I have to be honest, I'm not into motor cycles, or mustaches :-/ If your looking to hop right into bed, please don't message me. ...Something special is worth the wait. And, Honestly, I have a very low tolerance for games.Best Wishes! Not sure what's best really... perhaps first to meet for, tea/coffee/drinks to see if there is a connection, or a walk in the park. To chat, and see if there are things we may have in common, ...or maybe we are from two totally different universes? Who knows. It's all good!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shani

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi there! :)A little about me...I am positive, happy, active, confident, independent, spontaneous and love to try new things and meet new people. I enjoy being active and bike, hike, swim and go to the gym regularly. Always up for a good glass of wine, grilling with friends, a football game, or snuggling on the couch watching a movie. I've traveled extensively in my personal and professional life and have had the opportunity to experience some incredible places. There are still lots of places to explore. Let's put our lists together and be adventurous.I am looking for a man who is active, confident, intelligent, has a positive outlook, and likes to have fun. I look forward to meeting the right person to laugh with and enjoy life. A cute smile is a bonus and will definitely make me melt. :) I'm up for anything. What we do on the first date isn't as important as the opportunity to explore our chemistry together.

  • Aniyah

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm looking to get to know someone first, not rush right into a serious relationship. I really hope to meet someone with an infectious smile and who is happy in general that sees the glass half full.I enjoy the movies, cars, motorcycles/ ATVs, dining, watching some sports, cooking, volunteer work, and gathering with friends. Music.. I'll just break that down because I love it and it varies from 80s hair bands & 90s alternative to the modern stuff, some classical, celtic, and classic rock; I don't do rap at all, it depends on which punk era, and country is ok for you but hasn't grown on me yet. Tattoos...so many to love but none of my own, yet, simply because I can't choose. Piercings..some are ok, everywhere=not. I have an honest & faithful heart, free spirit personality and I like to steer clear of the foofoo drama crowds. I'm casual and comfortable, prefer beer over wine, and know how to take care of myself but it's great to share life with others ;) I'm a work in progress at the gym with coming off a complicated shoulder injury.First impression of me might be a bit shy or reserved but when I crack, you'll find someone that loves to laugh and have a good time, with a twist of sarcasm (who, me? never). I'm not into the bar and dancing scenes anymore; I’m just a casual lady with a laid back life looking for someone to spend it with. I'm a West Coast transplant so distance isn't a major concern of mine-I'm used to commutes...lol. Why limit yourself to a zone when your soul mate cold be anywhere? My kids are grown but yours are fine; not interested in physically having more myself. Honesty is a must; if that’s not your style then please pass on by. Guys-I'm not into the games & drama, serial daters, or those desiring to have an online/texting relationships-I expect to see & know the real you. And if you like to hunt animals, I’m sorry but it’s not for me-so that’s up to you to decide, but I personally won't partake in it. I think attraction is a big part of chemistry, BUT it is not limited to just appearance; it has to come from within as much as it does from the surface. Things in common are great, but I believe everyone needs their differences too. I have my tried & trues, but I'm also open to exploring & learning new experiences.My ideal man knows what he wants and is comfortable with whom he is and where he's headed. He can talk openly with me about anything (later on) but also enjoys quiet time together and/or apart. He is gracious, yet fun and knows when to be which; comfortable in his own skin, but can dress it up on occasion; compassionate with others; loves animals & nature; cares about himself, but doesn’t obsess about it. He is open to continual growth and can commit to a transparent relationship; takes responsibility for his choices, but learns from them as well (we all make mistakes).Questions, want to know more, chat & see where it goes? Then you have to make that step to let me know ;) Good luck in your search! Open for discussion-too many choices. Somewhere comfortable for both to meet, grab a coffee or drink & then take it from there

  • Madelene

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I have been married twice and just ended a 5 year relationship last November. I'm not looking to get married again. I just want to date and have fun. I'm not ready for anything serious right now. I have two grown kids. My oldest is in the navy. My youngest is in college. I think I'm pretty funny, I'm always cracking myself up with some corny remark. I love to laugh and if you're funny that's a huge plus! I like to watch movies, all kinds. I love to hang out with friends. Mostly I like rock music,love going to concerts. I like to go out dancing too. I'm not very outdoorsy, but I like to go to the lake or beach. I go to the gym on occasion but I am a plus size gal. If you like skinny girls, keep looking. I probably won't message you first because most guys seem to be looking for a girl with a perfect body and I'm far from it. I'm not a sports fan. I have a lot of tattoos and I'll probably get more. I don't care if you don't have tats, but you can't hate on mine. I've been a hairstylist for over 10 years, I love my job. I make my own schedule and I love it! Friends and family are very important to me. I love to travel. looking for a SMART, funny, guy who has his act together. I need to stress smart, if everything in your profile is misspelled I will most likely not be interested. Being able to have intelligent conversation is pretty important. I don't smoke and I don't want to be with a smoker. I only drink occasionally and I'm not interested in someone who drinks daily, even if its just one or two. And most importantly, I'm so not interested in anyone who does drugs of any kind. I have never been with a romantic, attentive man, and I'd really like to be. I want someone who is thoughtful and sweet and affectionate and who isn't afraid to be that way in front of his friends. I'm not a religious person, that's not to say I don't have morals or values. I believe you need to treat people the way you want to be treated. I am a good person and want to be with a good person. PS... I own a Harley motorcycle helmet!If you say you want to "meet me" send me a message or I won't reply to that I prefer to date within my own race. Sorry if that offends you, it's just my preference. its scary to meet for the first time. maybe a public place where we can relax and have a drink. Starbucks would be perfect

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