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Aniyah, 42

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About Me

I'm looking to get to know someone first, not rush right into a serious relationship. I really hope to meet someone with an infectious smile and who is happy in general that sees the glass half full.I enjoy the movies, cars, motorcycles/ ATVs, dining, watching some sports, cooking, volunteer work, and gathering with friends. Music.. I'll just break that down because I love it and it varies from 80s hair bands & 90s alternative to the modern stuff, some classical, celtic, and classic rock; I don't do rap at all, it depends on which punk era, and country is ok for you but hasn't grown on me yet. Tattoos...so many to love but none of my own, yet, simply because I can't choose. Piercings..some are ok, everywhere=not. I have an honest & faithful heart, free spirit personality and I like to steer clear of the foofoo drama crowds. I'm casual and comfortable, prefer beer over wine, and know how to take care of myself but it's great to share life with others ;) I'm a work in progress at the gym with coming off a complicated shoulder injury.First impression of me might be a bit shy or reserved but when I crack, you'll find someone that loves to laugh and have a good time, with a twist of sarcasm (who, me? never). I'm not into the bar and dancing scenes anymore; I’m just a casual lady with a laid back life looking for someone to spend it with. I'm a West Coast transplant so distance isn't a major concern of mine-I'm used to commutes...lol. Why limit yourself to a zone when your soul mate cold be anywhere? My kids are grown but yours are fine; not interested in physically having more myself. Honesty is a must; if that’s not your style then please pass on by. Guys-I'm not into the games & drama, serial daters, or those desiring to have an online/texting relationships-I expect to see & know the real you. And if you like to hunt animals, I’m sorry but it’s not for me-so that’s up to you to decide, but I personally won't partake in it. I think attraction is a big part of chemistry, BUT it is not limited to just appearance; it has to come from within as much as it does from the surface. Things in common are great, but I believe everyone needs their differences too. I have my tried & trues, but I'm also open to exploring & learning new experiences.My ideal man knows what he wants and is comfortable with whom he is and where he's headed. He can talk openly with me about anything (later on) but also enjoys quiet time together and/or apart. He is gracious, yet fun and knows when to be which; comfortable in his own skin, but can dress it up on occasion; compassionate with others; loves animals & nature; cares about himself, but doesn’t obsess about it. He is open to continual growth and can commit to a transparent relationship; takes responsibility for his choices, but learns from them as well (we all make mistakes).Questions, want to know more, chat & see where it goes? Then you have to make that step to let me know ;) Good luck in your search! Open for discussion-too many choices. Somewhere comfortable for both to meet, grab a coffee or drink & then take it from there

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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