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Blossom
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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
So here I am on a dating site with a mess of people that are from broken families. I'm looking for a family man and most of you have already raised your own children or still have children you are raising.Some of you have never had children.The problem with dating at this age with children still at home…Those who do not have children at home want to run free and spontaneous (not easy for me but I try!)Those who do have children at home don't have a lot of time for dating, like me! It takes quite a while before the children should be introduced so that THEN you can spend more time together.OR, some have never had children and just don't get it!Also everyone seems to have hang ups and insecurities.I just can't imagine having those at this age!Life is precious, simple, and too short for all this drama and emotions.Emotions are fleeting! This means they come and go and have nothing to do with the meaning of life. They simply propel us through life if you choose to allow that to happen to you.If looks are THAT important to you, anyone can be anything they want. You want a Barbie Doll, I can do that!The only thing I can not change about myself is how tall I am.So get over your problems, I'm getting over mine and let's have fun!ONE IMPORTANT THING I HAVE LEARNED THROUGH DATING AND IT DOES RULE ME, if I have my feelings hurt early on in the game then, it's over before it even began and I'm out.Just a boast: I have the most amazing kids in the World, great little people that have hearts of GOLD. I take pride in that and think it speaks volumes about me! --PROUD!LOVE THIS SONG, so I'll share :)"…That's something to be proud ofThat's a life you can hang your hat onYou don't need to make a millionJust be thankful to be workin'If you're doing what you're ableAnd putting food there on the tableAnd providing for the family that you loveThat's something to be proud ofAnd if all you ever really do is the best you canWell, you did it man…"-- Something To Be Proud OfI've chatted with hundreds of guys on this site. I have met a little more than a few, not a lot. I have dated a few.The chats go well. I'm easy to talk to. I'm always down to chat unless at work or sleeping. :PSome guys give up after a few chats if I don't throw myself at them. Narrowing them down, I like it like that.Some guys want to meet asap! Not gonna happen, it's uncomfortable. Some guys want me to come to their house! WTF is wrong with you guys?!Some guys actually try and develop a friendship with me to see what I have to offer. I like that!Then the next step is to meet. I have met a few guys that just weren't who they said they were. Awkward!But I have met a few guys I would have liked to get to know better but they just didn't feel it with me.Those guys are either still friends or completely just disappeared. (looking for perfect which I am not!)I mean I'm hoping someday to find a man that thinks I am perfect, perfect for him!Then I have met guys that we both felt something awesome and pursued it. Started dating. HOWEVER, I have learned long distance does NOT work and since I am such a survivor and giver I will not quit over distance. Sooo needless to say I am the one who gets dumped with an apology. It's happened twice."Sorry it wasn't my intention to hurt you." Apology NOT accepted. :/So I am just NOT going to go there anymore.I am a fricken amazing woman that has so much to offer a true man.I need an amazing man in my life that can offer me unconditional honesty and faithfulness.If I can't find that on here I hope I find it elsewhere. If I don't find it at all, then, eh... that's not what life is about anyway.I think I get life and how it works. It just works.
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Sunday
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Searching for...my friend, lover, possible soul mate! And preferable someone who also has a motorcycle!!!! Someone Id look forward to growing old with!Hmmm...a little about me. I'm about to start a new journey on life. My son just graduated high school and will be leaving soon to go off to college. I would say it's bitter sweet for me. I have a high energy level (most the time). I don’t mind getting my hands dirty. I'm in no way a princess!! I can be a bit of a goofball (not a blonde), but can also be serious. Most tell me that I always have a smile on my face. Enough about me.I'm looking for someone who wants to do stuff that I’m interested in doing, not just ONLY what he wants to do and let me tag along! I'm not saying we have to do EVERYTHING together (There’s always guys or girls night out). Oh, something that’s NOT on my plate...If you’re a big drinker, and want to spend ALOT of time at the bars, keep moving!! Also I DONT want to meet any jellyfish (no backbone). I DO want someone who's upfront about their feelings and thoughts, from the 1st moment you meet! For example u meet someone, realize its just not a connection, so tell them the TRUTH! Appearance is important to me, thats the 1st thing you see is the profile pic! Ive got to be physically attracted to the person! That dosnt mean drop dead georgous, just gotta see that spark!...ok she's better looking and I'm not a princess!) Prefer between the ages of ***. IF YOU PLAN ON MESSAGEING ME, YOU "NEED" TO HAVE AN UP-TO-DATE PICTURE OF YOUSELF THAT I CAN SEE, OTHERWISE PLEASE "DONT" MESSAGE ME!!! Last but not least, I'm fine with messaging on here at 1st, but would like to meet face to face...gets old with only messaging or ***! Reminds me of a teenager thing... Meeting up for coffee or a drink then maybe supper. Give me some of your ideas!!
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Brooklynn
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I am an outgoing and social, you won't be bored with me. I love meeting new and like minded people. I am caring, funny, and easygoing. I have a lot of energy and I am very entertaining and cute.P.S. Please, attach your current picture in your correspondence if there is none in your profile. 1. Go rollerblading - better yet, go roller-skating. 2. Go 'people watching' at the coffee shop - it can be fun just sit and talk.3. Friendly match at Chuck E Cheese's. Looser buys drinks.4. A round of miniature golf. Winner picks up the tab at the local coffee shop.5. Suggest something easy, fun, and dear to your heart :-)