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Betsy, 42

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About Me

I am awesome and you should message me. If you are normal. I'm just a nice girl, looking for a nice guy.- If you do not have any pictures up you are not the guy for me. I would never date a bodyless cartoon character head.- If you have dancing banana emoticons all over your profile you are not the guy for me.- If you have misplaced your sense of humor or your sarcasm meter is broken we probably won't get along.- If you are a serial online dater and/or are not truly available you are not the guy for me. As entertaining as it can be sometimes, I truly am seeking more than a pen pal or an imaginary text boyfriend. My goal is to not be a troll and get off the www and out into the real world with someone of some substance.- I recently changed my body type on here from average to a few extra pounds. Yeah, I know. It is what it is. Unlike some folks I prefer not to start off as a big fat liar lips should I actually go out on a limb and meet one of you potential serial killers in person. No. Am I in peak fighting condition? No, not at this time. Do I look exactly like my pics? Yes. Even the bikini one? Yes. However, I think by me putting average some of you guys are expecting a human pencil. Never been a stick figure, have always had curves, lovely curves at that, however in fairness I am here to admit on the www that said curves are a little more curvy of late and need attention. It's true. My lame excuse is my 80hr work week schedule of the past year has had me camped at my desk and living on take out food and it caught up with me. It happens. The beautiful thing is that the effects of workaholism are reversible. Anyhoo, just want to make you judgemental judy's aware is all, as photo and profile deceit is never fun, am I right? Now I'm off to go eat some more kale...yay me. What I would not do: ask you for a loan, discuss my ring size, bring along a scrapbook of what our babies would look like, talk about my unicorn collection, etc.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dung

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm a great woman, secure and happy, fun & love to laugh. My second grade son is the light of my life. He has a father who is involved in his life, I'm not looking for that role to be fulfilledI have a great career that I enjoy; I travel for work some weeks and other weeks I'm home. I volunteer at my son's school when time allows. I love tropical vacations and weekends in Vegas. I love going out to dinner and enjoying drinks and conversation.I love brunchI love Sunday footballI love listening to the high school band practice in the fall, I can hear them in my yardI love yellow flowers A casual meet & greet and see where it takes us

  • Kalisha

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Im here to find the real thing. So tired of the games. First of all I am brutally honest and I always say what I think and some people just can't handle that. Im looking for a man that I have some things in common with because I found out that opposites may attract in the beginning, but it does not work out for me in the long run.I am not looking for a man to take care of me. I am not a lazy person and I like to work although times are tough right now for my son & I, we will be making a comeback, you can bet on that. I don't care to waste my time on someone who is materialistic & only likes someone for what they have. Also not interested in someone just looking to get in my pants. If that's what I wanted I wouldn't need the internet. I need someone who will be a good role model for my son cuz he comes 1st. I am an active person so you must be able to keep up with me to hang with me. Drinking in moderation is okay cuz I like a glass of wine or a couple of beers on occasion, but I just can't be with another alcoholic. Its just not good for me or my son. I grew up in the country & will always be a country girl but I like the city & love the beach. If you like what you see I look forward to hearing from you. My idea of a fun first date would be nothing extravagent.A nice relaxing lunch somewhere quiet.Im a bit of a tomboy but I love romance.I think we should spend the day together to see if we really want to see each other again.If all goes well then maybe dinner & a drink at a good restaurant is the way to top off the day.What do ya think?

  • Priscila

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hopefully you'll find some humor in some of what I've written, if not...oops! They say honesty is the best policy---here it is!I am just your normal, average woman. I have moods, emotions and feelings. I'm very compassionate and understanding...I think that has something to do with the overdose of bad luck and hardships I have fallen on the past few years. I am not materialistic at all but that doesn't mean I don't like nice things, I just don't demand them nor do I pout when I don't get them. I have 2 older sons and A LOT of time on my hands so I would really like someone who has more than a few hours a week to squeeze me into their schedule. I'm not into the part-time thing, to me, that's just a waste of time.I'M IN NO RUSH. If it doesn't feel right on BOTH sides then it's not worth wasting each other's time. (NOT negotiable. No, I'm not kidding and yes, I have more than a few very good reason for wanting someone local. My zip code is ***, please look it up if you're not sure how far you are from me).Is close to my age ( I generally like guys who are younger...IDK why that is but it just is).Is 5'10' or taller~I don't want to be taller than you if i'm wearing heels (Due to an ankle injury, I very rarely wear heels so, yes, this IS negotiable)Doesn't do drugs (of any kind-they're totally unacceptable to me)Doesn't smoke or only smokes occasionally like when he has a few drinks (I quit less than a year ago so it's still hard for me to be around cigarettes.)Has some type of a job and can pay his own bills (I'm too poor to support you. Don't worry, I don't expect you to support me).Isn't hung up on his crazy x girlfriend Likes to go out and do something...anything!Wants a serious relationshipIsn't afraid of communicationIsn't a douche!I can be very sarcastic and I swear quite a bit so if my sick sense of humor and 'potty' mouth is going to offend you then we might have a problem getting along. I do, however, know how to 'behave' myself in public, meaning that I am not loud, aggressive or obnoxious in any way. Yes, I do smile and I have all my teeth and they're not busted up in any way. I just really dislike having my picture taken whether it be by me or someone else so what's here is what I have, PLEASE don't ask for more. Besides, I can't tell you how many people post fake pictures, old pictures, blurry pictures or pictures with sunglasses on and look nothing like you thought they'd look. While sex is an important part of a relationship, meeting a few to several times casually does NOT constitute a relationship! I am not here for sex, I can go to my local bar and get that any time I want if that was what I was into-which I am not.I ruined my ankle a couple of years ago which means I can't run, jump, hop, skip, jog, dance, wrestle, sky dive, ski, skate, snow tube (not that I did these things before but I just wanted you to be aware that I do have limitations)...ah screw it, I can't do sh*t and it sucks but it is what it is. I can, however, walk and I can do it just fine! No, I don't limp and no, I don't use a cane or furniture to help me get around :-)~ I'm not into the whole 'first date' thing. I'd prefer to meet and hang out somewhere comfortable and casual (Dunkin Donuts, the mall, the library, (huh?) etc) where we can just talk and get to know each other with no pressure.

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