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Blossom
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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
So here I am on a dating site with a mess of people that are from broken families. I'm looking for a family man and most of you have already raised your own children or still have children you are raising.Some of you have never had children.The problem with dating at this age with children still at home…Those who do not have children at home want to run free and spontaneous (not easy for me but I try!)Those who do have children at home don't have a lot of time for dating, like me! It takes quite a while before the children should be introduced so that THEN you can spend more time together.OR, some have never had children and just don't get it!Also everyone seems to have hang ups and insecurities.I just can't imagine having those at this age!Life is precious, simple, and too short for all this drama and emotions.Emotions are fleeting! This means they come and go and have nothing to do with the meaning of life. They simply propel us through life if you choose to allow that to happen to you.If looks are THAT important to you, anyone can be anything they want. You want a Barbie Doll, I can do that!The only thing I can not change about myself is how tall I am.So get over your problems, I'm getting over mine and let's have fun!ONE IMPORTANT THING I HAVE LEARNED THROUGH DATING AND IT DOES RULE ME, if I have my feelings hurt early on in the game then, it's over before it even began and I'm out.Just a boast: I have the most amazing kids in the World, great little people that have hearts of GOLD. I take pride in that and think it speaks volumes about me! --PROUD!LOVE THIS SONG, so I'll share :)"…That's something to be proud ofThat's a life you can hang your hat onYou don't need to make a millionJust be thankful to be workin'If you're doing what you're ableAnd putting food there on the tableAnd providing for the family that you loveThat's something to be proud ofAnd if all you ever really do is the best you canWell, you did it man…"-- Something To Be Proud OfI've chatted with hundreds of guys on this site. I have met a little more than a few, not a lot. I have dated a few.The chats go well. I'm easy to talk to. I'm always down to chat unless at work or sleeping. :PSome guys give up after a few chats if I don't throw myself at them. Narrowing them down, I like it like that.Some guys want to meet asap! Not gonna happen, it's uncomfortable. Some guys want me to come to their house! WTF is wrong with you guys?!Some guys actually try and develop a friendship with me to see what I have to offer. I like that!Then the next step is to meet. I have met a few guys that just weren't who they said they were. Awkward!But I have met a few guys I would have liked to get to know better but they just didn't feel it with me.Those guys are either still friends or completely just disappeared. (looking for perfect which I am not!)I mean I'm hoping someday to find a man that thinks I am perfect, perfect for him!Then I have met guys that we both felt something awesome and pursued it. Started dating. HOWEVER, I have learned long distance does NOT work and since I am such a survivor and giver I will not quit over distance. Sooo needless to say I am the one who gets dumped with an apology. It's happened twice."Sorry it wasn't my intention to hurt you." Apology NOT accepted. :/So I am just NOT going to go there anymore.I am a fricken amazing woman that has so much to offer a true man.I need an amazing man in my life that can offer me unconditional honesty and faithfulness.If I can't find that on here I hope I find it elsewhere. If I don't find it at all, then, eh... that's not what life is about anyway.I think I get life and how it works. It just works.
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Ashly
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I am a very outgoing and social woman. I love meeting new and like minded people. I'm always up for a good time. I'm very caring, funny and cute. I have a lot of energy and am very entertaining and talkative. I love to be spoiled by my man but enjoy returning the favor. I am a romantic at heart and loved being swept off my feet. I have a lust for ally things great in this world, great food, great friends and great adventures. A first date would be something casual and non stressful for either of us. An outside lunch over the water or casual drink to break the ice and get to know each other.
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Lyric
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I am a very independent and ambitious woman, I currently own 2 small businesses and work full time in addition to raising my children. I enjoy my work and spending time with my family. In what spare time I have I enjoy riding my motorcycle, playing pool, hunting, fishing and spending time with friends and family, and am open to new adventures and experiences. I'm not extremely into sports, typically only the ones my kids are playing at the time, but I can tolerate some sporting events. I also enjoy racing, I drove once in a Powder Puff race and won, and am hoping to have a race car of my own at some point. I'm new to this online dating experience and am a bit nervous about going this route. I'm not interested in playing games, intimate encounters or anything along those lines. If that is what you are looking for, please don't message me. I am also not looking for someone to take care of me so I don't have to work so hard, so if I ask about the type of work you do it is because I am genuinely interested...not because I want to know how much money you make.I am looking for someone that communicates well and I can have intelligent conversations with. I would like to have at least a few interests in common with them and they must be respectful, honest, romantic and like kids. I am always open to trying new things, and would like that in a partner as well. I've made some changes to my profile due to some feedback I've received lately, so I thought I would also add...if you are looking for a typical girly girl, I am not what you are looking for. In addition to the hunting and fishing (yes I will gut my deer and clean my fish), I also work on cars and don't have an issue with getting dirty or worry about breaking a nail. If you are still interested after all this, please message me and I will get back to you. It may take me few days (I do get a bit busy sometimes), but I will answer. I think that should be decided after talkng and getting to know each other a little better. I'm good with coffee, dinner, long walk, a park where we can just sit and talk...let's just play it by ear and see what happens.